“What are taboos?” – Ivory
A taboo is basically an invisible rule in a society. It’s something people just know not to do. It comes
from the Polynesian word tapu, which means ‘forbidden’ or ‘sacred.’ These rules aren’t usually written
down but everyone knows them, and if you break one, people will not act warmly. As our survey has
shown, many people gave unwelcoming reactions such as side eyes and even a middle finger. They exist
to create boundaries, protect traditions, and show respect. The taboos change depending on where you
are. For example In Asian culture, putting chopsticks upright in rice is linked to funerals, so it’s not
allowed. In addition, in many Western countries, talking loudly in public spaces will get you annoyed
looks. The fascinating thing is that something taboo in one culture can be totally normal in another, so
it’s like each place has its own secret rulebook you have to figure out.
“Why are there different taboos?” - Kelvin
So, after interviewing people from different backgrounds, they said the reason why taboos aren’t the
same everywhere is probably due to history and traditions. Almost everyone mentioned that it’s
because each culture has its own beliefs which shapes what people see as ‘right’ or ‘wrong.’ A lot of
people said religion is a major factor. Some pointed out that history leaves a mark meaning events from
the past can turn into long-term customs. Others talked about geography, saying certain taboos
originally came from survival needs in specific places, like avoiding certain foods because they spoiled
easily in the climate. A few people explained that respect looks different from culture to culture. The
overall conclusion from my survey is that taboos are not universal. They’re shaped by where you live,
what you believe, and the traditions passed down in your community. And what’s disrespectful in one
place could be totally normal in another.
What are some things people consider rude that aren’t to others? - Liv
When I asked people about things that are considered rude in some places but totally fine in
others, the answers were honestly so surprising. For example, slurping your noodles. If you do
that in Japan, people might think you’re just enjoying your food. But in places like the US or
UK? People will probably think you never learned table manners. Being late is another one. In
some American countries, showing up 15 or 20 minutes late is normal. They would usually use
excuses saying they were being fashionably late. But in Asia and in Europe, if you’re even five
minutes late, it’s basically a crime against punctuality. Then there’s burping after a meal. In
China or some Middle Eastern countries, it can mean you liked the food. In most Western
countries, people will just look at you, disgusted. Direct eye contact is another big one. In the
US, it’s a sign of confidence. But in some Asian cultures, it can feel aggressive or disrespectful.
The next one is tipping. In the US, not tipping is considered an insult. But in Japan, tipping can
actually be seen as rude. Even pointing with your finger is different. In the US, it’s totally
normal. In Malaysia or Indonesia, it is considered impolite. After that, we have sitting with your
feet pointing at someone. In the Western culture, it’s nothing. But in Asian or Arab countries, it’s
actually disrespectful. Last but not least, we have talking loudly in public where in most
countries it said to be alright but in Asia, it is a whole different story.
RESEARCH CONCLUSION - Kevin
From our interviews and research, we know taboos aren’t random. They’re tied to history,
religion, geography, and the environment, and they set boundaries, protect traditions, and show
respect for the sacred. Our survey, with examples like slurping noodles and tipping, shows every
culture is unique. What’s rude to you might be normal to someone else. Taboos pass down
cultural stories, and learning them is about more than avoiding mistakes. It’s about appreciating
diversity and culture.