INTRODUCTION: EVALUATING PERSONALITY THEORIES Theories of Personality • Personality Psychology o Scientific study of the psychological forces that make people uniquely themselves. o Main objective: explain how and why people behave as they do. ▪ Focus: thoughts, feelings, behaviors from an empirical & scientific perspective. o Personologists: refer to personality researchers & theorists. o Became formalized and systematized primarily through the work of Gordon Allport’s Personality: A psychological interpretation. • Scope of Personality Psychology 1. Theory Development o Most important part of personality psychology o Theory vs Hypothesis 2. Personality Research o Theories must be tested through systematic research involving hypothesis testing 3. Personality Development o Factors contributing to the emergence of personality (eg. Rate of physical development & effects of gradual physical changes.) 4. Personality Assessment o Development and use of techniques that accurately (valid) and consistently (reliable) measure different aspects of personality • What is a Theory? o A set of related assumptions ▪ Set- more that one; to integrate observations ▪ Related – not isolated; possess consistency ▪ Assumptions – not proven but accepted as true • • • • Allows scientists to use logical deductive reasoning o Logical – characterized by/ capable of clear, sound reasoning o Has specific goal to formulate testable hypothesis o testable – suggests a theory’s worth o the presence, quality, or genuinesness of anything is determined; a means of trial. Personality Research: What makes a useful theory? o Generates Research ▪ Able to stimulate and guide further research. ▪ The research should have main goal/purpose to help the specific field o Falsifiable ▪ Able to be confirmed/disconfirmed ▪ Precise enough to suggest a research that would support/ not its major tenets. ▪ Theory should stand alone; to say endpoint (does this claim support the meaning of the theory I have chosen) o Organizes Data ▪ Able to classify and organize research findings and make it eaningful. ▪ Framework: capable of integrating and explaining known data ▪ Result should match/support the theory Definitions of Personality o Depends on the theory that defines it. o Depends on the approach taken by the theorist o Has common elements o Has levels of analysis • Personality Definition: Depends on The Theory That Defines It o Each theorist sees personality from an individual reference point influenced as well by their life experiences & history o Psychology of Science: investigates impact of a scientists psychological processes & personal characteristics on the development of theories & research ▪ Has begun to look as the personality traits of scientists ✓ Personality Definition: Depends of the Approach taken by the theorist o Determinism Vs Free Choice ▪ Are we determined by forces we cant control, or can we choose to be what we wish to be ▪ They provide certain decision on a certain problem (eg. Patient approaching therapist for options to cure to alcoholismshould follow SMART analysis) o Pessimism Vs Optimism ▪ Are we doomed to live a miserable life or can we change & grow into fully functioning beings? o Causality Vs Teleology ▪ Is behavior function of the past experiences or the future goals and purposes? o Conscious Vs Unconscious Determinants of Behavior ▪ Are we aware of what & why we are behaving, or are we driven by unconscious forces o o Biological Vs Social Influences on Personality ▪ Do genetics and heredity shape us, or do social relationships? ▪ Nature v Nurture Uniqueness Vs Similarities ▪ Is the salient future of people their individuality , or is it their common characteristics Genetic-Environmental ✓ Biological-Trait: inclined in genetics o Trait Approach: providing a certain exam that will assesss intorvertness/extrovertness and measure of aggressiveness (answer is based on biological influences) ✓ Humanistic-Behavioral: opp. Of bio o Humanistic: highly human based/ experience based o Behavioral: highly social (we learn by observing other people) Unaware of Determinants (Base on dreams & childhood, repressed memories)-Conscious of Determinant ✓ Psychodynamic: Freud; unaware of the cause of why the certain action is being done; repressed memories; unconcscious. ✓ Humanistic, Trait, Dispositional: Based on the current stance (experiences, feelings, anger, pain etc). Understanding the stem of problems (that’s why it leans more on the conscious side) • Personality Definition: What’s Common Among Most Definitions o Uniqueness of the Individual ▪ Importance of individuality/ distinctiveness ▪ internal & external influences ▪ life history/ the development of the person ▪ we define the personality of the person based on a certain individual (past experiences, future goals, dream aspiration etc) o Consistency of Behavior ▪ Consistent patterns of observable behavior ▪ If we want to define a certain personality it needs to be consistent throughout the lifetime. ▪ ▪ ▪ • • PSYCHOANALYSIS Sigmund Freud Levels of Mental Life Evidence: