H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 1 Proactivity: The key to implementing the Seven Habits. 主动积极:实践七种习惯的关键 H1-P1 Proactivity: Product of - Values not feeling - Decision not conditions 生命取决于价值观而非感觉;取 决于主观决定而不是客观环境。 H1-P1 Reactivity: A Function of - Feeling 生命受制于个人感觉 - Moods 情绪 - Impulses 外在刺激 - Other peoples treatment 人为因素 H1-P1 Proactivity: You and I have the capacity to choose our response. 你我都有能力选择如何回应。 H1-P1 Proactivity (定义): The capacity and the desire to subordinate impulses, moods, feeling, conditions to nalues based on principles. 我们有能力和愿意把刺激、情绪、 感觉和外在环境置于原则之下。 H1-P1 Results of Proactivity - Make and keep promises 对已对人都能信守承诺 - Treat others with kindness 待人以慈厚而无须放弃自己信念 - Practice other (b) habits 由此起步实践其余六个习惯 H1-P1 Proactive people carry their own weather with them. 主动积极的人心中自有一片天地。 H1-P1 H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 2 Proactivity and Reactivity 主动积极与被动消极 H1-P1 Last Human Freedom. The power to choose your response to any condition. 人类最终的自由就是不论什么环境、发生 什么事我们都可选择如何回应。 H1-P1 The highest value is the power to choose your attitude in situations over which you have no control. 人类最高价值在于可以选择用什么态度面 对那些自己无法控制的处境。 H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response Freedom to choose H1-P1 With the right choices, eventually the response we choose begins to influence the stimulus. 只要选择正确,我们的回应最终会影响 刺激来源。 H1-P1 Liberty is a condition of the environment. 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(Internals) 自由是指人的内在心境。 H1-P1 The more you control your freedom, eventually you will influence the liberty of your life. 你越是能够控制内在的心境,最终 便能影响生活上种种的限制。 H1-P1 Your head will create your world. 你的世界将会由你一手创造。 H1-P1 Your response to the stimulus will eventually influence the stimulus. 人对外物的反应最终会影响刺激的源头。 H1-P1 The thing that enabled survival was: 生存原因 - Vision of the future - Sense of meaning - Contribution 对未来的憧憬 生存的意义 未完成的工作 和要做的贡献 H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 3 Taking Responsibility 承担责任 H1-P1 It’s not what people doto us that hurts us. 伤害我们的不是别人的所作所为。 It’s our chosen response to what they do to us that hurts us. 伤害在于我们选择如何回应。 H1-P1 Proactive people learn to forgive and to forget. 主动积极的人懂得宽恕过失,忘记过去。 H1-P1 “Nothing can make you feel inferior without your consent.” --Eleanor Roosenelt 没有你的首肯,别人无法贬低你。 H1-P1 “No one can take away your respect unless you give it to them.” --Gandhi 除非你拱手相让,否则没人能夺取 你的尊严。 H1-P1 We must never build our emotional life around the weaknesses of other people. 我们不应让自己的情绪受别人的不足所左右。 H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 4 The Four Human Endowment 人类的四种天赋潜能 H1-P1 Delerminism 宿命论 Genetic 遗传因素--我们被遗传的特性。 Psychic 心理因素--我们成长的过程。 Environmental 环境因素--我们周围的状况。 Habit 1 -- Part 4 H1-P1 The four human endowment Self-Awareness 自觉:检验思想、情绪及行为 Imagination 想像力:能超越经验及现 实的视野思考 Conscience 良知:明辨对与错及遵循正直 Independent 独立意志:不受外力影响的行为 H1-P1 Habit 1: The habit of personal vision; you can choose your reponse by the exercise of that freedom. 习惯一是个人愿景的习惯,你可以运用 选择空间选择如何回应。 H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 Stimulus Response H1-P1 The four human endowment in the space. Stimulus Self-awareness 自觉意识 Imagination 想像力 Conscience 良知 Independent will 独立意志 Response H1-P1 If we live out of our memory, we’re tied to the past and to that which is finite. 如果我们只活在回忆之中,便受过去羁绊, 潜能受到局限。 H1-P1 When we live out of our imagination we’re tied to that which is infinite. 只有凭藉想像力来生活,才能突破局限,发 挥无限潜能。 H1-P1 Take time to pause 停步斟酌 Tap into Human Endowments: 在那空间发掘人类的天赋潜: Begin to act in small, slow ways. 循序渐进从小事做起。 H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 5 Circle of Influence 影响范围 H1-P1 Proactive Language Reactive Language I Choose I have to I Prefer to I must Yes If only No I can’t I will I haven’t time H1-P1 You can choose your actions, but you can’t choose the consequences. 你如何选择自己的行为,但后果却不由你 选择。 They’re governed by natural laws or principles. 后果受自然法则或原则主宰。 H1-P1 Circle of Influence 影响范围-包括所有可以直接影响的事情。 Circle of Concern 关切范围-包含所有关心的事件在内。 H1-P1 主动积极的焦点 关 切 范 围 被动消极的焦点 关 切 范 围 影响 范围 影响 范围 Circle of Influence Increases 承担责任 耐心,体谅 依照自然法则行事 Circle of Influence Decrases 推诿责任 抱怨/评论/批判 受制于人 H1-P1 Habit 1 Be Proactive Part 6 Becoming a Transition Figure 做个转型人 H1-P1 Work only on the inner circle for 30 days. 三十天全神贯注于内圈。(对外圈的事 情报以微笑) Be a light, not a judge. 与人相处要做明灯而不是法官。 Be a model, not a critic. 以身作则而不妄加批评。 H1-P1 Anytime I think the problem is out there, that is the problem. (30天内)每次 我把问题归究于外 部因素,那想法本身便是问题所 在。 H1-P1 Transition Figure 转型人 Stops the transmission of those (negative) tedencies with you. 洗心革面,不让坏禀性继续遗传给孩子。 A transition figure create a new tradition. 掘弃恶习,创新领域。