Building Distributed Leadership in the Philadelphia School District Module: Team Building Building Distributed Leadership in the Philadelphia School District Module: Team Building With the assistance of James P. Spillane, Spencer T. and Ann W. Olin Professor in Learning and Organizational Change, and the Northwestern University School of Education and Social Policy. Module: Team Building Charles Dwyer The ideas, graphics and material presented have been prepared with the guidance of Charles Dwyer. Duplication and distribution of this presentation is prohibited without express consent. 3 Agenda Lesson 1 What teams are and are not: • • • • • • What is a team? Why use imperatives? Involuntary Team Membership What do I want? Behavior/Performance Negative Labels -Break- 4 Agenda Lesson 2 Building and using teams: • • • • • Values The Power of Words Case Study A Personal Example of a Team Building Challenge The Five Step Model 5 Session Protocol In order to make today’s session beneficial to all participants, please: • Show respect for your colleagues and your team. • Shut down your laptop computers. • Turn off your cell phones, pagers, Blackberries, and any other means of external communication. • Contribute to your team and the class as a whole by participating constructively in the exercises/activities. • Ask questions when you wish to. 6 Objectives By the end of this session, you will be better prepared to: • • • • Analyze individual perceptions of team building. Discuss what team building is not. Define what team building is. Analyze how our actions can positively or negatively impact on the building teams within the schools. • Understand human behavior. • Understand human influence. • Develop and use techniques for more effective influence. 7 Teams and Individuals Brainstorming Activity Remember: All teams are ultimately made up of individuals. - Charles Dwyer 8 Getting Started Presentation “It’s not what we don’t know that hurts, it’s what we know that ain’t so.” - Will Rogers (1879 – 1935) 9 False Imperatives Presentation McCabe’s Law: Nobody has to do anything. - Charles McCabe We must… …it’s mandatory 10 Imperatives Paired Discussion With your team, discuss why we tend to use imperatives. List the false imperatives others use on you. List the false imperatives you use on other people. Why do you think you do that? 11 Must we? Group Discussion Have you ever been forced to be part of the team? • Note those times when you have been “forced” to join the team. • Note whether the experience was a positive one or not. • If so, what made it positive? • If not, how could the experience have been changed to be more positive? 12 Shared values? Group Discussion Team Building is not about: • Shared values, • Common objectives, or • Mutual interests. 13 Getting buy-in? Presentation Team Building is not about getting people to buy in to: • • • • School goals, Missions, Visions, Core values, etc. 14 End and Means Presentation We need not agree on ends to cooperate on means. 15 What do you want? Written Exercise With the group at your table, make a list of: • At least one thing each person hopes to get out of attending this session. • At least one thing on each person’s agenda for his or her school. 16 Patterns of Behavior Presentation Team Building is about getting people to: • Engage in patterns of behavior and • Produce performances that result in desired outcomes 17 What, exactly, do you want from team members? Group Discussion Think about a team, give an example of unambiguous behavior, or measurable performance that you want to get from someone on that team. 18 Changing Behavior Presentation Team building involves some individual engaged in some behavior designed to influence the behavior of one or more other individuals. 19 The Neurological Argument Presentation • Influence ends up in the brain • Each brain is unique • Each information process is unique 20 Language Used Today Presentation “Teams” “Organizations” “Committees” “Task Forces” 21 Language Used Today Presentation “Family” “Associates” “Community” “Partnership” “Citizen” “Comrade” 22 Individual Behavior Presentation Team building involves some individual engaged in some behavior designed to influence the behavior of one or more other individuals. 23 How do we frame what we want from others? Presentation The left-hand column • • • • Attitudes Dispositions Personality characteristics Qualities of relationships The right-hand column vs. Behavior Performance Observable Measurable Quantifiable 24 The Left-hand Column Presentation Framing what you want from others by describing attitudes, dispositions, personality characteristics, qualities of relationships is: • Vague • Subjective • Ambiguous • Open to widely differing interpretations 25 Labels Written Exercise Placing a negative label on another person or group puts a huge, perhaps insurmountable, psychological obstacle between them and you in terms of positive human influence. “Difficult” • Make a list of negative labels you think people use to talk about you and your group. • Make a list of negative labels you use to talk about individuals, groups, etc. • At your table compare these labels. 26 Why do we use negative labels? Brainstorming Activity It’s easy. It’s fun to play “Junior Freud.” It bonds us with our buddies. It gives us “wiggle room.” It makes us feel superior. “Difficult” 27 But, We Want More … Presentation We want more than behavior. • We want validation, justification and confirmation of our own beliefs, values and feelings. • We want them to do it for “our” reasons. 