dreams, slips of the tongue, neurotic symptoms, repressed memories Origins: Repressed childhood memories, Phylogenetic, Endowment Phylogenetic Endowment: The experiences of our early ancestors that have been passed on to us through hundreds/ generations of repetition; patterns of thinking rather than ideas. Preconscious o Contains elements that are not conscious but can be readily so o Origins: Conscious perception, Unconscious Conscious o Minor role in the psychoanalytic theory o Contains elements in awareness at any given point in time o Origins: Perceptual conscious system, Non threatening ideas from preconscioys Provinces of The Mind • • • • Superego: can be retrieved Id: unconscious Personality Structures • Cornerstone: Sex and Aggression • Levels of Mental Life o Unconscious ▪ Drives urges, instincts, beyond awareness • Id: Instinctual Ego: ideal self, balances negative to positive, touch based to reality Superego: focuses on perfectionism, morality and idealistic principle, no contact with the outside world o Conscience: punishments are their drive (should not do); produces guilt o Ego: aiming towards reward (should do); produces inferiority Freud: Dynamics • • • Driving forces behind people’s actions: Instincts & Anxiety Instincts • • Life instinct/ Sexual Instinct/ Eros o Impetus: Libido o Source: Genital/ Erogenous zones o Aim: reduction of sexual tension (Active/Passive; temporary/ permanent) o Forms: ▪ Narcissism: Primary (infant’s self centeredness) & secondary (Adolescents’ selflove) ▪ Love: investing libido on object/person other than self; Sexual (overt) & Aiminhibited (repressed) ▪ Sadism & Masochism: cornerstone of the 2 instinct theory of sex & aggression Death Instinct? Destructive Instinct/ Thanatos o Pseudonym: Aggression o Aim: return the organism to its inorganic state o Final aim: Self destruction o Sadism and Masochism are also endowed w/ energy from death instinct Anxiety o Definition: felt, affective, unpleasant state accompanied by physical sensation that warns the person of impending danger o Origin: The ego, confronted by demands of Id, Superego, External World o Kinds: ▪ Neurotic Anxiety: apprehension about an unknown danger originates from the Id; result of fear of punishment/ authority (previously experienced unconscious destructive feelings towards them) ▪ Moral Anxiety: originates from conflict between ego & superego; result from failure to do behave correctly. (fear of failing/ generating it from past failure that destroyed your dignity) ▪ Realistic Anxiety/ Objective Anxiety: originates from outside world; resembles fear but does not involve specific feared object; an unpleasant non specific feeling involving a possible danger o Is Ego-Preserving as it signals some danger at hand o Is Self-Regulating as it precipitates repression which reduces the pain/ anxiety Freud: Defense Mechanisms • • Purpose: Avoid dealing directly w/ instinctual demands & to defend the ego against anxiety that accompanies the demands May be Normal & Universal • • • May lead to Psychopathology – compulsive, repetitive, neurotic behaviors Principal Defense Mechanisms PRIMITIVE o Fixation: permanent; remaining at the present more comfortable stage of development o Regression: temporary; reverting to an earlier stage of development which has lesser stress o Projection: attributing unwanted internal impulse to an external object/person; see in others unrecognizable feelings or tendencies that resides in ourselves (Paranoia) Freud: Defense Psychopathology Mechanisms & Freud: Development • • In the psychosexual stages, the first 4/5 yrs of life (infantile stage) are the most crucial for personality formation Freud said, Anatomy is destiny, in that physical differences in male and female account for important psychological differences Freud: Healthy Personality • • Freud never conceptualized the notion of psychological maturity But a healthy personality would have a: o Balance among the structures of the mind (Ego controlling the ID & Superego, while allowing for reasonable demands) o Ego functioning in the center o ID impulses expressed honestly w/o guilt o Superego would move beyond parental identification & control o Ego-ideal would be realistic and congruent w/ ego o Consciousness would play a more important role, w/ only a minimal need to repress. o Repressions would emerge in the form of sublimations. • • Jung: Levels of The Psyche • ANALYTICAL PSYCHOLOGY Carl Gustav Jung - - Psyche o Rather than minds o Is a self-regulating system like the body o Actively sets development of individuation. Mind o Refer to as mental functioning which are conscious • Freud’s student 20 years younger Coined Analytical; Psychology (BirthDeath) Freud focused only on birth-middle adulthood; Jung: Birth-Death Recognized alternative view of personality by studying the psychological paradigms of the neoFreudian theory. His goal is self individuation (similar to Maslow’s self-actualization) Jung: Personality Structure • Conscious o Ego: center of consciousness o Organizer of our thoughts, feeling, sensations, emotions