Middle and Late Childhood
Socioemotional Development
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Erik Erikson
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Social and Emotional Development
▪ Erikson’s industry vs. inferiority stage important as children
strive to develop a sense of mastery & competence.
▪ Older children can feel multiple emotions at once and are more
likely to:
▪ connect emotional reactions with their concepts of themselves.
▪ use emotions to guide behavior.
▪ maintain feelings for longer periods of time.
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Maturing Emotional Lives
Children in middle childhood:
▪ Come to recognize simultaneous emotions.
▪ Develop self-conscious emotions.
▪ can explain emotions and think of others’ reactions
▪ Come to understand that people may not show their true
feelings.
▪ understand cultural display rules
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Fears and Worries
▪ All children fear death and danger.
▪ After 10, worry more about fitting into social environment.
▪ Report fewer fears with age.
▪ Girls express more fears at all ages.
▪ Most fears are short-lived, but some can develop into:
▪ anxiety disorders
▪ phobias (age 6-8)
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Learning about Themselves
More complex thinking leads to three changes in children’s self
concepts:
1. They pay more attention to abilities and personality traits.
2. They distinguish among various domains of competency, and selfdescriptions become more differentiated.
3. Self-esteem, global evaluation of self, declines
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Emotional Intelligence
▪ Based on Daniel Goleman’s 1997 book
▪ Best described by ability to:
▪ Accurately perceive and express feelings.
▪ Use emotional information to form thoughts and opinions.
▪ Understand causes and consequences of emotion.
▪ Manage emotions.
▪ Emotional intelligence helps children/people
▪ maintain friendship.
▪ avoid unnecessary risks.
▪ achieve relationship and job success.
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Raising Self-Esteem
▪ Achievement and success with peers leads to high self-esteem.
▪ Adults can promote:
▪ positive self-concepts by helping children learn what they need to
succeed.
▪ sense of self-efficacy, belief that they have the skill to achieve specific
goals.
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Does Praise Work?
Praise doesn’t always work:
▪ Children begin to see relationship between effort and ability.
▪ There are risks for overemphasizing talent OR effort.
▪ Excessive Praise can interfere with intrinsic motivation.
Pride from accomplishment is rewarding.
When sincere, praise works.
▪ Encourage achievement, attribute performance to factors that the child
can control, and communicate reasonable expectations
▪ Avoid excessive, meaningless praise that dilutes the value of hardearned praise
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Peers
▪ People of approximately the same age and status
▪ Piaget, Erikson and Vygotsky argue that peer
relationships provide a unique context for cognitive,
social, and emotional development
▪ In their view, the equality, reciprocity, cooperation, and
intimacy that can develop in peer relationships enhance
children’s reasoning ability and their concern for others
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Interactions with Friends
▪ Interactions are punctuated with talking, smiling, and laughter.
▪ Children work with friends to resolve disputes and preserve
relationship.
▪ Familiarity encourages children to work together as team.
▪ Friendship gives opportunity to practice social skills not
emphasized in other relationships.
More companionship and intimacy
with friends than with parents
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Choice of Friends
▪ By age 7, children tend to like peers who are similar to themselves
in the cognitive maturity of their play and in their aggressive behavior
▪ Fourth- to eighth-grade friends are more similar than nonfriends in
prosocial behaviors, antisocial behavior, peer acceptance, and
academic motivation
▪ Adolescent friends tend to have similar interests, attitudes, and
behavior
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A graphic
representation
of Annie’s peer
social world.
Annie is a
typical
8-year-old.
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Peer (Social) Status
▪ Dodge (1983) study revealed basic differences between
groups.
▪ Five status groups include:
▪ Popular-11 percent
▪ Rejected-13 percent
▪ Neglected-9 percent
▪ Controversial-7 percent
▪ Average-60 percent
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Fitting In
▪ Even popular children are sometimes rejected or ignored.
▪ Children rarely try to put others at ease.
