Bullying: Prevention & Intervention Action Planning Tim Lewis, Ph.D. University of Missouri OSEP Center on Positive Behavioral Intervention & Supports www.pbis.org Bullying Defined “A student is being bullied or victimized when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other students” (Elliott, 2002) Types of Bullying 1. 2. 3. 4. Physical Verbal Emotional Sexual Harassment Illegal act when an individual is verbally or nonverbally taunted and demeaned in relation to certain attributes such as gender, race or ethnicity, religion, and/or sexual orientation Teasing • Most teasing among 8-10 year olds is mean spirited • Friendly, acceptable teasing appears more characteristic among adolescents • Teasing among boys typically includes themes of intimidation, power, control, etc. • Teasing among girls typically involves themes of social cruelty, deception, hurt feelings, being left out • Some teasing is deliberate – some set up by spontaneous/accidental circumstance • Everyone is teased at some point – others are often targeted – – – – Overreacting to teasing Being atypical Having atypical physical or behavioral attributes Being socially or athletically unskilled • Most teasing is done by groups to an individual (Walker, Ramsey, & Gesham, 2004) Teasing • Teasing among friends is sometimes o.k. while teasing strangers is not • Physical size is a major factor among boys • Adaptive responses to teasing include: – Ignoring – Asking them to stop – Leaving the situation • Maladaptive responses to teasing include: – – – – – Teasing back Name calling Getting mad Crying, hitting or tantrum Threats • 8-10 year olds have firm belief in their effectiveness to stop teasing, but in actually have no effect or make it worse (Walker, Ramsey, & Gesham, 2004) Bullies and Peers • Perpetrator • Victim • Bystander - do not directly participate but reinforce the bully • Non-participant - do not participate, simply present, but take no action to prevent Victims • Passive-submissive – anxious, fearful, withdrawn, bully reinforced by occasioning the behavior • Provocative – display annoying and aggressive responses & thereby inadvertently reinforce the bully Gender Differences • Boys = “direct” physical / verbal intimidation • Girls = “indirect” gossip and rumors • Males = larger numbers of both bullies and victims Bullys Victims Individual Impulsive, dominant, lacks empathy Positive attitude toward violence Difficulty conforming to rules Physical strength (males) Gradual decrease in academic achievement Assume leadership roles in core groups of peers (female) More likely to bring weapons to school (52% males, 30% females) 70% report weapons outside of school Cautious, insecure Difficulty asserting themselves among peers Physical weakness (males) Increase likelihood to carry weapons to school (36% males, 15% females) Family Lack of parental involvement Overly-permissive Harsh discipline Lack of parental supervision Peer Friends/peers with positive attitudes toward violence Exposure to models of bullying Lack of close friends School Lack of supervision Indifferent attitude toward bullying Presence of aggressive students Lack of supervision Indifferent attitude toward bullying Outcomes of bullying • Short term – Bully - reinforced – increases future bullying – Victim - somatic symptoms, fearful, avoidance • Long term – Bully • 60% grades 6-9 had been convicted of an aggressive crime in adulthood • More likely to be violent (Nansel et al, 2004). • More likely to have children who bully – Victim • depression, poor self esteem, suicide, school drop out • Ostracized by peers Recommendations From the Field Recommended strategies for Teachers (U.S. Department of Education, 1998) • Provide students with opportunities to talk about bullying • Involve students in establishing classroom rules against bullying • Provide classroom activities and discussion around the harmful effects of bullying • Develop a plan to ensure students know what to do if they observe bullying • Teach cooperation/compromise social skills • Take immediate action when bullying observed/reported • Confront bullies in private • Notify parents of both the bully and victim – seek to resolve the conflict at school • Refer both bully and victim to counselor if appropriate • Provide protection for victims (e.g, buddy system) • Listen to parents who report or express concerns about bullying and investigate immediately • Avoid attempts to mediate in bullying situations – power imbalance in the bully dynamic precludes this from happening Bully Prevention Keys • School & home that is characterized as “warm” but sets firm