and memories which are not repressed o Bearer of personality: stands between inner and outside worlds o The way people connect to their outside world through their attitude Personal Unconscious o Anything which is not presently conscious but can be o Made up essentially of contents which have at one time been conscious but have disappeared from consciousness through having been forgotten/ repressed o Painful/negative memories that we can recall: shapes our personality o experiences that can be retrieved easily (violating rules, cheating etc) o Collective Unconscious: innate characteristic that we unconsciously have (we got from our ancestors) Difference Between Collective Unconscious & Personal Unconscious o The personal unconscious was the accumulation of experiences from a person’s lifetime that could not be consciously recalled. The collective unconscious was a universal inheritance of human beings, a species memory passed on to each of us Jung: Archetypes • Jung’s Level of The Psyche People differ in conscious, Jung make 4 functions of the conscious which are: • • • • • • • Thinking Feeling Sensation Intuition o One is dominant from the other based on their usage to the person Personal Unconscious: contains all forgotten, repressed, or subliminally perceived experiences of an individual. o Complexes: contents of the personal unconscious; a person’s reaction towards an experience. Collective Unconscious o It does not refer to inherited ideas but rather to human’s innate tendency to react in a particular way whenever their experiences stimulate a biologically inherited response tendency. o Freud’s Phylogenetic Endowment: portion of our unconscious that originate from the experiences of our early ancestors that have been passed on to us through hundreds of generations of repetition. Archetypes: these are ancient or archaic images that derive its contents from the collective unconscious. o originate through repeated experiences of humans’ early ancestors. o Have biological bases but originated from the repeated experiences of human’s early ancestors. • • • • • Persona: this is the side of personality that people show to the world. o Similar to “Mask” in theater o Not necessarily comprise the whole of personality o Must have a balance between the demands of society and our inner self Shadow: represent qualities that we hide from ourselves and others o Archetype of darkness and repression o 1st test of courage Anima: feminine archetype of men and counterpart of animus o originated from early men's experiences with women forming a generalized idea of woman. o It represents irrational moods and feelings (mood swings). o Man’s 2nd test of courage Animus: masculine archetype of women o originated from prehistoric women’s encounters w/ women o symbolic thinking and reasoning o same as anima; appears in dreams, vision, and fantasies in a personified form. o Anima and animus sound like society’s stereotype of the sexes Great Mother: derivative of anima and animus o pre-existing concept of a mother. o associated w/ positive and negative feelings. o represents 2 opposing forces fertility and nourishment on the one hand and power and destruction on the other. o can be performed by a male because of love (father, lolo) Wise Old Man: derivative of the anima and animus; archetype of wisdom and meaning. o symbolizes human's pre existing knowledge of the mysteries of life o • • this knowledge, however is unconscious and cannot be experienced directly by an individual o madiskarte sa buhay, best to approach when you have problems, gives u answers based on his experience in life. o Literal man Hero: represented in mythology and legends as a powerful person, sometimes part god who fights great odds to conquer evil o in the end however, the hero is undone by an insignificant person/event o on the movies, television, and comics when the hero defeats the villain. it frees us of feelings on impotence and misery; at the same time, serving as our model for the ideal personality Self: disposition that each person possess an inherited tendency to move toward growth, perfection, and completion o most comprehensive archetype. o Archetype of archetypes o it pulls together the other archetypes and unites them in the process of self-realization. o To achieve self-realization, a person must: ▪ attain individually by hindering their persona from dominating their personality ▪ recognize the shadow ▪ gather much courage in facing their anima/ animus o conscious and personal unconscious components, o mostly formed by collective unconscious images o symbolized by a person’s odeas of perfection, completion, and wholeness o ultimate symbol of mandala o Mandala: represents strivings of the collective unconscious for unity, balance, and wholeness. Jung: Psychological Types 1. Thinking: it is a logical activity that produces a chain of ideas. Thinking enables people to recognize a thing’s meaning. a. Extraverted Thinking: rely heavily on concrete thoughts, minimal use of abstract ideas; are mostly objective