Understanding Sexual Assault USMC Annual Sexual Assault Prevention Training Overview • Marine Corps Order 1752.5 • Sexual Assault Defined • Common Myths • Offender Characteristics • Sexual Assault Trauma Syndrome • Risk Reduction Suggestions • Reporting Procedures 2 Marine Corps Order 1752.5 • Zero tolerance for sexual assault • Sexual assault is a criminal act • Victims have access to appropriate assistance • Perpetrators of sexual assault will be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law 3 Impact on Readiness • Diminishes the reputation and prestige of the Marine Corps • Creates serious morale problems • Destroys esprit de corps • Trauma for victims can create short-term as well as life-long problems • Impacts everyone in the unit 4 DoD Definition Sexual assault is defined as intentional sexual contact, characterized by the use of force, physical threat or abuse of authority or when the victim does not or cannot consent. Sexual Assault is a Crime 5 DoD Definition “Consent” shall not be deemed or construed to mean the failure by the victim to offer physical resistance. Consent is not given when a person uses force, threat of force, coercion or when the victim is asleep, incapacitated, or unconscious. 6 DoD Definition • Sexual assault includes rape, nonconsensual sodomy (oral or anal sex), indecent assault (unwanted, inappropriate sexual contact or fondling), or attempts to commit these acts • Sexual assault can occur without regard to gender or spousal relationship or age of victim • Is not the same as sexual harassment 7 Sexual Assault Includes: • Rape • Sodomy • Indecent Assault • Any attempt of the above acts All Forms of Sexual Assault are Crimes 8 In the Civilian World • Every two minutes, someone is sexually assaulted in the United States • One out of six women (18%) and one out of 33 men (3%) are assaulted 9 Sexual Assault in Society • Wisconsin Teen Survey—2000 – 18 % said if a guy buys a girl dinner, he has the right to have sex with her – 42% believe if a girl or guy have been drinking & are a little drunk, it isn’t sexual assault if he forces her to have sex – 44% believe if there was prior consensual sex, it is not assault if he forces her later – 48% said that if a female consented and then later changed her mind and he had sex with her anyway, it wasn’t assault • Boston High School Student Survey—2002 – 7% of males ok to force female to have sex on a date – 11% ok if girl was drunk – 15% ok to use force if girl consented and then changed mind 10 Common Themes in the Military • Alcohol use/abuse – Majority of incidents • Acquaintance or co-worker • Consent is a muddy issue – “I didn’t want to..but didn’t say anything” – “She didn’t say ‘no’” – “She said ‘no’ but I thought she was kidding…” • Both victim and alleged perpetrator are commonly junior in rank and in their 20’s 11 Common Themes • Victims are young, impressionable, eager to belong, very sensitive to peer pressure, isolated from friends and family • Eager to prove themselves • Offenders may suffer from the shining star syndrome, “you mean this applies to me?” • Both hear lots of do’s and don’ts while striving for independence • Both look to their immediate supervisors and leaders to set the tone 12 Did You Know the Facts? 13 Myth or Fact? 1. Sexual Assault is a crime of passion 2. The sex offenders are usually a stranger lurking in a dark alley 14 Myth or Fact? 3. Offenders tend to target those who look vulnerable and easily intimidated, regardless of their age, physical attributes, or dress. 4. Women secretly want to be sexually assaulted. 15 Who Are The Offenders? 16 Offender Characteristics • 49.9% perceived to be between 21-29 years of age • 71% perceived to be under the influence of alcohol • 84.5% of cases involved no weapon other than hands, fists or feet 17 Offenders • Can and do look like "any one“ • Could be of any rank, any race, any age, a top performer, outstanding athlete, or the "good" Samaritan who offers help • Is the “good looking” Marine you meet • A fellow Marine or co-worker • Former intimate partner 18 Reminders for Evaluating Risk • A well-liked or squared away Marine does not mean the accused is telling the truth • Engaging in high risk behaviors does not mean the victim is lying or was “deserving” of the assault 19 The Undetected Offender: Non- Stranger Motto: “I am going to have sex tonight. If it is consensual, fine. But I am going to have sex tonight.” • Uses only the level of violence or force actually needed to reach the goal of having sex. 20 Sample question asked of 1,882 men: “Have you ever had sexual intercourse with an adult when they didn’t want to because you used physical force if they did not cooperate?” 21 Video • The Frank Tape 22 Dr. David Lisak’s Research Results • 1,882 men assessed, 120 were by definition, a rapist • More than 10% committed sexual assaults • Only one case was reported • 483 total sexual assaults • Average of four sexual assaults per offender 23 Types of Sexual Assault • Non-Stranger • Stranger • Gang • Male 24 Putting the Challenges into Context 25 Sexual Assault Trauma Syndrome • Victims have common reactions to sexual trauma • Reactions can be physical and emotional • Reactions are sometimes misinterpreted • Victims can be revictimized or retraumatized 26 Unique issues for male victims: • Often suffer profoundly from the idea that to be sexually assaulted is to lose one's manhood • Often confuse sexual assault victimization with homosexual identity • May request a female officer, insist that they were "assaulted" (denying the sexual component), or refuse to speak to a victim advocate • May aggressively assert their masculinity or heterosexuality following the assault 27 Is Sexual Assault Preventable? 