NO B.S Instagram Optimization
Guide
I’M ANGRY.
Im angry at all the dudes who aren't actively developing their Instagram profile.
The same dudes who will pay for tinder and bumble premium but won’t invest in a good
profile.
Instagram is the BEST Dating App Out there.
In fact, Instagram is the best App to MEET OTHER COOL PEOPLE.
But
The traditional Instagram Game has changed.
cold DMing girls is alright, but you want to DRAW THEM IN.
This is going to be a No B.S guide On Optimizing your Instagram to Draw in Beautiful
Women & Connect with Badass Men.
First,
Most of You need to absolutely ERASE ALL YOUR CURRENT POSTS because they
are so bad, so LOW QUALITY.
And I don't mean camera quality,
I mean WHAT IT COMMUNICATES.
Confused?
LET’S FUCKING BEGIN.
INSTAGRAM > PHONE NUMBER IN 2023
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I used to go for a girl’s phone number Too, back in 2020 and before.
But now?
I don’t see the point.
Not before you’ve ATLEAST kissed her.
Why?
Your phone number doesn’t mean anything to her.
But through your Instagram?
she can get a GLIMPSE, a SNEAK PEEK, into your Life.
The kind of people you hang around with
The places you visit and your status at those places
The amount of women who know, like and trust you (social proof)
Your Instagram is the BEST TOOL to get women in 2023.
Why would you want to take her Phone Number?
If you’re a weird dude she’s gonna leave you on seen either way, G.
The Flexing Lifestyle is DEAD.
In 2023, anyone can put together a few flexing photos.
Every girl knows the game.
4 boys, Pooling together some money, going to exotic places, living in dirty houses but
getting the “Instagram pictures”
In fact, it’s not even respected or admired anymore.
Women crave authenticity.
Women crave PERSONALITY.
Women crave SOCIAL STATUS.
Women crave YOU.
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So be authentic, wrapped around in a desirable lifestyle
What is a desirable lifestyle? It depends on the women you want to attract.
In fact, I would avoid traditional flexing because Artificial Intelligence and tech has made
it so fucking easy.
The new “flex” is having TIME & LOCATION & LIFESTYLE FREEDOM.
Going on a hike among the mountains on a Tuesday Afternoon, when most people are
working in your corporate job.
Shooting the shit with the boys, windows down, gassed up when most are in their
homes.
The new “QUALITY” photos are not professionally shot, but IN-THE-MOMENT.
Nonchalance.
WHAT YOU NEED: THE GOLDEN MINDSET
The Golden Mindset is very simple.
Nonchalance + Authenticity + Natural
Posing- Literally and Metaphorically, is DEAD.
What’s valued is Random, In-the-moment photos of you and your tribe taken by your
friends.
SET THE CULTURE AMONG YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLEEVERYONE TAKES RANDOM PHOTOS OF EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME.
That’s literally it.
You’re out for a daytime coffee or a playing a sport.
Take out your phone and start snapping pictures.
Everyone does the same, and then you share the photos with each other.
IT’S AN UNSPOKEN RULE.
When you do this,
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Every picture will be conveying a STORY.
You with some girls on a hike, you with the boys at a gun range, or you with your social
circle standing up and giving a toast.
You shooting the goal, scoring a basket, talking to a beautiful girl.
HE IS THE COOL GUY.
So remember to keep taking photos and videos everywhere you go. You can use it for a
1 second clip in a 9 second reel that goes viral. who the fuck knows. PERSONAL
CONTENT IS KING.
WHO ARE YOU?
Most guys never ask themselves this question.
and then, proceed to copy every basic influencer type who has ZERO respect.
Your Instagram is YOUR TRUE SELF.
You can honestly also display your harmless flaws on your stories once in a while, like
let’s say, you’re out with your friends and you spill something.
Ask your friend to take a video of you, where you all just laugh about it.
This is another idea of posting a story. I’m going to be dropping a lot of ideas, create a
mix of it
Do cool shit that you like and post it.
What is “cool shit”?
Well, it depends on the kind of audience you want to draw in.
Your profile picture is just you looking cool.
Your Bio is a simple statement that intrigues the audience. A one liner like - “Now or
Never”
Anything honestly. Don’t overthink this. you’re not an influencer.
WHAT KIND OF AUDIENCE DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT?
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I know TONS of multi-millionaires who have adopted the flex angle on Instagram.
Sure, they get laid.
But that’s ALL they do.
They are unable to attract QUALITY women and find it IMPOSSIBLE to RETAIN them.
You attract what you put out.
CREATE THE IDEAL ARCHETYPE OF THE WOMEN YOU WANT.
NameInterestsHobbiesKind of Memes they look atEVERYTHING.
THINK.
Do this RIGHT NOW.
In fact,
The kind of content you interact with, is the kind of people WHO YOUR PROFILE WILL
BE SHOWN TO.
The kind of content you interact with, is the kind of people WHO YOUR PROFILE WILL
BE SHOWN TO.
Start interacting with food accounts, fashion accounts, and similar ones that the kind of
girls you want see.
No Rap account please.
Interacting with Tweets is also great on instagram. Lot of pretty girls do that.
