WORK ETHICS • Stress is on earning living through honest hard work as it leads to economic freedom essential for self respect and eternal peace • Gurus showed by their own example that everyone must work hard for their living One is advised to earn his livelihood by the sweat of his brow Honest earning • If a person is dishonest, and takes what is not Justly his, • • these earnings are declared by 'the Gurus as the 'blood of the poor'. They are prohibited to a Sikh as beef is prohibited to a Hindu and pork to a Muslim. There is always a great temptation to live a comfortable life by earning money through unfair means A person's Earnings, however large or small, should come from honest means. Dignity of labour Work culture All professions are good At Sultanpur ( Nawab Daultat Khan) Storekeeper and Accountant Work, Prayer and Helping the needy Tera-Tera (Number 13 – I am thine) Guru Nanak worked as farmer at kartarpur FAMINE OF LAHORE BHAGAT KABIR --WEAVER BHAGAT DHANA--FARMER BHAGAT RAVIDAS--COBBLER BHAGAT NAMDEV--TAILOR Power and wealth By honest and ethical means Wealth is not possible without sinful means and does not keep company after death—ggs Wealth has a corrupting influence makes person insensitive to pain and suffering of others A rich man is both deaf and blind---ggs DR MANMOHAN SINGH Basic issue is satisfaction • Wealth without work leads to addiction ,vices,crimes • Passion for wealth is the source of suffering it is deceptive business---ggs • Unsatisfied desires have seldom been satisfied—ggs • • • •The Sikh always believes in Chardi Kala, (progress and optimism) in the reform and improvement of society, as a continuous process. •Sikhism also believes in discipline. Contentment • Contentment lies in feeling satisfied with what one has. • Some people question the value of contentment, because they consider ambition as the ladder to progress. • The more one has, the more one seems to want There is no end to ambition and greed. • According to Guru Nanak Dev Ji, greed burns like an unquenchable fire; the more it is fed, the stronger its flames rise. • A greedy man is never satisfied, even when he gets all that he wants. • Avarice leads to many vices like fraud, lying and gluttony. • An Avaricious man blunts his conscience and even bleeds his nearest and dearest ones. We never stop! We want more, more, more… IT NEVER ENDS!!!!! AND HERE’S WHAT GURBANI SAYS… • Our wants are many, and our real needs few. • Things, we can do without, cannot be regarded as • • • necessities. Peace of mind comes from elimination of wanting. Contentment implies that life is greater than its wealth or riches. Regard money as a trust, real joy comes from giving and not in receiving. •Moreover, excessive wealth often leads to luxury and vice. • Contentment is felt when one compares his lot • • • • • with those who are less fortunate. Adversity is not a punishment but rather an opportunity for development. Moreover in poverty, there are few temptations and fewer flatterers. A contented man remains content in adverse circumstances, be it poverty, distress or sickness. These are accepted as normal events of life, while discontented man increases his own misery by comparing his lot with that of more fortunate people. • Contentment results from submission to the Divine Will which a true Sikh accepts with gratitude and joy. • Guru Arjan Dev Ji says: "Without contentment, it is impossible to acquire peace of mind." Peace and happiness come naturally to a stable mind. •The Sikh always believes in Chardi Kala, (progress and optimism) in the reform and improvement of society, as a continuous process. •Sikhism also believes in discipline. •Guru Gobind Singh Ji gave the Sikh a new appearance and administered him the Baptism of the Sword. • of fearlessness and a •He infused in him a spirit belief in his own invincibility Maintaining Moral Behavior • Lying ,cheating, stealing are forbidden • Sexual relations are restricted to married • • couples with their spouses Ravishing another’s woman is equivalent to the company of a venomous snake (GGS:379) But, like the companionship of a poisonous snake, so is the desire for another's spouse. ggs403 No Place for Polygamy & Extra Marital Affairs Cheap TV Serials – The Garbage in our Drawing-Rooms? AIDS is Transmitted by • Blood • Semen • Vaginal fluid • Mother’s milk • Heterosexual contact (most common in India ~80%) Prevention •Having sex with only one partner who is faithful •Avoiding pre marital and extra marital sexual activities •Avoiding unprotected, casual sex • inmK kwm suAwd kwrix koit idns duKu pwvih ] (403-5, Awsw, mhlw 5) • For a moment of sexual pleasure, you shall suffer in pain for millions of days. • GrI muhq rMg mwxih iPir bhuir bhuir pCuqwvih ]1] (403-6, Awsw, mhlw 5) • For an instant, you may savor pleasure, but afterwards, you shall regret it, again and again. ||1|| sex is not physical only ABSTAINING FROM INTOXICANTS AND ADDICTION • Alcohol and other intoxicants are prohibited for sikhs • A person looses membership in the khalsa if uses • drugs, alcohol, tobacco Alcohol is to be detested .Even if it is prepared using gangajal,being a bad thing to drink--GGS Drug Abuse Drugs Kill ! Stay away from them ! Drug Abuse Effects & Symptoms Short and Long Term Effects & Withdrawal Symptoms Modes of Intake Codeine Oral (tablets & cough syrups) Heroin Injection, Inhalation, Chasing Opium Oral, Inhalation Morphine Injection Buprenorphine Oral, Injection LONG - TERM EFFECTS