28 Risk Reduction Tips • Know where you are at all times • Act like you know where you are going • Communicate your needs and wishes clearly • Be assertive • Avoid isolated situations and secluded places 29 Risk Reduction Tips • Use the buddy system • Trust your gut instincts or intuition • Be aware that the use of drugs or alcohol increases vulnerability (but does not cause sexual assault) • Always watch your drink and never leave it unattended. Don’t accept beverages from someone you don’t know or trust. 30 The message for Female Marines: • Be clear with the men in your life about what, if any, sexual behavior you are consenting to • Speak up if anything makes you feel uncomfortable • Practice situational awareness and if you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, get out • Always watch your drink and never leave it unattended. Don’t accept beverages from someone you don’t know or trust. 31 The message for Female Marines: • Important questions to consider: – What is his “reputation” among his peers or coworkers? Is he known as a “ladies man”? – Does his group of male friends have a reputation for sexual conquests? – Has he ever been accused of sexual misconduct? – Does he have a reputation for trying to get his dates drunk? 32 The message for Male Marines: • Never assume to know what a woman wants. Check all sexual activity out verbally. If you feel you are getting a double message, say so. If she says she is not sure, assume the answer is “no” and let it go. • If a woman says “maybe,” but then decides “no,” take no for an answer. • Never think a woman owes you sex, under any circumstances. • Accept a woman’s decision when she says “no.” 33 The message for Male Marines: • Understand that if a woman is under the influence and you have sex with her without her consent, it is still sexual assault: Unconscious Victim + Sexual Penetration = Sexual Assault Incapacitated Victim + Sexual Penetration = Sexual Assault 34 The message for Male Marines: • Without a clear yes, pressing on can result in: – Tarnished image with peers, family, coworkers, and unit – Emotional strain of being accused – Stress of investigation – Potential legal consequences 35 As a Leader • Create a climate that is respectful to all • Become thoroughly familiar with Marine Corps policy regarding sexual assault • Do not allow the behavior of a few to tarnish the prestige of the Marine Corps • Interrupt inappropriate behavior • Cut off sexually demeaning story-telling, joking or bantering. 36 Leader (Continued) • Hold all accountable for sexually demeaning and aggressive behavior • Report all incidents of sexual assault to the Provost Marshal Office (PMO) • Become familiar with the resources in your community 37 The Message for All Alcohol and drug use on the part of the offender and/or the victim is one of the most important factors that contribute to acquaintance/date rape Drink responsibly! 38 Reporting a Suspected Sexual Assault 39 Mandatory Reporting • All Marines are mandatory reporters of actual, suspected, or alleged sexual assaults • Exception: Uniformed Victim Advocates (UVAs), Sexual Assault Response Coordinators (SARCs), Chaplains, and DoD Medical Personnel. 40 Reporting Options • Unrestricted – PMO, CDO – NCIS – An active duty member • Restricted Reporting – – – – – UVA “Restricted Reporting” means that a victim can receive SARC advocacy support, medical treatment, Medical and counseling services without triggering an investigation. Chaplain M&FS Counselors 41 If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted • Get to a safe place • Call a victim advocate who can help you • Preserve evidence • Get medical attention 42 Victim Assistance 43 Contact Information • Help is available 24 hours, 7 days a week and 365 days a year for victims of sexual assault – Military One Source 800-342-9647 • Contact the local Marine & Family Services, BAS, CSH, or local MTF for assistance during duty hours • After duty hours contact the local Military Police (unrestricted reports) or Military One Source (restricted reports), who will refer you to a Victim Advocate for assistance and support 44 Uniformed Victim Advocates • UVAs represent the command as an advocate 24/7, as a collateral duty to support military victims of sexual assault • All of the following are required to provide a minimum 2 UVAs: – Deployable Battalions, Squadrons, and Equivalent Size Commands – Marine Forces Reserve – Training & Education Commands • UVAs provide initial support and a warm handoff to an installation Victim Advocate for ongoing case management 45 Sexual Assault Hotlines National Sexual Violence Resource Center 877-739-3895 (toll free) (24 hour access to information, resources, and research regarding sexual assault) Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) 635-B Pennsylvania Avenue, SE Washington, DC 20003 800-656-HOPE (Note: This number will connect you to your local rape crisis center.) Military One Source CONUS: 800-342-9647 OCONUS: 800-237-42374 46 The Message For ALL Do not blame the victim! Hold the offender accountable for their inappropriate behavior! Encourage reporting to reduce the risk to all since sex offenders continue to assault until they are caught. 47 Understanding Sexual Assault Questions? 48 Acknowledgements Successfully Investigating Acquaintance Sexual Assault: A National Training Manual for Law Enforcement, 2001 Violence Against Women Online Resources http://www.vaw.umn.edu/documents/acquaintsa/acquaintsa.html Bureau or Justice Statistics http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/ National Sexual Violence Resource Center http://www.nsvrc.org/ Office of Victims of Crime http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/ SAPRO WEBSITE: http://www.usmc-mccs.org/sapro/index 49 Resources • Ray Bruneau, Section Head, (703) 432-9104 – raymond.bruneau@usmc.mil • Maj Alexander, Training Coordinator, (703) 432-9073 – douglas.alexander@usmc.mil • Sgt McPherson, Data Coordinator, (703) 432-9074 – charlene.mcpherson@usmc.mil • Parisa Fetherson, Advocate Spec, (703) 432-9466 – parisa.fetherson@usmc.mil • Penny Parsons, Admin Asst, (703) 432-9072 – penny.parsons@usmc.mil 50