i. Mathematicians, engineers, accountants ii. Reformer/ ventilator of public wrongs iii. Self-righteous b. Introverted Thinking: more colored interpretation, highly subjective. i. internal meaning or highly subjective & creative manner ii. inventors & philosophers iii. can be too individualized 2. Feeling: it describes the process of evaluating an idea or event. Feeling tells people a thing’s value or worth. a. Extraverted Feeling: objective data to make evaluations. They are not guided so much by their subjective opinion, but by external values and widely accepted standards of judgment. i. Business people, politicians, objective movie critics b. Introverted Feeling: subjective perceptions on value judgements rather than objective facts; individualized conscience, a taciturn demeanor, and an unfathomable psyche. They ignore traditional opinions and beliefs, and their nearly complete indifference to the objective world (including people) often causes persons around them to feel uncomfortable and to cool their attitude toward them. i. Critics of various art forms (subjective movie critics) ii. Mostly silent, inaccessible, and hard to understand iii. Hide behind a childish/ banal mask iv. Women 3. Sensing: it receives physical stimuli and transmits them to perceptual consciousness. Sensing tells people that something exists. a. Extraverted Sensing: perceive external stimuli objectively, in much the same way that these stimuli exist in reality; sensations are not subjectively influenced i. reality-oriented, and shuns thinking and contemplation ii. proof-reader, house painter, wine taster b. Introverted Sensing: largely influenced by their subjective sensations of sight, sound, taste, touch, and so forth. They are guided by their interpretation of sense stimuli rather than the stimuli themselves. i. Irrational type guided by the “intensity of the subjective sensation excited by the objective stimulus” ii. Overreact to outside stimuli iii. Portrait artist 4. Intuiting: it involves perception beyond the workings of consciousness. Intuition allows people to know about something without knowing how they know. a. Extraverted Intuiting: factual thinking; provide objective solutions; more on external reality. i. Suppress many of their sensations (guided by hunches) ii. Keen nose for anything new and in the making iii. Politicians, merchants, contractors, speculators b. Introverted Intuiting: subjective and have little or no resemblance to external reality. i. Unconscious perception of facts (subjective) = little or no resemblance to external reality. ii. Mystics, prophets, surrealistic artists, religious fanatics iii. Judgment functions are relatively repressed. Jung: Development of Personality • In contrast to Freud, Jung emphasized the SECOND HALF OF LIFE (period after age 35 or 40). • STAGES OF LIFE = SUN’S JOURNEY through the sky (brightness of the sun = consciousness) o Early morning sun – childhood o Morning sun – youth o Early afternoon sun – middle life o Evening sun – old age Stages of Development 1. Childhood a. Anarchic Phase: i. Chaotic & sporadic consciousness ii. Islands of consciousness may exist, but there is little or no connection. iii. Experiences sometimes enter consciousness as primitive images, incapable of being accurately verbalized. b. Monarchic Phase: i. Development of ego ii. Beginning of logical & verbal thinking. iii. Children see themselves OBJECTIVELY and often refer to themselves in the THIRD PERSON. iv. Islands of consciousness =larger, more numerous, and inhabited by a primitive ego. v. Ego is perceived as an object, not yet aware of itself as perceiver. c. Dualistic Phase: i. Ego as perceiver arises when ego is divided into the objective and subjective. ii. 1st person iii. Aware of their existence as separate individuals iv. Islands of consciousness = continuous land, v. inhabited by an ego complex that recognizes itself as both object and subject. 2. Youth a. puberty to middle life b. According to Jung, a period of increased activity, maturing sexuality, growing consciousness, and recognition that the problem free era of childhood is gone forever. c. Conservative Principle: desire to live in the past. (natural tendency to cling to the narrow consciousness of childhood) 3. Middle Life a. Begins at 35/40 b. The sun has passed its zenith and begins its downward descent. (Increasing anxieties) c. A period of tremendous potential d. Rigid and fanatical in trying to hold on to their physical attractiveness &agility e. Finding their ideals shifting 4. Old Age a. Experience as the light and warmth of the sun diminish at dusk b. DEATH is the GOAL of life c. Most of Jung’s patients were middle aged or older, and many of them suffered from a BACKWARD ORIENTATION (clinging desperately to goals and lifestyles of the past.) Jung: Development of Personality & SelfRealization • Self-Realization o Psychological rebirth (individuation) process of becoming an individual or whole person. o Analytical psychology essentially a psychology of opposites. o Process of integrating the opposite