Cherry Creek Diversity Conference Privilege, Power, Influence, and Making a Difference Tracy Phariss GLSEN Colorado, Golden High School www.coloradosafeschools.net www.coloradosafeschool.com tphariss@jeffco.k12.co.us Activity Dyad Dyad Every year Time magazine picks the 100 most influential people in the World. What do we mean when we say someone is influential? Activity How did the person you were talking with respect you? Respect • Looking in each other’s eyes. • Active listening – nods, laughs, etc. • Said each other's names, and knew how to pronounce them. • Being honest / Shared private information. • Others….. Open & unthreatening discussion • Why does the experience of "others" matter? • What is the difference between privilege, power, influence, - isms and making a difference? Influence • Influence can be defined as the ability or power of someone to produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others. 100 Most Influential People in the United States Time Magazine 2012 Discussion Questions 1. What traits or qualities make us consider these people (or people like them) influential? 2. Are each of these people influential in the same way? Explain. Privilege • Privilege can be defined as a special advantage or immunity or benefit not enjoyed by all. Privilege • Do some of these people (or people like them) have privilege that is not enjoyed by all? • Are each of these people privileged in the same way? Explain Privilege People with privilege are often so used to it, that they don’t even recognize that it is truly a privilege. Privilege Although unearned, when benefits based on privilege are removed, people with privilege often feel that something unjust has occurred. Privilege, Power, Influence, and Making a Difference Part 2 Influence • Influence can be defined as the ability or power of someone to produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others. Privilege Privilege can be defined as a special advantage or immunity or benefit not enjoyed by all Activity What Multicultural Group do you belong or identify as being a member? Everyone needs to feel • the butterflies of inexperience • that insecurity that makes one conscious of every word, body language, and nuance when dealing with peers • the inability to articulate the questions we have “All change is difficult” Allport, 1956 Activity The Chain of Privilege The Chain of Privilege Read Carefully The Chain of Privilege Take about 15 minute to create your chain. Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult Groups denied or less Privilege Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich Groups denied or less Privilege youth Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich men Groups denied or less Privilege youth poor Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich men adults Groups denied or less Privilege youth poor women Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich men adults white people Groups denied or less Privilege youth poor women elders Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich men adults white people heterosexual Groups denied or less Privilege youth poor women elders people of color Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege adult rich men adults white people heterosexual Groups denied or less Privilege youth poor women elders people of color lesbian/gay/bisexual Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege able-bodied Groups denied or less Privilege Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege able-bodied labeled “normal” Groups denied or less Privilege differently-abled Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege able-bodied labeled “normal” Christians/Gentiles Groups denied or less Privilege differently-abled labeled as “special ed” Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege able-bodied labeled “normal” Christians/Gentiles English as a first language Groups denied or less Privilege differently-abled labeled as “special ed” Jews/Other religions Privilege Chart Groups having Groups denied or less Privilege Privilege able-bodied differently-abled labeled “normal” labeled as “special ed” Christians/Gentiles Jews/Other religions English as a first language other first language than English labeled as “normal” body image Privilege Chart Groups having Privilege able-bodied labeled “normal” Christians/Gentiles English as a first language labeled as “normal” body image Groups denied or less Privilege differently-abled labeled as “special ed” Jews/Other religions first language other than English labeled “fat,”, skinny,” etc The Concern Privilege + Power used negatively → Oppression (-isms) Racism White Privilege + Power used negatively = Racism! The ISMS • • • • • • Racism Classism Sexism Heterosexism Sizeism Anti-Semitism • • • • • • • Linguistism Ableism Adultism Ageism Alphabetism Elitism -isms Examples Our Lives - Sexism Our Lives - Racism You’re not planning a terrorist attack are you? Our Lives - Linguistism I can’t understand a thing she is saying! Our Lives - Racism Our Lives - Heterosexism That’s Sick! Our Lives - Adultism Our Lives - Ableism Our Lives - Classism Our Lives - Sizeism Our Lives – Anti-Semitism So did you make a lot of money at the car wash? So, should I say anything? Yeah, except for the lady that jewed be out of $5.00 The Hope Privilege + Power used positively → Change in the school climate What can you do? • • • • • • Take action- INFLUENCE Listen/learn Use your privilege positively - INFLUENCE Talk with others - INFLUENCE Take a chance, make mistakes Get support, accept support What can you do? • Do Some Soul Searching • Don’t be a bystander – be a change agent- INFLUENCE • Be a Role Model for others- - INFLUENCE • -isms can be “unlearned” • React to personal, institutional and societal –isms - INFLUENCE • Our collective responsibility What can you do? BE AN ALLY INFLUENCE Packet Your Homework Packet 1. Article – White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible 2. 3. 4. 5. Backpack Oppression of Target and Non-target Groups Poem – An Ally’s Promise Being an Effective Ally Personal Exploration of Privilege Let’s Talk! Questions? Photos by http://www.edchange.org/multicultural/index.html Privilege a special advantage or immunity or benefit not enjoyed by all