Introduction to the Speechmaking Process Michele Serra, October 25, 2012 Chapter 2 Introduction to Critical Listening Stages If speaking is silver, listening is gold. -Turkish Proverb The most important language skill We listen first, then speak, read, and write Listening is the foundation … but listening is not automatic! Agenda 1 Stages 2 Styles 3 Improvement Strategies 4 Become a Critical Listener Stages Percentage of Time Listening 70% Communicating 30% Not Communicating Speaking 30% Listening 45% Reading 16% Writing 9% Stages 5 Stages of the Critical Listening Process 1 Hearing (Sensation) 2 5 Critical Response (Feedback) Selection (Sorting) Listening Process 4 3 Evaluation (Assessment) Interpretation (Meaning) Stages Stage 1: Hearing (Sensation) Hearing is an automatic mechanical process Hearing is about Noise Listening is about Meaning Stages It all starts with protecting your hearing Listening Devices: No more than 70% volume No longer than 4.5 hours Protect hearing in environments over 90 decibels. (hair dryer, lawnmower are 90 dB) (Time Magazine, 02/09) Noise Induced Hearing Loss (NIHL) Sound receptors called cilia cannot regenerate once destroyed If destroyed, affects hearing and balance Stages Stage 2: Selection (Sorting) Noise Choose what you will attend to from the mass of sounds and input. Content Be selective, but listen to the entire message before rejecting all or part. Stages Stage 3: Interpretation (Meaning) We all rely on intrapersonal inputs and filters including: History Values Needs Culture Intelligence Wants Beliefs Attitudes Fears Everyone’s frame of reference is unique “Why do people feel so strongly about one candidate vs. the other?” Stages Stage 4: Evaluation (Assessment) Goal is to understand the meaning of the message Evaluation Motivation high from desire to add to knowledge Suspending judgment to grasp intent of speaker & depth of material Stages Stage 5. Responses (Feedback) Internal: Arise from interpretation/evaluation May occur at anytime during speech Thoughts and conclusions arising in your mind External: Feedback, verbal, questions, comments Non-verbal, shaking head, looking confused or bored. Backchanneling – nonverbal vocal cues, “Uh-huh” Includes questions and comments Agenda 1 Stages 2 Styles 3 Improvement Strategies 4 Become a Critical Listener Styles 6 Styles of Listening 1 - Reluctant 6 - Critical 2 - Aggressive Listening Styles 3 - Appreciative 5 - Comprehensive 4 - Empathetic Styles Style 1: Reluctant Listening out of obligation Low Motivation Reluctant Counteract with discipline, notes, association Distasteful or boring experience Styles Style 2: Aggressive Nonlistening style Low motivation to listen Opinionated biased pointof-view Aggressive Argument rehearsals More emotional than critical thinking Styles Style 3: Appreciative Attentive, responsive, higher retention Interested in message, music, content Still need to think objectively Appreciative High motivation to listen Use listening skills Styles Style 4: Empathic Put yourself “in the speaker’s shoes” High motivation to listen Empathic No advisegiving, unless asked Connect with their thoughts and feelings Nonjudgmental listening Styles Style 5: Comprehensive Goal is to understand the meaning of the message Comprehensive Motivation high from desire to add to knowledge Suspend judgment to grasp intent & depth Styles Style 6: Critical Questioning, responsive mind-set Motivation comes from desire to understand Critical Consider full message before judging Fair-minded attitude whether pro, con, neutral Determine if message is valid and supported Agenda 1 Stages 2 Styles 3 Improvement Strategies 4 Become a Critical Listener Improvement Strategies Listening Improvement Strategies 4 Steps to Improve Critical Listening Improve Hearing Channel Become Motivated Eliminate noise & distractions Relate to topic Stay alert, avoid fatigue Expand interest Study topic ahead of time Take Notes Listen for Key Words Note-takers remember 1.5 times more after 6 weeks Don’t try to write the entire message Those who don’t , forget 80% of lectures after 2 weeks Listen for main points and central ideas Improvement Strategies Managing Distractions Speaker’s appearance, language, mannerisms, personality: Do: Focus on message Ignore trivialities Don’t Seek distractions to stray from message Overly criticize speaker, daydream, chat , fake attention “Choose self-discipline to listen.” Improvement Strategies Managing Distractions Your beliefs, attitudes and values are triggered: Do Steer away from mental rebuttals Respect presenters and event Don’t Focus solely on your frame of reference “Choose self-discipline to listen.” Improvement Strategies Managing Distractions Topic seems too challenging, boring, irrelevant: Do Keep an open mind to learn new and thought-provoking information Relate it to something you know. Don’t Do not dismiss topic as unimportant Avoid prejudging until hearing entire message “Choose self-discipline to listen.” Managing Distractions Overcome Thought Speed: Speaking Speed = 125 - 150 wpm Listening Speed = 400 wpm Listeners can think 4X faster than speakers can talk, so minds wander Counteract: Take notes Anticipate speaker’s next point Analyze logic and evidence of message Improvement Strategies Managing Distractions Overcome Automatic Talking Learn why people talk without listening Agenda 1 Stages 2 Styles 3 Improvement Strategies 4 Become a Critical Listener Become a Critical Listener Everything you hear is an opportunity to listen! Whether in a conversation, at meeting, attending a presentation or watching the news, always: Exercise an open mind Resist distractions Take notes Withhold judgment until hearing entire message Q&A Questions & Answers What did you learn today that you didn’t already know? How will critical listening impact you the most? What do you plan to change first?