poles into a single homogenous individual o o o o Process of “coming to selfhood” a person has all psychological components functioning in unity Extremely rare Almost never achieved before middle life Self-realized individuals: ▪ Realization of the self ▪ Minimized their persona ▪ Recognized their anima/animus ▪ Acquired a workable balance between introversion & extraversion Individuation • • • • • • The search for wholeness within the human psyche Self as the centre of personality Person aims to become conscious of him/herself as a unique human being, but at the same time, no more nor less than any other human being Conflict is not only inherent in human psychology but is necessary for growth. In order to become more conscious, ne must be able to bear conflict Something which cannot be fully explained/understood but has the quality of both conscious and unconscious worlds ADLER & HARRY STACK SULLIVAN: INTERPSYCHIC THEORIES • Student of Freud Alfred Adler • • • Eventually split from Freud’s psychoanalytic circle but went on to have a tremendous impact on the development of psychotherapy. He also had an important influence on many other great thinkers, including Abraham Maslow Founder of INDIVIDUAL PSYCHOLOGY Inferiority complex • • • At age 4/5 you can plan what you want to do in life, this will be your personality till the end Founding member & president of Vienna Psychoanalytic Society in 1910 (along with freud, jung) Initially a colleague if Freud & helped established psychoanalysis. He looked at the individual as a WHOLE, which is why he referred to his approach as individual psychology. Adler: Structural Concepts • • Cornerstones: Social Interest & Compassion 6 Main Tenets (principle/belief): o One dynamic force is striving for success (constant learning, makikinabang sarili and society)/ superiority (sinasamba ng tao/ authority figure) (inspiration are success & power) o People’s subjective perceptions shape their behavior & personality: every thought, concept, belief that you have now will be your driving force of personality/behavior. o Personality is unified & selfconsistent. o The value of all human activity must be seen from the perspective of social interest: every single person should think of other people, every decision must be beneficial to people you are around to. o Self-consistent personality structure develops into a person’s style of life: once you have decided the type of personality that you have, the next would be the style of you rlife (healthy lifestyle, selfless etc.) o Style of life is molded by people’s creative power (ability to be flexible, change your future, to adapt to the current needs of society). Adler: Major Tenet 1 Success/Superiority • • • • yourself – and the Striving for FINAL GOAL: Superiority/Success Product of CREATIVE POWER: ability to freely shape our behavior and create our own personality. By age 4/5, our creative power has developed to a point we can set our final goals. Striving Force as Compensation • We are blessed at birth w/ small, weak, inferior bodies. Because we have an innate tendency for wholeness/ completion. These physical definciencies ignite feelings of inferiority. • We strive for superiority/ success as a means to compensate for feelings of inferiority and weakness. • The final goal provides guidelines for motivation and may take a form of either superiority or success. • Your inferiorities are inborn, this would be your driving force. Adler: Major tenet 2 – Subjective Perceptions • Fictionalism o Manner in which people strive for success of superiority is shaped not by reality but by subjective perceptions of reality. o People’s subjective perceptions shape their behavior & personality o Since, people are motivated by present perceptions of the future, Adler’s concept of fictions leans towards Teleology rather than causality. ▪ Teleology: explanation of behavior in terms of final purpose/aim; concerned with future goals ▪ Causality: considers behavior springing from a specific cause; deals • with past experiences that produce some present effect. Organ Inferiorities (Physical Impediments) o Considered as a driving force, towards perfection/completion. o Become significant when they stimulate feeling of inferiority o Some compensate by moving towards psychological health while others overcompensate and live in a useless style of life. o Do not cause a specific style of life ut simply provide present motivation for reaching goals (Eg. Beethoven was deaf but still created musical masterpieces; people with physical handicaps, steal because they can’t get a job) Adler Major Tenet 3 – Unity & SelfConsistency of Personality • • • • • Each person is unique and indivisible. All thoughts, feelings, and actions, moves towards the direction of a single goal and serve a single purpose All behavior are consistent and meaningful; No inconsistent behavior Organ Dialect/Organ Jargon o The deficient organ expresses the individual’s goal o The body’s organs speak a language that is more expressive o Eg. A child wants to disobey the parents