28 The Right-hand Column Presentation Frame what you want from others by describing desired behavior and performance. • Behavior: Describe clear, concrete, observable unambiguous, specific behaviors (and patterns of behavior) or • Performances: Describe measurable, quantifiable performances. 29 Team Building Presentation People do what they do in an attempt to take care of what is important to them… To serve their values 30 Values Brainstorming Activity What values should you appeal to in team building? • • • • • Success/achievement Respect/status/esteem Fun/enjoyment/relaxation Sharing/bonding Altruism/giving • • • • • Identity Security/safety Acceptance/approval Recognition/appreciation Thanks/gratitude/praise 31 How do you build teams? Presentation Cooperation is Power Power is Influence Influence is Perception 32 Perceptions are Presentation • • • • • • Personal Subjective Fragile Idiosyncratic Arbitrary Infinitely malleable states 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 What do we use to get what we want from others? Presentation • • • • • Knowledge Skill Experience Authority Position No! 40 What do we use to get what we want from others? Presentation • Powerful ideas • Noble intentions • Our trustworthiness No! 41 What do we use to get what we want from others? Presentation • • • • • • • • The “Right” Truth Logic Reason Evidence Fact Quality Substance No! 42 Our Behavior Presentation We use only the fragments of our behavior as interpreted by others. Our behavior: • Direct and indirect • Words • How, when, where • Gestures, timing, tone • Language and rhythm • Modes of communication 43 Fragments and Filters Presentation 44 Building the Mosaic of Your Behavior Presentation Mosaic: • Picture composed of individual tiles • We do not often dig into the barrel • We skim across the top Barrels of tiles: • Packaging of behavior • Need to dig deeper into the barrels of tiles 45 Our Behavior: Direct and Indirect Presentation Direct Indirect 46 Our Behavior: Modes of Communication Presentation 47 Our Behavior: Timing Presentation 48 Our Behavior: Words Presentation In-service training Boring 49 The Power of Words Brainstorming Activity List 5 powerful words to influence others. 50 Words and Meanings Presentation Words, the fragile vessels of our meanings, easily lose their way in the channels of others’ minds. - Charles Dwyer Satisfactory Not good enough 51 Words to Use Presentation Their Words “…” 52 Words to Use Presentation • Synonyms • Paraphrases 53 Words to Use Presentation Imagine … Because … 54 Words to Use Presentation Stories 55 Stories Exercise Group Discussion What are some examples of good and bad storytelling? 56 Words Exercise Case Study Turn to page 48 of your Participant Guide and review the case study. What type of words should Kristin use to convince Paul that he should use a new textbook? • What are Paul’s values? • What values is Kristin trying to serve? • How can Kristin appeal to Paul’s values? 57 Reflection Paired Discussion Reflect on an experience in which a team building effort was particularly challenging. Briefly summarize the experience and share this with your partner. How did you meet the challenge? What suggestions does your partner have for meeting such a challenge? • Words • How, when, where • Gestures, timing, tone • Language and rhythm • Modes of communication • Direct and indirect approaches 58 Team Building Is… Presentation • • • • • • Incrementalism Social Proof Scarcity Commitment Consistency Liking 59 Team Building Is… Presentation • • • • • Reciprocity Leveraging coincidence Actualizing altruism Long-term investments Using negative consequences 60 Cautions in Using a Negative Approach Presentation • Attempts to escape influence • Minimum behavior/performance • Revenge/salvaging self-esteem 61 Power and Influence Presentation Power/Influence is the ability to get people to perceive that a given behavior (or performance) is the best action they can take in the service of their values. 62 Relationships Presentation Values R Perception Behavior 63 Conscious and Subconscious Behavior Presentation Consciousness Subconsciousness Skills Beliefs Knowledge Attitudes Memories Behaviors 64 An Alternative Program Presentation Never expect anyone to engage in a behavior that serves your values unless you give that person adequate reason to do so. 65 Types of Behavior A X XX X X X X X X Feel Good Behaviors B X X X Presentation X XX X X X X X X Effective with Team Behaviors 66 The Model Presentation 1. Capability • Knowledge of the behavior • Competence (knowledge and skill) • Self-confidence 2. Perception of potential value satisfaction 3. Perception of the probability of value satisfaction 4. Perception of cost 5. Perception of risk 67 The Continuum of Influence Presentation - 0 + 68 Team Building Presentation Team building is: • Focusing on those closest to the threshold of the behaviors you want. • Focusing on the informal leaders in the group. • Offering multiple value satisfactions in exchange for the desired behaviors and performances. • Offering multiple protections from perceived costs and risks. 69 Five Steps Paired Discussion What is the specific, concrete, unambiguous behavior/ performance sought? Where is this person relevant to the behavior? Take a team member and walk through the 5 steps. What techniques/mosaics can be used to move them closer to the desired behavior? 70 Invisible Leadership Presentation He/she leads best who leads invisibly. -The Tao 71 Bibliography Presentation Several resources have been considered in the development of this module. To view the bibliography, see page 9 of your Participant’s Guide. 72 Evaluation Presentation Your feedback is important. Please fill out the evaluation form in order to help us improve the program. 73