EMPOWERING YOUR MENTORING PROGRAM WITH TRAINING FOR MENTORSHIP JOAN M. LAKOSKI, PH.D. JML27@PITT.EDU ASSOCIATE VICE CHANCELLOR FOR SCIENCE EDUCATION OUTREACH UNIVERSITY OF PITTSBURGH, HEALTH SCIENCES MARCH 28, 2012 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO STIMULATE GOOD MENTEE – MENTOR RELATIONSHIPS? 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum WHAT ARE EFFECTIVE APPROACHES TO STIMULATE AND SUSTAIN GOOD MENTEE – MENTOR RELATIONSHIPS? 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum What we hope you will learn from this session Consider the importance of “setting the stage” in a new mentoring relationship Discuss the role of providing training to mentees and mentors regarding their respective roles and responsibilities Explore the importance of establishing goals and expectations among all parties Consider strategies to encourage effective communication among all parties Who are the parties in a mentoring program? Mentees Mentors Mentoring Program Director Program staff/administrators Departments/Centers/Institutes University Public And why does mentoring matter? Careers in academic institution are increasingly difficult to navigate Careers as a exciting rollercoaster ride Highs, lows, twists and turns The old linear model of academia The new dynamic model of academia Junior faculty face complex issues navigating the labyrinth of an academic career Where to I want to go? How to I find the right path? Who will help me make the best choices? Will my organization help me meet my goals? Mentoring is a partnership agreement between individuals sharing experiences and expertise to help with personal and professional growth A multidimensional social process Empowers individuals to capitalize their personal and professional strengths Gives support and guidance so individuals challenge themselves and take risks in their career paths Mentoring Functions Career Functions “Learning the ropes” Individual advancement Sponsorship Exposure & visibility Coaching Protection Challenging assignments Psychosocial Functions Establishment of professional identity Role modeling Acceptance & confirmation Counseling Friendship DON’T WE KNOW WHO TO TURN TO FOR ADVICE AND GUIDANCE? Mentors AND DON’T WE KNOW WHO TO AVOID IN A MENTORING RELATIONSHIP? Good Mentors Tormentors For mentees – the challenge is to learn from both Caution: Mentoring is not a panacea Negative mentoring experiences are possible Mentoring versus “cloning” Unethical behavior Boundary violations Acknowledgement: Audrey J. Murrell, Ph.D. Associate Professor of Business Administration University of Pittsburgh As your mentees establish their faculty identity … Careers in academic institutions are increasingly difficult to navigate They may need multiple mentors LAUNCHING A NEW MENTORING RELATIONSHIP THE IMPORTANCE OF “SETTING THE STAGE” 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum Case Study: The missing mentee Dr. Regino is a talented early stage career investigator in the field of aging research now going into his 3rd year of his appointment as tenure track Assistant Professor. He joined the PATHS Mentoring Program (see handout) and met with his mentor Dr. Sally for the first several months. Lately, however, Dr. Sally has not seen or heard from her mentee… Case Study: The missing mentee Discussion (In Small Groups) Please refer to the PATHS Mentoring Expectations document What should Dr. Sally do? What obligations does Dr. Sally have? What are Dr. Regino’s obligations? How might the Mentoring Program Director assist? What is the impact of false assumptions? “Setting the stage” at the beginning As Directors of Mentoring Programs what activities are essential to launch a new mentee-mentor pair or mentoring team? LAUNCHING A NEW MENTORING RELATIONSHIP HOW DO MENTEES AND MENTORS LEARN THEIR RESPECTIVE ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES? 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum Roles and responsibilities that contribute to an effective mentoring relationship Mentees Mentors - Facilitate mentee’s learning - Set goals and identify needs and growth - Seek guidance and feedback - Provide skills and make - Accept feedback needed resources available - Be open to new skills and - Provide guidance approaches - Provide feedback - Accept responsibility for - Evaluate the mentee’s plans actions - Maintain confidentiality - Maintain confidentiality - Maintain regular contact - Maintain regular contact Attributes and habits that make for an effective mentoring relationship Come prepared to meetings Respect each other’s time Follow through and accept responsibility Demonstrate foresight and self-knowledge Come with solutions, not just problems Seek clarification in communications Give, request and accept feedback Mentors can have multiple roles in a mentoring relationship Mentor as Guide Information broker -Mentor Impartsas professional skills Ally - Encourages strategic thinking Coach --Mentor Helps mentee reflect Provides as aAdvocate safe placeon where Guide behaviors that or mentee can askhelp questions hinder success andto -Champion and share difficulties mentee Ally tomentee learn from failures - how Helps increase see visibility how other perceive them Advocate --Open Offersdoors specific to new feedback learning to Reality check supportexperiences mentee’s growth Fan club - Connect mentee to others who can be of benefit Wisdom keeper Mentors can assist with timelines and goals Mentors can ask great questions: What are your immediate goals? Where do you want to be in the next 2 years? What do you want to accomplish in 10 years? Have you considered personal issues, including work-life balance? Do you have a written plan? So how do we teach mentoring? Formal training for mentors is emerging - TEAM at University of Pittsburgh Exercise: Learning to be mentor Fill out the Mentoring Challenge Form From TEAM at the University of Pittsburgh Find a partner and compare results Learning to be a mentor Discussion What worked well? What was difficult? Advantages to this form? Disadvantages to this form? How might this activity support your role as Director of a Mentoring Program? How might mentor training encourage and/or discourage new mentors? LAUNCHING A NEW MENTORING RELATIONSHIP ESTABLISHING GOALS AND EXPECTATIONS 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum To Be Effective Mentees and Mentors . . . Build an understanding of your personal goals and expectations for this mentoring relationship Begin a dialogue to share goals and expectations Exercise: Setting goals and expectations Need a partner One to be the mentee and one to the mentor Each needs a 4x 6” card Developing a mutual understanding of goals and expectations Individually list 3 goals and 3 expectations for your mentoring relationship Share your goals and expectations for this mentoring relationship seeking to understand respective view points Have you identified areas that will require additional reflection and discussion? Developing a mutual understanding of goals and expectations Discussion What worked well? What was difficult? Advantages to this interaction? Disadvantages to this interaction? How might this support your role as Director of a Mentoring Program? Exercise: Use of mentoring agreement for setting goals and expectations Need a partner (find a new partner) One to be the mentee and one to the mentor Each pair needs a Mentoring Agreement Form Developing a mutual understanding of goals and expectations Discussion What worked well? What was difficult? Advantages to this interaction? Disadvantages to this interaction? How might this support your role as Director of a Mentoring Program? What is the impact of having a signed agreement? SUSTAINING A NEW MENTORING RELATIONSHIP ENCOURAGING EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION 2012 USC Mellon Mentoring Forum Mentoring thrives on communication Clear communication is vital to keeping a mentoring relationship on track Consider a balance between virtual and face to face meetings Mentor Program Directors can review the frequency of meetings To Be Effective Mentees and Mentors . . . Build trust and solve problems through effective interaction Effective listening and dialogue are essential Develop a written action plan for your mentoring relationship Goal setting can be helpful Recognize short term versus longer term goals Establish milestones for future review Write it down Periodic review and assessment of the mentoring relationship can be useful What can derail a mentoring relationship? Lack of effective communication Need to access frequency of interactions Types of communication Make time for face to face discussions when either party is not satisfied with progress Be patient but don’t wait…. So if your next career steps seem like a rollercoaster ride… Academic careers can be a great ride to share with family, friends and colleagues Good luck with your mentoring programs!