is shown through wetting the bed (bladder instead of mouth) Harmony Between Conscious & Unconscious o Unconscious as the part of the goal that is neither clearly formulated nor completely understood o No dichotomy, only cooperation as parts of a unified system. o Both behaviors have one purpose = realize the goal of superiority/success o Do not oppose or try to antagonize/cancel out each other • Adler: Major Tenet 4 – Social Interest • • • • • • • Put on emphasis: giving back to society Original German term “Gemeinschaftsgefuhl” = social feeling/community feeling Implies membership in the social community Strives not for personal superiority but success for all mankind Social Interest o Attitude of relatedness w/ humanity and empathy for each member of human race o Manifests as cooperation w/ others for social advancement o Natural inferiority of each person necessitates theor joining together to form a society o Therefore, social interest is responsible for our existence o (jimyenshetsful) ORIGINS OF SOCIAL INTEREST o Mother: Mother-and-child relationship during early months of infancy ▪ The mother develops a bond that encourages the child’s mature social interest ▪ Foster a sense of cooperation & empathy for people o Father: the second most important person in the child’s social environment ▪ A successful father avoids dual errors of emotional detachment and paternal authoritarianism ▪ Demonstrate a caring attitude toward his wife, his occupation, and society Relationships between the child and the parents smothers the effects of heredity. After 5 years old, the effects of heredity is overpowered by influence of social environment Adler: Major Tenet 5 – Style of Life • • • • • • • Refers to the flavor of a person’s life Include: goals, self-concept, feelings for others, and attitude toward the world Product of interaction between heredity, environment, and person’s creative power. Established by age 4/5 Final goals may be constant, but ways of perceiving it continually change Once you have decided the personality that you have now (ex. U want to be a people person/public servant/ honest to goodness). The style of life would come from 3 factors (creative power (start at early age- defining/view yourself in the future which can be imbibed til you grow up, environment (setting where you grew up, this would also affect how you raise your own kids/wife), heredity (inherited/adapted practice). Useful o you accept changes, you adapt to sudden changes (di magtatanim ng sama ng loob if something unexpected happened) o o o • o Being flexible and adjust to challenges Always giving to society; considering social interest as a major factor for your growth. Continually seeking improvement of self (has room for learning, exploring the world) Useless o You live by: “Isang kahig isang tuka” o You don’t value yourself, you don’t value personal growtheven more so the society o Live in their private world: care little for others and endow their goals with “private meanings” the world is not in the focus. (pampering yourself; only you; not sharing blessings to others) Rigid and dogmatic style of life: because of higher and unrealistic goals. (not open to change, not ok with challenges, you stay where you are comfortable) Adler: Structural Concepts Adler: Major Tenet 6 – Creative Power • • • • • • • • Dynamic concept, a movement towards a goal Places people in control of their own lives Basically, ability to make your own decisions; to control and be independent of everyonelses decisions whatnot; the freedom Responsible for creation of final goal Determines their method striving & contributes to the development of social interest. People are creatie beings: causing the environment to react to them. Heredity and environment are raw materials in building personality but the architect is person himself. The law of the low doorway • • • Adler: Abnormal Development • • All types of maladjustment have one factor underlying them: Underdeveloped Social Interest (developed when you are selfish, living unhealthy lifestyle, do not have/set future) Neurotics have 3 characteristics: o Set goals too high: overcompensation for exaggerated feelings of inferiority (goals are not attainable) • • Basic Striving Force: Success/Superiority Physical Deficiencies: Organ impediments (kulot, etc) feelings of inferiority is the result of the aforementions Normal Feelings of Incompletion: kakulangan sa buhay will be your driving force to success you value social interest = Final Goal Clearly Perceived Personal Gain Personal Superiority: Ikaw lang mag gagagin, no care to enviornment, only you, selfish = Final goal is dimly perceived (alam mo sa sarili mo na sarili mo lang mag bebenefit) 3 External Factors in Maladjustment • • If you pursue a rigid life: o Exaggerated Physical Deficiencies: They know for their self that they are not that pretty smart, but they will overfeed people to gain pity from others o Pampered Style of Life: Mga lumaki sa layaw (sa isang iyak, bigay lahat ng gusto), he gets what he wants o Neglected style of