Wer? Who? Nominative Wer ist da? Who is there? Wen? Whom? Accusative Wen siehst du? Whom do you see? Wem? To Whom? Dative Wem hast du das gegeben. To whom did you give that to? Wessen? Whose? Genitive Wessen Bleistift ist das? Whose pencil is that? If your having trouble, try restating questions as statements and inserting the correct pronoun. This may help you determine the case of a noun and therefore whether to use wer, wen, wem or wessen. Wer ist dein Vater? Nominative Er ist mein Vater. Er is the subject of the sentence = Nominative Wen siehst du? Du siehst ihn. Accusative Ihn is the direct object = Accusative Wem hast du das Geld gegeben? Du hast ihm das Geld gegeben. Dative Ihm is the indirect object = Dative Wer hat mein Buch genommen? Who has taken my book? Wer wird nach Bremen fahren? Who will drive to Bremen? Wer ist dein Freund? Who is your friend? Wer hat das gesagt? Who has said that? In each of these examples you will notice that wer is acting as the subject of the sentence. Wen wirst du besuchen? Whom will you visit? Wen kannst du sehen? Whom can you see? Wen liebst du? Whom do you love? Wen magst du? Whom do you like? In each of these examples you will notice that wer is acting as the direct object of the sentence. Wem hast du dein Buch gegeben? To whom have you given your book? Wem gehört das? To whom does that belong? Wem hast du geholfen? gehören & helfen are dative verbs. This is why they use Wem in these situations. Whom have you helped? Wem wirst du deine Eintrittskarte geben? To whom will you give your ticket? Wessen Buch hast du? Whose book do you have? Wessen Auto ist das? Whose car is that? Wessen Klasse hast du? Whose class do you have? Wessen Kuli ist das? Whose pen is that?