1 Appendix S1. Coherence between pairing success measured in the laboratory and observed pairing 2 frequency in the field 3 Under laboratory conditions, amphipods originating from MOTUs genetically diverging by 4 approximately 3% formed an amplexus in 85% of trials. This means that, when amphipods from these 5 MOTUs meet, they have a 0.85 probability of pairing up. Their probability of meeting up depends on 6 their respective frequency in the population they originate from. Consider p(A) as being the 7 frequency of the MOTU A in the population and p(B) as the frequency of the MOTU B. Note that 8 these frequencies do not need to sum up to one, as other MOTUs may also be present in the 9 population. The probability for an A individual of meeting a B individual is Pm = 2 × p(A) × p(B). The 10 sex ratio is assumed to be even (which is the case in the populations we sampled) so Pm does not 11 depend on whether a male A encounters a female B or the opposite. Probability of pairing between 12 individuals A and B is thus Pm = 2 × p(A) × p(B) under random pairing and Pnon-random = 2 × p(A) × p(B) × 13 0.85 when individuals follow the same rules for pairing as in our laboratory experiment. Determining 14 whether individuals do or do not discriminate between potential partners involves comparing the 15 frequencies of observed MOTU A/MOTU B pairs to the odd of finding such pairs if individuals were 16 pairing without discrimination. This is done by computing an odds ratio as a measure of effect size of 17 the difference between observed and expected frequencies for the considered pairing combination. 18 Considering that we sample MOTU A/MOTU B pairs from a natural population where individuals do 19 follow the rules described in our experiment, how many pairs would we need to sample to detect 20 that individuals from MOTU A and MOTU B only mate 85% of the time? Figure S2 represents the 21 odds ratio of the difference between observed frequency of pairing and the frequency of pairing 22 expected under no discrimination between A and B individuals, as a function of the number of pairs 23 sampled. For this example, p(A) = p(B) = 0.5. Expected frequency of MOTU A/MOTU B pairs is thus Pm 24 = 2 × 0.5² = 0.5 while the observed frequency should be Pnon-random = 2 × 0.5² × 0.85 = 0.425. In order 25 to be confident about the statistical significance of the difference between observed and expected 26 pairing frequencies (i.e. when the confidence interval of the odd ratio does not cross 1), a minimum 1 27 of 400 amphipod pairs should be sampled (Fig. S2). Biasing the frequency of one MOTU at the 28 expense of the other MOTU or decreasing the frequencies of both MOTUs only increases the number 29 of pairs needed to detect a statistically significant effect (result not shown). In the populations we 30 studied, it is possible that amphipods from MOTU genetically diverging by approximately 3% paired 31 up with a 0.85 probability. However, as we sampled about 100 couples per population, it is unlikely 32 that we could have detected a statistically significant difference between observed and expected 33 pairing frequencies between these MOTUs. This may explain the discrepancy between our field 34 observations and laboratory results. 35 Fig. S2. Odds ratio of the difference between observed frequency of pairing and the frequency of 36 pairing expected when individuals originating from genetically divergent MOTUs (~ 3%) pair up 37 without discrimination, as a function of the number of sampled pairs. Red lines represent the 95% 38 confidence interval for odd ratios. p(A) = p(B) = 0.5 39 2