limits for unacceptable behavior • When violations occur, non-hostile, nonphysical sanctions be consistently applied • Careful monitoring of student activities • Adults should act as responsible authorities during all adult-child interactions, especially when bullying occurs Bully Intervention Basics • Bully - discourage / appropriate sanctions • Victim – teach strategies to appropriately avoid/escape situations that involve bullying & place in activities in which they can succeed to boost confidence By-standers – make them aware of their supporting role and discourage them Non-participants – teach them to discourage bullying and to not show approval if observed Action Planning Start with Your Data Is Bullying a Problem • Student Data – Problem – Scared – How often – Types • Staff Data – Problem – Types & Frequency Have you ever seen someone bullied in our school? 100.0% 90.0% 85.1% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 14.9% 10.0% 0.0% No Yes How often are people bullied in our school? 100.0% 90.0% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 50.4% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 23.4% 18.6% 20.0% 10.0% 4.6% 0.0% Never Sometime Often Every Day What have bullies done at school? 100.0% 90.0% 87.8% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 52.2% 50.0% 46.4% 43.9% 40.0% 33.5% 30.0% 20.0% 10.0% 0.0% Called Names Threatened Stole Hit Ignore How much of a problem is bullying at our school? 100.0% 90.0% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 50.7% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 23.4% 21.0% 21.0% 20.0% 10.0% 0.0% Very Much A Little Not Much None I have felt scared in my school. 100.0% 90.0% 80.0% 69.8% 70.0% 60.0% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 26.2% 20.0% 10.0% 2.4% 0.0% All the Time Sometimes Never How often does bullying occur in our school? 70.00% 60.34% 60.00% 50.00% Frequency 40.00% 32.76% 30.00% 20.00% 10.00% 6.90% 0.00% 0.00% monthly weekly daily several times daily How much of a problem is bullying at our school? 60.00% 53.45% 50.00% 41.38% Frequency 40.00% 30.00% 20.00% 10.00% 1.72% 0.00% 0.00% very much a little not much none Physical Bullying 45.00% 39.66% 40.00% 35.00% 34.48% Frequency 30.00% 25.00% 20.00% 17.24% 15.00% 10.00% 5.00% 3.45% 0.00% Daily Weekly Monthly Rare/seldom Verbal Bullying 100.00% 90.00% 89.66% 80.00% 70.00% Frequency 60.00% 50.00% 40.00% 30.00% 20.00% 10.00% 3.45% 1.72% 1.72% Monthly Rare/seldom 0.00% Daily Weekly Sexual Bullying 35.00% 31.03% 30.00% 25.00% 24.14% 20.00% Frequency 18.97% 15.00% 13.79% 10.00% 5.00% 0.00% Daily Weekly Monthly Rare/seldom Cyber Bullying 40.00% 37.93% 35.00% 30.00% 27.59% Frequency 25.00% 20.00% 15.00% 10.34% 10.00% 5.17% 5.00% 0.00% Daily Weekly Monthly Rare/seldom Gossip/Rumor Bullying 120.00% 100.00% 96.55% Frequency 80.00% 60.00% 40.00% 20.00% 13.79% 1.72% 0.00% 0.00% Daily Weekly Monthly Rare/seldom Exclusion Bullying 80.00% 75.86% 70.00% 60.00% Frequency 50.00% 40.00% 30.00% 20.00% 15.52% 10.00% 1.72% 1.72% Monthly Rare/seldom 0.00% Daily Weekly Are There High Risk Settings • Student & Staff Location Where does bullying happen at our school? 100.0% 90.0% 78.1% 80.0% 70.0% 66.1% 67.3% 60.0% 50.0% 48.7% 38.4% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 16.9% 15.7% 10.0% 0.0% Classroom Playground Bathroom Walking to School Hallway Cafeteria Bus Where does bullying happen at our school? 100.00% 94.83% 93.10% 93.10% 90.00% 82.76% 80.00% 70.69% 70.00% Frequency 60.00% 56.90% 50.00% 50.00% 40.00% 30.00% 20.00% 10.00% 0.00% Classroom Hallway Playground Cafeteria Bathrooms Bus Walking to School Where Do Student Seek Help • Who • Have they contacted an adult Who do you feel you could go to if you were bullied? 100.0% 90.0% 80.0% 73.6% 67.6% 70.0% 60.7% 60.3% 60.0% 47.5% 50.0% 38.4% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 10.0% 0.0% My Teacher Any Teacher Principal Counselor Family Friend Where Do Adults Perceive Students Seek Help • Who • Most likely Who would a victim go to? 90.00% 79.31% 80.00% 74.14% 68.97% 70.00% 58.62% Frequency 60.00% 50.00% 40.00% 30.00% 18.97% 20.00% 10.00% 0.00% Teacher Principal Counselor Family Friend Comments • 60 students commented that they see bullying in gym, P.E., and the locker room • “I felt embarrassed. I really didn't want to be in that situation” • “I hate it, it hurts me a lot!!!!” • “No one does anything enough to stop them anyway. There is too much of it.” Comments • “Not enough enforcement of the rules so more bullying is done.” • “Sometimes grown-ups don't understand or you can't tell them what you are going through because you are afraid they will get mad at you.” • “When there is bullying going on in the classroom some of the teachers see it and they hear but they don't do anything” Interventions • • • • Staff aware of District policy & procedures Top 5 strategies would use 5 Strategies would not use Other strategies listed Does your district have a policy to deal with bullying? 