Mood Instability Reduced Libido Constipation Respiratory Impairments Physical Deterioration In female abusers, menstrual irregularity and fetal addiction / abnormality. Infections like serum hepatitis and HIV can occur among IV users. WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS Tolerance and Psychological Dependence Develop Feeling Of Unpleasantness Severe Pain Diarrhea Dilation of Pupils Insomnia Hallucinations CANNABIS Cannabis includes : Ganja / Marijuana Hashish / Charas Hashish Oil Bhang. The most common mode of intake is Smoking . CANNABIS : Long-term Effects Decreased Cognitive Ability Amotivational Syndrome Respiratory Problems Sterility/Impotence Psychosis In women abusers, Fetal damage can occur WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS Tolerance and Psychological Dependence Develop Sleep Disturbances Loss of Appetite, Irritability Depression or psychotic symptoms may become prominent Tremors EFFECTS A few examples of possible effects of Drugs ! DAMAGE DUE TO ADDICTION Physical Deterioration Psychiatric Problems Safety Risks (Accidents and highly Risky Behaviour) Intellectual Impairment Personality Deterioration Legal Risks Drug Addiction Tolerance Psychological Dependence Physical Dependence Withdrawal Symptoms Arteriosclerosis & Atherosclerosis: Healthy artery Damaged artery Heart Attack: Smokers are twice as likely as Nonsmokers to have a heart attack Torn heart wall: Result of over-worked heart muscle Quitting smoking rapidly reduces the risk of coronary heart disease Peripheral Vascular Disease Stroke: This brain shows stroke damage, which can cause death or severe mental or physical disability Lung Cancer: The uncontrolled growth of abnormal cells in one or both lungs Lung cancer kills more people than any other type of cancer Fetal Damage: Fetal Smoking Syndrome: •Birth defects •Premature stillbirth •Low birthweight •Prone to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome •Lowered immune capacity Laryngeal Cancer Symptoms: •Persistent hoarseness •Chronic sore throat •Painful swallowing •Pain in the ear •Lump in the neck Over 80% of deaths from laryngeal cancer are linked to smoking Dental Problems: Common Consequences: •Stained teeth •Gum inflammation Above: Cavities •Black hairy tongue Below: Gingivitis •Oral cancer Overall poor oral health •Delayed healing of the gums Consequences of chewing tobacco: Leukoplakia Oral cancer CANCER OF TONGUE CANCER OF EYES CANCER OF UPPER LIP CANCER OF BREAST The Gateway Drug The Gateway • Gutka, Jarda and Pan Masala These products are called the Gateway Drugs. • Gateway to What ? Gateway to the Hell ! What else should we call the Evil World of Drugs ? How it All Happens ? • First : Tried Gutka, Jarda or Pan Masala for the first time in school, college, market or work place, usually in the company of few close friends, colleagues or relatives. • Then : The Gutka addict, quickly shifts to higher levels of addiction like - Alcohol, Narcotic Drugs etc. First Step The Danger Zone Answering the question : What worse can happen to me if I do not listen to your suggestions ? The Danger Zone Cancer of the Mouth The Danger Zone Cancer of Mouth Cancer of Jaws The Danger Zone Cancer of Cheeks Cancer of Gums The Danger Zone Cancer of Lips Cancer of Oral Cavities The Danger Zone Cancer of Upper Lips Cancer of Nose Cancer of Tongue Cancer of Neck The Danger Zone Cancer of Eyes Cancer of Tongue Cancer of Breast Don’t Get Caught in this trap ! Slap it out , instead , and Win !!! You Can Open your Eyes, Now ! --Weren’t the visuals themselves, a bit of eye-opener ? Secondhand smoke: Chemical Box: What’s in Tobacco? Tar: black sticky substance used to pave roads Nicotine: Insecticide Carbon Monoxide: Car exhaust Acetone: Finger nail polish remover Ammonia: Toilet Cleaner Cadmium: used batteries Ethanol: Alcohol Arsenic: Rat poison Butane: Lighter Fluid What is marijuana? A drug obtained from the flowering tops of the female cannabis or hemp plant Hookahs: • Not safer than regular tobacco • • • smoke. Causes the same diseases Raises the risk of lip cancer, spreading infections like tuberculosis. Users ingest about 100 times more lead from hookah smoke than from a cigarette. Impact on Family How the drugs impact or affect the family ? Featuring a discussion on The Altered Family Dynamics Happy Family Portrait by – Rani ALTERED FAMILY DYNAMICS Suffers as financial resources are diverted for alcohol / drugs Loses self esteem due to growing criticism and provocations Isolates from external contacts to protect itself from further embarrassment ies Koqy dy pu`qr ny myrI boql nwlI’c roHV qI ! Enabling Behaviour In their attempts to eliminate the problem, the family unknowingly enables the addict to continue with his inappropriate behaviour. ieh dwrU nhIN, swfy cwcw jI dI dvweI hY ! Enabling Behaviour : few examples Justifying addict’s use mW dI AwKrI inSwnI vI geI ! of drugs / alcohol. Calling the employer and making excuses on addict’s behalf to explain his irresponsible behaviour. Paying Debts Incurred by the addict. ... co-dependency traits Inability to Maintain Interpersonal Relationships Inability to Set and Maintain Limits Inability to Make Decisions Defensiveness Feelings Experienced by the Family Repeated problems and failures lead to : Shame and Loneliness Hopelessness Fear Hurt Grief Anger Guilt Impact on Children How the parent’s addiction affects the children ? 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