▪ Popular children blend in while figuring out norms of group
rather than calling attention to themselves.
▪ Aggression increases chances of rejection when not offset by
socially appropriate behavior.
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Rejected Peer Status
▪ Liked by few peers and disliked by many peers
▪ A majority of rejected children tend to fall into two categories:
AggressiveRejected
WithdrawnRejected
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Aggressive-Rejected Children
▪ Are especially prone to hostile and threatening behavior, physical
aggression, disruptive behavior, and delinquency
▪ About 40% to 50% of rejected children tend to be aggressive
▪ When they are angry or want their own way, many rejected children also
engage in relational aggression
▪ Aggressive behavior often underlies rejection by peers
▪ However, not all aggressive peers are rejected; some develop a network of
aggressive friends
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Withdrawn-Rejected Children
▪ Are socially withdrawn, wary, and often timid
▪ Make up about between 10-25% of the rejected category
▪ Not all socially withdrawn children are rejected or socially
excluded
▪ Withdrawn behavior combined with negative actions or emotions is
correlated with rejection, although this pattern may change with age
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Peer Status Consequences
▪ Rejected children
▪ tend to recreate unpleasant status
▪ want to avoid school
▪ score lower than other groups on school achievement
▪ are more likely to later have problems with the law
▪ Perceived “sociable leaders” score better on numerous
outcomes
▪ Academic achievement, job performance, social competence
▪ Early interventions recommended.
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Relation of Children’s Sociometric Status to Academic and
Behavioral Problems
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Relation of Children’s Sociometric Status to Academic and
Behavioral Problems
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Relation of Children’s Sociometric Status to Academic and
Behavioral Problems
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Relation of Children’s Sociometric Status to Academic and
Behavioral Problems
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Quality of Parent-Child Interactions
and Peer Relationships
▪ Parent-child interactions are associated with peer relationships
in much the same way that attachment patterns are
▪ Mothers of popular children are more likely than mothers of less
popular children to discuss feelings with their children and to use
warm control, positive verbalizations, reasoning, and explanations
▪ Fathers’ parenting practices in general appear to be somewhat less
closely related to children’s social competence and sociometric status
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Sharing and Cooperation
▪ Prosocial children:
▪ are competent
▪ are advanced in moral reasoning
▪ are good at imagining themselves in others’ shoes
▪ have prosocial parents as models
▪ Altruism more likely when child is happy and helping someone
she knows.
▪ Increasing empathy makes them better friends.
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Importance of Friendship
▪ Focus changes from concrete attributes to abstract qualities.
▪ Similarity is important.
▪ By late childhood, most children are part of a peer group that is:
▪ Organized in hierarchical fashion.
▪ Identified by shared values.
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Cliques and Social Networks
in Middle Childhood
▪ Cliques are friendship groups that children
voluntarily form or join themselves
▪ In middle childhood, cliques tend to include
3 to 9 children who
are usually of the
same sex and race
▪ By age 11, many of children’s social
interactions occur within the clique
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Hostile Behavior
▪ Aggressive behavior (e.g., teasing, name calling, ridiculing)
likely to occur during middle school years.
▪ Mutual antipathies, dislike for children who dislike them, is
common.
▪ Bullies, children repeatedly cruel to others, have more
antipathies.
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Bullying
▪ There is a bullying continuum with many bullies also being
victims.
▪ There is physical and relational bullying.
▪ Some use physical force while others treat children as outcasts.
▪ Boys more likely to be physical victims.
▪ Physical and relational victims at
risk for depression and future rejection.
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More on Bullying
▪ Victims are not all alike.
▪ Varying Attributional styles.
▪ Some are anxious while others might be irritable or hot tempered.
▪ Bullies and victims benefit from programs that teach ways to handle
peer problems.
▪ Bullying has long term effect.
▪ Parents and schools have role in preventing bullying.
▪ It does not disappear on its own.
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