The Rotary Youth Exchange Experience: Culture Shock and Reverse Culture Shock NAYEN Conference 2010 Dennis White, Ph.D. dkwhite@itol.com www.yeoresources.org This presentation may be viewed at www.yeoresources.org. If viewed on line, certain slides with hyperlinks will lead to other articles or materials Culture An integrated system of learned behavior patterns that are characteristic of any given society. It refers to the total way of life, including how people think, feel and behave. Metaphorically, culture is the lens through which we view the world. You can’t trust your eyes when your imagination is out of focus. Mark Twain The Cultural Iceberg Conscious behaviors 1/8th above the surface Unconscious beliefs and values 7/8ths below the surface When we think we know what we are seeing or hearing, it is very easy to make a mistake, especially in language. What do they mean? • You are invited to take advantage of the chambermaid. Japanese hotel • I slaughter myself twice daily. Israeli butcher • Ladies, leave your clothes here and have a wonderful time. French laundry Dr. No We don’t want a doctor Titanic Ship Outta Luck! At first we will be dependent upon translators – sometimes a risky business Sometimes, it’s just pronunciation Ethnocentrism: The universal tendency for any culture to see its own values and practices as natural and correct. Ethnocentrism: All cultures are ethnocentric - and must be to impart their values to their members. I don’t feel we did wrong in taking this great country away from them. There were great numbers of people who needed new land, and the Indians were selfishly trying to keep it for themselves. John Wayne “The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being like you. They are unique manifestations of the human spirit ”. Wade Davis In James Hiltons’ novel, Lost Horizon, An American stranded in Shangri-la says to his Tibetan rescuer: “I want to get back to civilization as soon as possible.” The Tibetan’s reply: “Are you so very certain that you are away from it?” Ethnorelativism: The acquired ability to see many values and behaviors as cultural rather than universal. Ethnorelativism: This approach attempts to understand values and behaviors from the point of view of that culture, rather than as right or wrong. Ethnorelativism: It assumes that one’s own culture is no more central to describing and evaluating reality than any other regardless of one’s strongly held preferences “I see America through a sharper lens - both her strengths and her weaknesses and I am tired of people who uncritically accept everything American as right.” American Exchange Student Ethnocentrism is similar to egocentrism. Ethnorelativism is similar to empathy. The Golden Rule Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. The Platinum Rule Do unto others as they would have you do unto them. Real life examples: • Watching the moon landing in Iranian theatres • Holding hands In a new culture everything is harder Developing cultural sensitivity and competence requires moving from Ethnocentrism to Ethnorelativism One World or Many.doc Developing Intercultural Sensitivity The Experience of Difference Denial Defense Minimization Ethnocentric Stages Acceptance Adaptation Integration Ethnorelative Stages Model developed by Dr.. Milton Bennett, Portland State University Culture Shock The profound sense of disorientation and discomfort that comes with extended travel or living in a foreign culture markedly different from one’s own. Culture Shock.doc Stages of Culture Shock: • • • • Initial enthusiasm and euphoria Irritability and negativism Gradual adjustment and adaptation Integration and bi-culturalism The Middle Wave of Culture Shock.doc Rotary Youth Exchange Culture Shock Cycle Months Pre-Departure 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 Normal Level of Feelings Adapted from a model by Robert Kohls Return …... Rotary Youth Exchange Culture Shock Cycle Months Pre-Departure 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 Normal Level of Feelings Adapted from a model by Robert Kohls Return …... Normal Distribution of Any Cultural Trait A typical student Frequency Amount of Trait Example: Individualism vs. Group Orientation Comparing Two Cultures (on any given trait) In this example, there is some overlap, but the two cultures are mostly different Culture Shock After Adaptation Returning To Home Culture Reverse Culture Shock Returning To Home Culture Severe Reverse Culture Shock Returning To Home Culture Most people anticipate some degree of culture shock. Very few people believe they will experience reverse culture shock. Reverse Culture Shock (Re-entry Shock) The often unexpected and difficult period of disorientation and readjustment experienced after returning to one’s own culture after an extended period of living abroad. So You Think You're Home Now.doc The Stages of Reverse Culture Shock are almost the same as those of Culture Shock • Initial Euphoria (may be very brief or not happen at all) • Irritability and Negativism ( may be very lengthy) • Gradual Adaptation • True Bi-Culturalism Culture Shock and Reverse Culture Shock are not just unpleasant side effects of international living. They are the necessary ingredients that bring about quality intercultural education. We can prepare for both forms of culture shock by: • • • • Anticipating CS and RCS. “Normalizing” these phenomena. Remembering that “compost happens”. Remembering that, as new depths of understanding develop, new waves of culture shock emerge. “Culture shock pushes me out of my comfort zone” Under pressure, we tend to fall back on what is comfortable, habitual, and unconscious. Even when we know how to follow a cultural practice, and can do it, the tendency is to fall back. “I love my country more now than ever, but I am critical of those who blindly accept everything American as the best, especially when they have never been out of the country.” American Peace Corps Volunteer How I Have Changed? How Have I Changed.doc An exercise using 44 statements that have often been identified by exchange students as significant changes from the experience. How I Have Changed One student’s response My youth exchange year was one of incredible change and growth for me. In addition to seeing so much of the rest of the world, and making such wonderful friends, I changed in ways I never knew were possible. How I Have Changed One student’s response I am more confident and positive when meeting new people. I have a greater ability to empathize with others and to put myself in their place when making judgments. I have greater willingness to take on new roles and tasks. How I Have Changed One student’s response I have more ability to see myself objectively, in a more realistic context. I understand more fully my own strengths and weaknesses. I am more tolerant of ambiguous situations and more open to differing interpretations of them. I feel greater respect and appreciation for my family. How I Have Changed One student’s response And most of all, I feel more surely that common bonds unite all human beings. Thank you, Rotary for the best year of my life. Dennis White, Ph.D. 207 S. 4th Ave. Sturgeon Bay, WI. 54235 Telephone 920-746-1346 Fax 920-746-1347 Email dkwhite@itol.com For more information, visit www.yeoresources.org