If you want the 9s but who are BADDIES, go to the club and make friends, post pictures
and interact with the nightlife accounts.
But all this is hard without the social circle mindset.
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Your Social Circle Mindset
You cannot have an amazing Instagram without an above average social circle filled
with people who do cool stuff.
I have a DETAILED guide on how to create, curate, and grow a Social Circle inside
Seduction Bible, which is honestly overpowered. (Check it out- gum.co/seducewomen )
But, I’ll put in a basic how-to from the Q&A Bible (which is my $5 guide on my personal
opinions about various subjects. Check it out here- gum.co/askmr
Social Circle is my favorite topic, because it’s the KEY to the game going forward.
Nothing has a higher ROI in 2023 and onwards.
Friends help friends.
Building a social circle is fun. Genuinely.
But before you do that, YOU MUST ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY.
Learn to do things SOLO.
People will love your company only when you first love your own.
The key is to recruit people who are the best at something.
One is best at bringing the party, one is great at money, one is great with networking,
one brings the funny elements, etc etc.
The ratio should be equal, although you can and should have different social circles for
different purposes. Some will have more girls, some will have more guys.
On the other hand, as you grow wiser, stronger and successful, you will lose touch with
a lot of old friends. You simply won’t be able to relate. That’s alright because it’s the
healthy churn of life.
How do you increase your social value though?
Think- what do you have that others want? or better yet, NEED?
Do you bring fun, excitement and amazing emotions to the table?
Do you have access to women?
Different circles have different needs, and to penetrate them, you need to put yourself
into their radar.
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Like I've mentioned later here, you must go to places of common interest.
Then FIND RAPPORT through stories, shared experiences, charismatic questions.
What this does is, it helps you DIG FOR COMMONALITIES.
Frequency (how many times you see each other)
Duration (how much time you meet each other for)
Intensity (of the emotions and memories shared)
Commonalities (What you both vibe on)
The FDIC formula is KEY.
Then, to have a reason to keep in touch, you plan a future event, like having a drink with
them to doing the common interest again.
I could go on and on about this.
I have an in depth guide on this called the Social Circle Bible. (It’s 1 of 30 guides inside
my bestselling course, The Seduction Bible) Link HERE if you want to check it out.
Depth of Character
You need to have different sides to your self.
Don’t be the “travel dude”, the “trust fund kid” or the “fuckboy”
Combine a mix of them THREADED BY THE GOLDEN MINDSET.
Some days you show your ambitious side by posting a sneak peek of a project you’re
working on.
Some days you show this hobby you’re playing
Some days you show what you and your social circle are upto.
Some days you’re all alone, reading a book or having coffee.
Instagram Stories is where you’ll be posting the day-to-day,
And Your Posts are where you’ll be posting your NORTH STAR.
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Let’s say, you’re big into traveling. on your profile posts, you post you in an exotic
location.
Carousel posts are doing amazing these days.
Put in a mix of your photos, group photos, random quotes, funny elements into your
carousel.
Now, I don’t watch anime, but I know a LOT of pretty girls who do.
So, even if you don’t want anime, just look at what the popular ones are these days, and
post any random story of an iconic scene. Or… you can actually watch it if you have the
time.
I frankly don’t and I don’t go the anime route, but you can.
AGAIN, THESE ARE ALL POTENTIAL IDEAS.
KEY- Do NOT put YOUR ENTIRE LIFE on Instagram, but treat it as a SNEAK PEEK
INTO YOUR LIFE.
Like a keyhole that a girl (and guys) see your life from- but still need the keys (sliding
into your DMs and meeting you) to actually get the full treatment.
THE COLD TO WARM APPROACH: CTW
The CTW approach on IG is my favorite.
I funnel in girls who I meet through my social circle + content + approaches into my
Instagram.
Then, I send them a Meme/Quote/Post related to something we had a commonality on,
or vibe upon.
This builds some rapport.
If you follow this random girl who follows you back, then- wait for her to post a story. See
what she’s about and the ONLY ACCEPTABLE way to slide into her DMs is to REPLY
TO HER STORY with a funny/cocky/charismatic remark.
Don’t ask me what, just be a cool dude who’s giving off good vibes.
Now, she knows about your existence.
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Do some back and forth banter, FDC, and get the sharing reciprocity going.
Ideally, you want to mix in every “share” with some more conversation and eventually
inviting her to a date.
It’s not that difficult, and I don’t want you to focus on the robotic stuff.
Don’t waste time on girls who don’t care.
Its Instagram boys, There’s literally a BILLION Women.
Eventually, I will also start sending her DMs of my Passion Account.
Let’s say, yours is your fitness account where you post your workout results and flex.
It’s acceptable to share that and add a “Hey, started this xyz because xyz. Do give it a
follow, thx”
All these things are going to make the girl in question STALK YOUR PROFILEHIGHLIGHTS, POSTS, EVEN COMMENTS.
It’s literally so easy.
Human Touch:
Authenticity is the most valuable currency on Instagram.
The current and upcoming generation have all realized that the flexing lifestyle is fake.
They don’t trust “influencers” because they know it’s all shilling.
