Lindsey Gamrat NURS-S474 Letter to Coach #2 From day one, we have been told in our nursing classes that a nurse should be an advocate for the patient. It is something that we have heard over and over again despite almost all of us admitting that we do not know what it truly means to be an advocate, yet alone how to act as one. Merriam Webster defines the verb “advocate” as “to support or argue for; to plead in favor of." Our ATI textbook takes this definition further by explaining that nursing advocacy specifically involves ensuring that patients are properly informed, their rights are respected and that they are receiving the proper level of care. This description is vague but is representative of the kind of education on advocacy that we have thus far received. We are told that we should be advocates and given a basic outline of what that should look like, but no one has taught us how to be this voice for the patient. In order to be an advocate for a patient, it is my belief that we also need to learn how to be an advocate for our profession and for ourselves. If a nurse is not confident in her abilities and questions her role as a nurse, how is she able to take her work to a deeper level and truly fight for the patient and his or her beliefs? Sometimes, the nurse may not agree with the patient or family’s beliefs and yet she is still expected to serve as an advocate. We have not been prepared to deal with these types of moral dilemmas until this ethics course near the end of our education. To be an advocate, one must understand their moral background and anticipate their reactions to patient situations. He or she must also not be afraid to voice concerns and speak to individuals at a higher authority to collaborate and provide the best care for the patient. Even though if you ask any nursing student they would state that the patient should always come first, we have demonstrated that this is not the case. Most of us would put our fear of losing a job, “bothering” a busy MD, being wrong and thus ridiculed, etc. in front of the patient’s care. I am not really sure that I know why this is the case, but it seems to be the truth. At this point in our nursing education, we are unsure and unconfident in our roles and unprepared to deal with these types of situations. Advocacy is something that I feel cannot really be taught in a class or textbook. I honestly feel that our best bet to become more prepared before entering the workplace is being enrolled in this course. Many of us were not even aware that we did not know how to be an advocate; we were just told that as a nurse we were automatically a patient advocate. This course has made us aware that it is much more complex than that. By engaging in Socratic dialogue and being challenged in ways that we have not been challenged before, I feel that this is the best preparation we have had to become a good advocate for our future patients. We have been put outside our comfort zone and forced to question our own moral backgrounds and reasoning skills. This type of course is allowing us to begin practicing dealing with these feelings of insecurity and moral questioning and confront them. By the end of our time in this class, we will still probably not be able to adequately advocate for a patient but we will have a very strong foundation to build upon once we enter the profession. Most importantly, we have been made aware of the issue of advocacy and that we are lacking. Personally this concerns me and my future practice and I know that I will work hard to understand what it truly means to advocate for patients and put the skills that I learn into practice.