EDCI: 597 Middle Grades Philosophy, Organization and Climate Book Review Assignment Maggie Yen The Hurried Child- Growing up too fast too soon By David Elkind ISBN 0-201-07397-8 Ashland University Library Contents Part 1- Our Hurried Children CH 1 Our Hurried Children CH 2 The Dynamics of Hurrying: Parents CH 3 The Dynamics of Hurrying: School CH 4 The Dynamics of Hurrying: The Media Part 2 – Hurried Children: Stressed Children CH 5 Growing Up Slowly CH 6 Learning to Be Social CH 7 Hurried Children: Stressed Children CH 8 How Children Reacted to Stress CH 9 Helping Hurried Children Highlights of the book • Learning process must take the child’s perceptions and stage of development into account • Childhood has its own way of seeing, thinking, and feeling, and nothing is more foolish than to try to substitute ours for theirs. • Early ripe, early rot • Human intelligence is thus best understood as an extension of this adaptation Sources of stress Parents School • Learning too early • The level of materials are over children’s ability • Too many schedules • Pressure of score and test • Bad relationship of parents • Students in Asia study very hard • Force children do something they don’t really enjoy • Too many teachers in each subject Media • Too much information • Too much effect and impact Four stages of children’s development: • Sensorimotor Period • Preoperational Period • Concrete operational Period • Formal operational Period Social Issues • Parents-Child Contracts • Freedom-Responsibility • Achievement and support • Contractual violations and Hurrying • Single-parents Families and Contracts Change • Do not ever confront the tough with toughness to students • Use softness to overcome hardness • Use media to teach students appropriately • Relationship is everything Reflection I think not so much that it is a book of education, than it is a book about life growing up. Parents, teachers and even the people who are not the parents yet should read this book. We will learn something from it. We all should understand that things will develop in the opposite direction when they become Extreme. It’s a great book for all adult, let’s understand and take account of our children!! You will enjoy to read it!!