“Coping With Criticism”
1 Corinthians 4:1-5
Big Idea: As servants of Christ we now that God is our judge and what others think of
us is secondary to how God views us.
Different Kinds of Criticism
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Constructive Criticism - Ecclesiastes 7:5
Destructive Criticism
Why Do People Criticize?
“Often those that criticize others reveal what he himself lacks.” Shannon L. Alder
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People criticize leaders in their attempts to discern whom they can trust.
People criticize because they want to feel superior.
People criticize when they are searching for truth.
People criticize because they have nothing better to do.
People criticize when they believe leaders are not meeting their needs and
expectations.
Practical Steps in Dealing with Criticism
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Evaluate your personal reactions when you’re criticized - James 1:6-8
Don’t take a defensive posture - especially at the moment of criticism Proverbs 15:31
Don’t get caught up in an extended argument - Proverbs 26:4
Offer a strong, truthful, and even confrontational response if you are quite
certain the critic is being destructive - Ephesians 4:15
Take your time in responding to criticism - Proverbs 15:28
Understand the source of criticism - Titus 1:15
Use trusted friends and the voice of Scripture to evaluate criticism about
important issues - Proverbs 27:6
Remember, if we do any work that is significant—especially spiritual
work—it will create criticism.
“To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, and be nothing.” Aristotle
Application: Here is an important truth…“You may find hundreds of faultfinders
among professed Christians; but all their criticism will not lead one solitary soul to
Christ.” Dwight L. Moody