Transforming the Way Your Community Deals with Conflict Search for Common Ground - USA There are seven billion people on this planet, we will never all agree, we can only learn how to disagree in peace. Community Conflicts – A Given Neighbor to Neighbor Interpersonal Interethnic Intergroup Intragroup Land Use Misdemeanors Conflict is neither positive or negative in itself . . . it’s the way we deal with the issue and each other that is the key. Dealing with Community Conflicts – A Choice Unite Flight Fight When in conflict, we can either try to be the winner or look at how can we work this out together. Why Does Your Choice Matter? Flight Peace and Quiet Festering resentments Injustice Fight Order Imposed Justice Damaged Mutual Unite agreements outcomes relations Time Improved relations Effort Lightened court caseload Commitment Resolving conflicts as partners is a learning experience for all involved – it is rarely the easy route, but ultimately it is the most rewarding approach. Not all conflicts can be resolved by dialogue, much harm could be avoided by a change of approach. What Is A Better Approach? Flight Fight Flight Fight Unite Unite “now” “then” Given the right tools, we can learn how to manage conflicts as partners so that everyone wins. Generate Options Develop Agreements Raise Issues Discover Interests The Cooperative Problem Solving Path To resolve conflicts as partners, we must be prepared to stop finger-pointing and labeling – honest listening and expression are fundamental to positive resolution. Manage Emotions Effectively Communicate Respect Perceptions Conflict Analysis Conflict Management Problem Solving How and When to Access Third Party Processes Develop the Processes to Match the Problems Neighbor to Neighbor Mediation Interethnic Study Circle, Media Programming Land Use/ Safety Neighborhood Problem Solving Process Misdemeanors Restorative Justice Processes Endorse Overall Vision of Change Provide Support Walk the Talk Government Community Groups Religion Business Education How Does This Happen? Search Homeport + Partners Change Skills Leadership Processes Role of Homeport Partner Act as a catalyst for change, be “applied visionaries” Identify and proactively respond to systemic and emergent community conflicts Build a network of volunteers and professionals who provide resources and services to community members Enlist support of community leaders Develop partnerships with and among other community organizations Search supports: Articulate Vision Identify Define Agree Barriers achievable pieces of the vision on a plan of action Implement Evaluate / Improve Search provides: Mentoring, Sources coaching, advising of information Training Materials Networking Search for Common Ground “. . . transform how individuals, organizations, and governments deal with conflict – away from adversarial approaches and toward cooperative solutions” D. R. Congo Middle East Angola Iran Morocco Liberia United States Sierra Leone Macedonia Ukraine Greece-Turkey Burundi Contacting Search for Common Ground Search for Common Ground www.sfcg.org Every day we choose how to respond to crisis, those in our lives and in the world . . . we are all connected, each individual makes a difference. Map of Cooperative Problem-Solving Principles Use conflict Raise as a Issues natural resource Attack problems, respect people Process Results Attack Problems Discover Interests Generate Options Develop Agreements Respect People Emotions Communication Perceptions Good agreements Good relations Individual Conflict Resolution Skills Facilitating the Community Problem Solving Process Communities That Guidebook Processes Guide Work – Together