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Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, 2007, Vol. 8, No. 3 : Pages 189-190. sexual function is usually not affected directly by the disease progression. sexual activity is high despite physical limitations. sexual interest and activity persist well into late life, although with a decline. Sexual activity in ALS patients does not seem to differ from the general elderly population. Sexuality can be a resource to cope with the disease 1. Sexuality Have you noticed any recent changes in your interest in sexual activity?Y/N Much less involved Less interested More interested Much more interested 1. Would you describe your current sexual desire as strong? Y/N 1. Are you currently engaged in a sexual relationship with your partner? Y/N 1. Are you satisfied with your current sexual life? Y/N - if not, is your dissatisfaction due to your partner? Y/N - if not, is your dissatisfaction due to issues related to your sexual potential? Y/N 1. Have you ever asked any sexual favors from anyone other than your partner? Y/N - if yes did you also have sexual intercourse with this/these person/people?Y/N - if yes are these sexual relations more prevalent than those with your partner? Y/N 1. Do you experience dreams of a sexual nature? Y/N 1. During the course of the day do you experience thoughts of a sexual nature? Y/N 1. Do you have difficulty falling asleep due to persistent sexual thoughts? Y/N 0 1 0 0 1 0 0 1 “an alteration of sexual behavior did not emerge, even if an increased sex drive has been found” IT’S NOT AN INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOUR, IT’S A COUPLE PROBLEM AND CONCERN: -what was the relationship before the diagnosis -what are their coping strategies: reorganization of the couple to face the disease -are there any gender differences -what is the partner’s burden 12 Couples 50% of the couples has still sexual relationship: Patients mean age=60,41 ALSFRS= 29,5/48 - 7 patients didn’t report changes in their interest about sexual intercourse, and 3 patients reported an increase in sexual desire patients - 8 caregivers reported a loss of interest - 8/12 patients are satisfied with their sexual activity while 7/12 caregivers are unsatisfied male female PATIENTS Good level of Quality of Life and Good Quality of couple relationship COUPLES HAPPY Patients with greater level of motor functional impairment reported a better perception of couple “Togetherness” Who is still engaged in sexual intercourse reported more couple “Tenderness” and a better perception of couple relationship CAREGIVERS Good level of Quality of Life and Good Quality of couple relationship HAPPY COUPLES but a worse perception than patients in couple «Tenderness» and Togetherness Who has sexual intercourse reported more couple “Tenderness,” “Togetherness “and in general a better quality of their relationship Quality of Life is more influenced by psychosocial aspects than by functional and physical ones Caregivers seem to suffer more than patients as a result of changes in their couple life related to the disease It seems that the progression of the disease does not affect the unity of the couple: patients who are more affected reported a better perception of couple cohesion In our preliminary sample quality of life is not related to the presence or absence of sexual intercourse. tenderness and togetherness more important than sexual activity? In some cases in the couple there are different points of view about sexuality. Patients maintain high sexual drive vs caregivers reduced sexual interest: disease related distress? Sexuality should not be a taboo because this is a resource for patients couple unity and sexual relationship and a way to feel alive and gratified. Associations and Health care professionals should proactively address this topic as part of patient care, and offer appropriate counselling where indicated. 1. Change our perspective:as patients change their concept of QoL and change their concept of sexuality, health providers also have to change perspective. 2. Don’t have fear to ask patients about sexuality and about the relationship: if couples feel there is a problem in this field, this is the time for the right professionist to step in. Be open minded and emotionally available! 3. Encourage affectivity and tenderness: incite the reawakening of hugs, caresses and kisses to discover a new way of being together and a new way to live couple intimacy Prove training for telephone counsellors so that they can better answer to the needs of the couple and direct them to a focused support Provide individual support to couples to allow them to face their emotional block in sexuality: in this experience we observed that the individual context is better than group therapy because sexuality still belongs to themes of intimacy and cultural taboos