Use of perception in coaching to help managers/leaders achieve their goals and be more perceptive Fiona Williams coach and mentor at inspiration365 Ltd Oxford Brookes University 10th Annual Coaching and Mentoring Research Conference TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Setting the scene "I see nobody on the road", said Alice. "I only wish I had such eyes", the King remarked in a fretful tone. "To be able to see Nobody! And at that distance, too! Why, it's as much as I can do to see real people, by this light." (Carroll, Through the Looking Glass) TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Perception: complex, debated & unknowns Adelson, Checker Shadow Illusion. Available from: <http://web.mit.edu/persci/people/adelson/checkershadow_illusion.html> TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Initial coaching themes developed External Focus Internal Focus Perceptual Drawing Filters Together • What are we • What are we • What are our • How can we sensing sensing internal draw external internally? filters to together and events, • What are our perception? action what people, internal • How do we we've learnt environment? thoughts, perceive on • Meaning of meaning ourselves? perception? perception making? As underpinned by literature review Strengthening Moving away Emotional Reducing crucial skills from grey intelligence perceptual filters e.g. listening e.g. soft e.g. facial e.g. selfthinking language deception (Claxton) (Ekman) (Bachkirova) TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Methodology 3 Action cycles 7 Managers/leaders (co-researchers) 42 Direct contact hours lots Thematic analysis TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 There's more to perception than I thought… • Co-researcher: "…you all know the theory of the different senses of perceptions but I wasn't really conscious of the signals, um, that I could pick up on or the effect that they could have" • Mezirow (in Fostering Critical Reflections in Adulthood) "habits of expectation that constitute our frame of reference" TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Joining the dots • Co-researcher: "…I think I feel much more comfortable now with my preferred working style that can be appreciated by other people so I'm not trying to change or assume I had to adopt certain, different behaviours. So that's been a big shift which will be very helpful for me in the future" • Beliefs held which defined co-researcher’s sense of self and acted as conditioning perceptual filters (Bachkirova, Developmental Coaching) TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Flying by the seat of one’s pants Action research was messy (Herr and Anderson, The Action Research Dissertation) TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Conclusion • Themed coaching approach helped coresearchers achieve their coaching goals / synthesise learning and be more perceptive • Perception: valuable coaching topic and seemingly, in part, a mechanism for change • Apt for all managers/leaders at all times? (limitations/further research) • Transferable to other coaching practices via Perception's PrismTM and more… TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Perception’s PrismTM 1 TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Perception’s PrismTM 2 Perceiving stuff 1 • How do you read other people? • How do you take in external info.? Perception theme 1 Opening intervention 2 • Sensory inputs? Intuition? • Picking-up body language? • Mindfulness, meditation, focusing • Illusions 2 Areas to explore 3 Filters to perception, being perceived, self-perception 4 Some literature links 4 Ekman, Emotions Revealed. Claxton, 'Beyond Cleverness: How to be Smart Without Thinking'. In: Henry (ed.) Creative Management and Development 3 Links to other themes Filters to perception 1 • What assumptions are you making? 2 • What is another perspective of X? What assumptions are relevant now? • Influencing beliefs? Culture? • What are clients avoiding talking about? 3 Self-perception, perceiving stuff, being perceived 4 Bachkirova, Developmental Coaching TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Perception’s PrismTM 3 Self-perception 1 • How do you describe yourself? • I noticed/heard/sensed you saying… Perception theme 1 Opening intervention 2 • How would someone else see you? • Self-perception of emotions (emotional competence)? 2 Areas to explore 3 Filters to perception, being perceived 4 Some literature links 4 Harter, The Construction of the Self 3 Links to other themes Being perceived 1 • How do you think other people perceive you? • How do you want to influence others? 2 • Personal branding 3 Filters to perception, selfperception, perceiving stuff (esp. other people) 4 Trichas and Schyns (2012) 'The face of leadership: Perceiving leaders from facial expression', The Leadership Quarterly. Vol. 23, No. 3 TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Questions TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014 Final thoughts… • Why not explore perception and ask yourself: how do I perceive? • A seemingly simple question yet I wonder where the question will take you. Feel free to let me know… Fiona Williams Twitter: twitter.com/fionacoach LinkedIn: uk.linkedin.com/in/fionawilliams Website: www.inspiration365.org.uk TM © inspiration365 Ltd January 2014