Edge Learning Institute Presents Increasing Human Effectiveness Making a difference. So, how do we get it done? “Increasing Human Effectiveness” An Experience Facilitator Workbook Discussions CD’s Power Point Activities Reflection Tool Kit The Group On-line Follow-Up Video Increasing Human Effectiveness Awareness Potential Change Plan of Action Self Esteem Thought Process Who am I? 1 How 4 Do I get there? Affirmative Reminders How did I get 2 here? 3 Where am I going? Attitude Self-Image Values/Goals Effective Seminar Participation 1. Ask questions. 2. Keep an open mind. Be willing to try new ideas and techniques. 3. Remember, your meeting leader/facilitator doesn’t have all of the answers! 4. Feel free to share an illustration or an example from your own experience. 5. It’s OK to pass! If you don’t want to answer a question or make a comment, simply pass. 6. Think of ways you can incorporate a concept or skill directly into your daily life. 7. Make a commitment to see the process through to the end. Finish what you start. 8. During the video seminar, respond to Bob as though you are a participant in the seminar. 9. Sit back, relax and enjoy! Increasing Human Effectiveness Awareness Potential Change Thought Process Who am I? Plan of Action 1 Attitude 2 4 3 Self-Image Self Esteem Affirmative Reminders Values/Goals Two Ways to Learn & Grow SLE’s Significant Life Events SLM’s Significant Learning Moments Effectiveness vs. Potential Your Effectiveness This is the actual picture of an iceberg in St. John’s Newfoundland. Your Potential What is your potential? The Cow Card Increasing Human Effectiveness Awareness Thought Process Potential Change Plan of Action 1 How did I get 2 here? 4 3 Attitude Self-Image Self Esteem Affirmative Reminders Values/Goals Finished Files FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS. The Thought Process How Attitudes are Monitored…by: Words – which Trigger Pictures – and bring about Emotion – that predict or perpetuate performance! Attitude Formation Negative - Positive + The direction in which you lean at the sub-conscious level. A habit of thinking that controls your spontaneous reactions. Increasing Human Effectiveness Awareness Thought Process Potential Change Plan of Action Self Esteem Affirmative Reminders Attitude 1 2 4 3 Where am I going? Self-Image Values/Goals Comfort Zones Your comfort zone is the level of performance that you believe yourself to be capable of achieving. It corresponds with your current self-image. When you perform outside your comfort zone (either above or below): 1) You get anxiety and tension feedback 2) You get back where you belong SELF-IMAGE DIAGRAM Performing above your Comfort Zone Performing above your Comfort Zone (or asked to) Anxiety and tension feedback Current Self-Image Comfort Zone SELF-IMAGE DIAGRAM Performing below your Comfort Zone Current Self-Image Comfort Zone Anxiety and tension feedback Performing beneath your Comfort Zone Our Values Creativity Integrity Faith The Values Gap Values The gap between the values you express and the behaviors you exhibit. Behaviors Clarity of Organizations Values Importance of Values 4.87 6.26 4.9 6.12 The Leadership Challenge – High Correlation between values and commitment Low Principles for effective goal setting 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Balance your goals. Set priorities. State goals positively. Clearly define your goals. (Specific, Written and Reviewed regularly) Lock on to an exciting, imaginable end result. Avoid time limits with lifetime goals. Feel free to set time limits on material goals. 7. Keep goals confidential. Share them only with people who can help you accomplish the goal. 8. Update goals regularly. Increasing Human Effectiveness Awareness Thought Process Potential Attitude Change Plan of Action Self Esteem 1 2 How 4 Do I get there? 3 Affirmative Reminders Self-Image Values/Goals The Traditional Cycle For Change: Self-image/ Self-esteem Self-Talk Performance Perpetuates existing performance. The Responsible Cycle For Change: Self-image/ Self-esteem Self-talk Performance Allows personal responsibility for change. Definition of Affirmative Reminder Statement of fact or belief designed to prepare me for reaching a predetermined outcome or goal. A statement of my goal describing myself as though my desired goal has already been achieved. Guidelines For Designing Affirmative Reminders Personal “I” compare only with my own best self. Positive Describe what you want. Present Tense Express it as though it’s already happened Positive Emotion Use words like enjoy, terrific, happy. Realistic Use words like consistently and regularly. Specific Use measurable terms and words. Affirmative Reminders I will be an incredible manager. I don’t see what is wrong, and I always catch my people in the act of doing things right and it will feel great. I will be an incredible manager. I don’t see what is wrong, and I always catch my people in the act of doing things right and it will feel great. I am an incredible manager. I consistently catch my people in the act of doing things right and it feels great. SELF-IMAGE DIAGRAM Cause Effect New Self-Image Goal Affirmative Reminder Current Self-Image Comfort Zone How to Enhance Your Affirmative Reminders Color 3X5 cards (touch) Write it down (action) Scents (smell & emotion) Pictures (sight) Read out loud (hearing) Best time (upon waking & just before sleep) Potential Wheel – Areas of Self-Talk Spiritual Family Financial Health Recreation Vocational Friends Personal The Clown Card Cauldron Theory “To pour water into another person’s cup you must first have water in yours.” Definition of Self-Esteem Self-esteem is the degree that I, consciously or unconsciously, like and accept myself as I am. Self-esteem is the degree that I respect myself and feel confident to deal with challenges. Edge Learning Institute Presents Increasing Human Effectiveness Making a difference. So, how do we get it done?