NEW DIRECTIONS IN SEXUAL ETHICS Essays in Response to the AIDS Pandemic by Kevin T Kelly CONTENTS Preface A ROUTE-MAP TO HELP READERS 1 Prologue HEARING THE CHALLENGE OF THE AIDS PANDEMIC: A MORAL THEOLOGIAN TELLS HIS STORY 8 Women and HIV/AIDS 11 The ‘pro women’ challenge to the church and to Christian sexual ethics 16 Widening the agenda: the need for a renewed sexual ethics 18 Listening to experience 21 Chap 1 NEW DIRECTIONS? 30 Why do we need ‘New Directions’ in Sexual Ethics? 30 A process in which change is transforming rather than deforming 32 Understanding ourselves as historical, social and cultural persons 35 Social construction and natural law 37 The challenge of gender analysis 43 Chap 2 CHRISTIAN SEXUAL ETHICS AND INJUSTICE AGAINST WOMEN - A CASE OF COLLUSION? 49 The roots of injustice against women lie deep in history 49 A sign of hope: The ‘pro-women’ teaching of Pope John Paul II 55 The Pope and gender: how complimentary to women is ontological complementarity? 60 The experience of women 65 Collusion with injustice against women? 69 Chap 3 SEXUAL ETHICS - DENYING THE GOOD NEWS TO GAY MEN AND LESBIAN WOMEN? 75 The link between patriarchy and homophobia 75 The dissimilarity of lesbian and gay experience 76 A disturbing question: does the Christian stance on homosexuality help to spread HIV/AIDS? 77 Learning from experience 79 Finding the appropriate theological language for the experience of gays and lesbians 83 (a) The use and abuse of the language of ‘natural’ and ‘unnatural’ 84 (b) The use and abuse of the language of God’s word in the Bible 86 Towards a gay and lesbian theology and spirituality: Woundedness and healing 91 A ‘time of AIDS’ a time for positive living and positive thinking 100 The Gospel as ‘good news’ for gays and lesbians 104 Chap 4 WHAT THE CHURCHES ARE SAYING 109 Church statements: listening to an on-going conversation 109 The conversation begins: birth control - disagreeing about the relevance of the human context for moral evaluation 113 Widening the agenda: giving more importance to relationship - a Quaker view of sex 123 Marriage breakdown: a Church of England contribution 127 A Roman Catholic contribution - Vatican II 130 The joy of married sexual love: a Methodist contribution 131 Two contributions about homosexual relationships 133 1. The Church of England 133 2. The Evangelican Lutheran Church in America 136 The Church of England and cohabitation: introducing ‘diversity of life-style as a new topic in the conversation 137 Two contributions drawing together the many threads of the conversation 141 1. The Church of Scotland 142 2. The Presbyterian Church (USA) 146 Conclusion 149 Chap 5 TOWARDS A SEXUAL ETHICS IN A TIME OF AIDS 153 (1) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in the FULL AND EQUAL DIGNITY OF WOMEN AS HUMAN PERSONS as a major touch-stone in our age for judging the credibility of the church’s commitment to the dignity of the human person 156 (1) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in HUMAN FREEDOM 158 (2) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in FRIENDSHIP, INTIMACY and LOVE164 (3) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in the GOODNESS OF THE HUMAN BODY, SEXUALITY AND SENSUAL JOY 171 (4) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in the GIFTEDNESS OF HUMAN LIFE 181 (5) A Christian sexual ethics for today must be based on belief in the UNIQUENESS OF THE HUMAN PERSON and, therefore, respect for PERSONAL CONSCIENCE 188 (a) To your own self be true 189 (b) Respect for Conscience: personal goodness not synonymous with ethical rightness 192 (c) The uniqueness of each person’s story of moral growth 194 Chap 6 SEXUALITY AND SIN 197 Sex is not sinful: it is a gift of God 197 Patriarchy as sexual sin - and the sexual sin of collusion in patriarchy 198 ‘Doing the best one can’ in sexual ethics 201 Sexual sin and sexual sins 204 Is it wrong to engage in casual and uncommitted sex? 205 Chap 7 LIVING AND LOVING POSITIVELY IN A TIME OF AIDS 210 Living positively with AIDS: a lesson from Uganda 210 Is the church living positively with AIDS? Yes, but... 214 (1) Is a diocese or religious congregation is living positively with AIDS if it demands the compulsory testing of candidates for the priesthood or the religious life? 216 (2) Is the church is living positively with AIDS when it opposes using condoms as a help towards preventing HIV infection? 218 (a) Condom use as a component in governmental HIV prevention programmes 218 (b) The use of condoms within marriage when one partner is HIV infected 226 Epilogue A TIME OF AIDS - A TIME OF GRACE? 229 A ‘time of AIDS’ 229 A time of grace: - a window of opportunity for our global society? 232 Words Total Prologue 2,548 Introduction 8,823 Chap 1 7,266 Chap 2 9,742 Chap 3 13,217 Chap 4 16,471 Chap 5 16,671 Chap 6 4,992 Chap 7 7,699 Epilogue 2,632 90,061