70.00% 65.52% 60.00% 50.00% Frequency 40.00% 32.76% 30.00% 20.00% 10.00% 0.00% 0.00% Yes No Unsure I would advise the victim to assertively stand up to the bully 45.0% 40.0% 40.0% 35.0% 30.0% 25.0% 22.2% 20.0% 20.0% 15.0% 13.3% 10.0% 4.4% 5.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would tell the bully to stop 100.0% 90.0% 88.0% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 10.0% 6.0% 6.0% 0.0% 0.0% Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure I would help them resolve their differences 45.0% 40.8% 40.0% 35.0% 30.6% 30.0% 24.5% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 10.0% 4.1% 5.0% 0.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would treat the matter lightly 50.0% 46.0% 45.0% 42.0% 40.0% 35.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 10.0% 8.0% 5.0% 2.0% 2.0% Definitely Would Probably Would 0.0% Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would advise the victim to stay away from the bully 60.0% 53.2% 50.0% 40.0% 31.9% 30.0% 20.0% 14.9% 10.0% 0.0% 0.0% Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure I would make sure the bully was punished 60.0% 50.0% 47.9% 40.0% 30.0% 27.1% 20.8% 20.0% 10.0% 4.2% 0.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would convene a meeting 45.0% 42.0% 40.0% 35.0% 30.0% 28.0% 25.0% 20.0% 18.0% 15.0% 10.0% 10.0% 5.0% 2.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would help the bully achieve greater self-esteem 40.0% 38.0% 35.0% 34.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 14.0% 12.0% 10.0% 5.0% 2.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would encourage the victim to make more friends 40.0% 35.0% 34.0% 30.0% 25.0% 24.0% 20.0% 20.0% 15.0% 12.0% 10.0% 10.0% 5.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would make it clear to the bully that his/her behavior will not be tolerated 100.0% 90.0% 89.8% 80.0% 70.0% 60.0% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 10.2% 10.0% 0.0% 0.0% 0.0% Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would I would leave it for someone else to sort out 40.0% 38.0% 36.0% 35.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 18.0% 15.0% 10.0% 5.0% 4.0% 4.0% Definitely Would Probably Would 0.0% Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would share my concerns with the bully and ask him to behave more caring 40.0% 35.0% 34.0% 34.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 18.0% 15.0% 10.0% 10.0% 5.0% 4.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would seperate the bully and the victim 60.0% 50.0% 50.0% 42.0% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 10.0% 4.0% 4.0% 0.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not Suggest that the victim not show that he/she is bothered 30.0% 28.0% 28.0% 26.0% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 12.0% 10.0% 6.0% 5.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would call the bully's parent 45.0% 40.0% 38.8% 34.7% 35.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 12.2% 10.2% 10.0% 4.1% 5.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would let the students sort it out 70.0% 60.8% 60.0% 50.0% 40.0% 30.0% 20.0% 17.6% 17.6% Not Sure Probably Would Not 10.0% 3.9% 0.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Definitely Would Not Discuss with the bully options to remedy the situation without bullying 45.0% 40.0% 40.0% 35.0% 30.0% 26.0% 26.0% 25.0% 20.0% 15.0% 10.0% 6.0% 5.0% 2.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not I would find the bullying something more interesting to do 50.0% 44.0% 45.0% 40.0% 35.0% 30.0% 25.0% 20.0% 18.0% 18.0% 15.0% 12.0% 10.0% 8.0% 5.0% 0.0% Definitely Would Probably Would Not Sure Probably Would Not Definitely Would Not Action Plan 1. Replacement behaviors for noted types of bullying behavior – Linkage to school-wide/class-wide set of expectation 2. Lesson plans/teaching strategies (with schedule) Action Plan 3. Supervision of high risk locations – Current supervision/ needed resources – Training & support 4. Strategies for “victims” 5. Instructional strategies & consequences for bullying – Instruction – Environmental supports – Consequences Implement and Monitor • Current Data collection captures bullying? – Office referral – Student/staff report