They trust PEOPLE LIKE THEM.
And how to make women realize they like you?
Make them realize THAT THEY ARE “LIKE YOU”
What do women love? Travel, Art, Food, Humor
Your stories should convey PERSONALITY.
Add your “WEIRD” twists. Be funny, be interesting- women will start replying to your
stories.
The younger generations (im talking about the 18-21 range) are sharing a LOT of
Instagram, and if you’re an older dude, you should be taking notes BUT STILL
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MAINTAINING your “MYSTERY”
Dropping breadcrumbs, hyping up each other, doing crazy fun things (something as
simple as jumping over a small fence in the middle of the night.
My point is, it LITERALLY doesn’t have to involve money.
In fact, I would advise against using the money angle. Use the “Im a chill dude living
an amazing lifestyle with my badass social circle of beautiful women and G
dudes. If you’re not with us, you’re MISSING OUT!”
PASSION ACCOUNTS (To Display Your North Star)
Women love creative things.
You should have 2 accounts.
one is your primary account, personal.
the second is where you display your side that you don’t show anyone.
A Personal brand, basically where you display your NORTH STAR- the thing you’re
better at/leanring to be better at than most.
Could be fitness, cooking (yes), travel, art, music.
And you MUST engage with the same type of content on these accounts. If you’re a
fitness dude, like, comment, and follow similar people in the space, AS
GEOGRAPHICALLY LOCAL AS POSSIBLE.
Instagram algorithm is exactly that.
Preferably she can see your face in the reels you put out, so she knows “This guy does
creative things”
Doesn’t even have to be your own face, you could just start and Anime fan page
account (not ideal but it is what it is)
Bottom line- this is your “shameless plug” account, where you can go wild with your
content and share with people because, hey “It’s my passion account”
And who knows, you might even amass a huge following.
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INSPIRATION
@ Adamhorowitz
@ Arlin
@ Imangadzhi
These three dudes are killing it at their Instagram Game.
Yes, they are rich. But I want you to see the kind of content they post, the kind of ideas
they have.
Yes, their followers are high but that doesn’t matter.
In fact, I would recommend everyone get their followers up to atleast 500.
Hook or Crook.
Make it happen.
And please, keep your following as low as possible.
UNFOLLOW ALL “CELEBRITIES”. You’re a warm blooded male, why do you care about
people who don’t care about you? Or much worse, don’t even know about your
existence?
The OBVIOUS “NO-NOs”
More than 9 posts (Turn the average ones into stories instead)
Cockfest (all guys in every photo)
Selfies (2014 called)
Cringe captions and basic bios (c’mon, you can do better)
Don’t post a photo with just ONE girl (other girls will assume she’s your girlfriend)
The OBVIOUS “Yes please!”
Social proof (Cool social circle around you doing fun things)
Multiple women and 1 more guy in a photo. (2 guys and 3+ girls)
Women leaning into you, laughing with you, looking at you, giving you something
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Variety of content and emotions
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHERI recommend reading this guide over and over again because the ideas are scattered
around.
One important question you would be wondering is “MR, wouldn’t this take a LOT of time?”
Honestly, no. You just need to take out a few hours a week to do cool shit with your
social circle and you will get WEEKS of content which you can play around with.
And even if it does take time, you should put it.
It’s an investment, like anything in life.
You spend more time watching sports and hanging out with people who you don’t even
want to be around.
With this strategy, you will expand your circle, better your life setup, and create
memorable experiences.
Remember, this is what you want to communicate“Im a chill dude living an amazing lifestyle with my badass social circle of
beautiful women and G dudes. If you’re not with us, you’re MISSING OUT!”
And if you want to check out my other products and free guides, they’re all laid out hereMasculinity Rediscovered
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FAQ-
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Im a college student, I’m on self improvement. I don’t go out or take photos often.
What should I post?
Post your self improvement journey in a non-cringe way. You must go to the gym, right?
Post progress pictures, post your buddies in the gym, including women. Which books
are you reading? post them. And in between those, post any random outside photo,
maybe you go to visit the park. a coffee shop. POST THAT. You don’t even have to
physically be there. Take all photos on one day of the week for Instagram and post them
randomly.
What should be blended into the profile? I’m a high-value man who owns
businesses and travels.
A Mix of everything, with a “North Star” as explained above. Show your business
developments and add a funny twist to it by maybe interviewing some females
employees and asking them random questions.
Belong to a traditional country where you can’t post explicit stuff because family will
see.
then don’t. tons of other things to post about, which show your personality. Or just
mute/block them.
Close friends?
Just put all the girls who follow you into your “close friends” list and you can post all
sorts of cringe shit that guys would give you hate on.
I don’t have many friends but would like to increase my following.
Everyone who owns the Seduction Bible (Freedom Edition) is added to our Mastermind
Groupchat where we all follow each other. Reason I can’t open it up to all because you’ll
be stalked by weirdos and random dudes. Everyone in the mastermind is a verified G
because they had the balls to invest a couple hundred bucks into their future.
Get inside here- gum.co/seducewomen
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If you got any specific instagram-optimization questions that I missed out on, email me
mascrediscovered@protonmail.com
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