Factsheet 5: Advocacy Advocacy can help you to have your say if it’s hard for you to make other people listen and take notice. Advocacy is especially useful for parents who have mental health issues or learning difficulties, parents involved in child protection proceedings or if dealing with many different professionals at once. An advocate can help you make sure that the things that matter to you are taken into account if decisions are made about you or your family. Finding independent advocacy Parents who use mental health services, those with learning difficulties, and others if needed, should be helped to find independent advocacy from different organisations involved with disability, parenting and welfare. One independent advocacy provider with experience in supporting disabled parents especially in child safeguarding matters is Equal Lives. My advocate is a godsend. She’s like a dog with a bone. An advocate won’t tell you what you should do. They make sure you have information about your rights and options so that you can make informed decisions that suit you and your family best. An advocate can help you decide what you need to have choice and control in your life. An advocate will support you to speak up for yourself, and will only speak on your behalf if you ask them to do so. Independent advocates work for the person asking for support, not other people or services. Some services have advisors to make it easier to use their services. Many of these advisors also have an advocacy role, but their independence may be limited by the service. Contact Equal Lives on tel: 01508 491210 or email info@equallives.org.uk, www.equallives.org.uk Equal Lives may also be able to support parents in talking to Social Services to make sure money paid from a Personal Budget is enough for the amount of care needed. They can also help with housing issues or other matters which affect your life. Advocacy should be arranged for any disabled parent who needs it in Community Care assessments, or if there are adult or child safeguarding issues. Page 1 of 2 Self advocacy Self advocacy happens when people learn to speak up for themselves, as individuals or a group. It’s easier when you meet others with the same issues. When I first came to the self advocacy group I was very shy. Now I’m more confident and I don’t take nonsense from anyone. Norfolk Disabled Parents is led by disabled parents working for choice and equality for all disabled parents and their families. Visit www.norfolkparents.org.uk for our factsheets and films of disabled parents sharing their experiences. Our factsheets include • Personal Budgets and Direct Payments • Planning your assessment More information about advocacy, benefits, illness and disability Equal Lives tel: 01508 491570 www.equallives.org.uk DIAL Great Yarmouth tel: 01493 856900 www.dial-greatyarmouth.org.uk • Personal assistants • Eligibility • Advocacy • Young Carers • Schools • Norfolk’s Disabled Parents Protocol Norfolk Disabled Parents WNDiS (West Norfolk) tel: 01553 782558 www.wndis.org.uk First Focus (Fakenham) tel: 01328 855083 www.firstfocus.org email: info@firstfocus.org info@norfolkparents.org.uk www.norfolkparents.org.uk Phone: 078 525 989 54 145 Main Road, Clenchwarton, Kings Lynn, Norfolk PE34 4DT Gingerbread Single parents Helpline 0808 802 0925. Factsheets www.gingerbread.org.uk Parents with disabled children www.familyvoice.org.uk; www.norfolkparentpartnership.org.uk © NDP Apr 2013 Page 2 of 2