Life: little to no concern/ no empathy ("pinabayaan kasi ng teacher kaya ganyan" etc); your mindset is always kapag may umaangat sa friends mo, di maganda end goal. Adler: Abnormal Development Safeguarding Tendencies • • • • & Purpose: o Protect an inflated sense of selfimage and fragile self-esteem from public disgrace o Limited only to the construction of neurotic style of life o May either be conscious/unconscious They are self-defeating The goal of self-interest and personal superiority block people from securing authentic feelings of self-esteem Excuses: o Most common; expressed in “Yes, but” or “If only” o Protect a weak sense of selfworth and deceive people into believing that they are more superior than they really are. o Safeguarding Tendencies: defense mechanisms o For those people who lived in an unhealthy lifestyle - these are the person who do EXCUSES AGGRESSION: o Safeguard exaggerate superiority complex, to protect their fragile self-esteem o To those who experience abuse and unhealthy lifestyle, they do this to protect self esteem, ego, psyche o DEPRECIATION: ▪ Undervalue/belittle others’ achievements and to overvalue one’s own and in comparison be placed in a more favorable light; expressed in sadism, gossip, envy, intolerance ▪ overestimate yourself/others o ACCUSATION: ▪ Blame others for one’s failures and to seek revenge; cause others to suffer more than themselves. ▪ blaming others o Self-Accusation: ▪ Marked by self-torture and guilt expressed in masochism, depression, suicide as a means of hurting people close to them; converse of depreciation ▪ self harming to make it seem to other people that you are hurt. • Withdrawal o Safeguarding through distance by running away from difficulties o Moving backward: similar to Freud’s regression; moving to a more comfortable and safe period of life; designed to elicit sympathy (used by pampered children). ▪ Ex: Partner cheated and you decided to step back (going to province, switching schools) instead of facing/accepting the fact na niloko ka o Standing Still: simply do not move in any direction thus avoiding any responsibility/possibility of failure; never do anything to prove they are unable to accomplish their goals ▪ Instead of solving each of your problems, you ignore them instead o Hesitating: vacillations/procrastinations when faced w/ difficulties; most compulsions are attempts to waste time ▪ Some are motivated by procarastination o Constructing obstacles: some create their own obstacles that they can overcome ▪ when you cant solve a current problem, you would create a new problem to be distracted from the current problem (nambabae - > instead of facing it, you will also find a new lalake = create a new problem) Adler: Masculine Protest • • • • Cultural practices, not anatomy, influence many men and women to overemphasize importance of being manly. Adler believed that women can do what men can do. He is the 1st one who believed that Masculine Protest: an erroneous belief that men are superior to women. o Proposed during the early 1900’s Modes of adjustment to this belief are results of cultural influences and not inherent psychic differences between the sexes o Others revolt, become assertive and competitive o Other accept passively. Adler: Applications • FAMILY CONSTELLATION: Birth order affects personality. o First Born ▪ Power, superiority, high anxiety, overprotective tendencies ▪ Treatment of second child depending on age and prior style of life (hostile/cooperating) o Middle Born ▪ Moderately competitive ▪ Revolutionary attitude ▪ Shaped by their perception of the older child’s attitude ▪ Easiest to talk to by psychologists ▪ Has clash with the youngest o Youngest ▪ Most pampered; problem child ▪ Inferiority feelings and dependency ▪ • • Most motivated to exceed other siblings o Only Child ▪ Competition w/ parents ▪ Egotistical tendencies ▪ May have exaggerated sense of self-concept Early recollections o Memories have no causal effect on the type of personality o People construct memory which are consistent with their present style of life o Early recollections will change as style of life changes Dreams o Treated not as wish fulfillments BUT as forward looking o Provide clues for solving future problems o Cannot tell future but represent the dreamer’s attempt to solve a problem. o Most dreams are self deceptions. The more a goal is inconsistent with reality the more likely dreams will be used for deceptions. HARRY STACK SULLIVAN • • • • • • • • • Last psychoanalyst under Freud. All the psychoanalyst based their theories on their life Undergone Rags to riches. Neo Freudian: New thinking, makabagong pag iisip Father of INTERPERSONAL PSYCHOLOGY/PSYCHIATRY Considered as one of Adler’s inspiration. Emphasized on the importance of relationships and social relationships. Harry Stack Sullivan was the only child of a poor Irish farmer belonging to the farming community of Norwich, New York • • • • • • • Born on 21 February 1892, his childhood was lonely His companions were mute animals who he couldn’t share his thoughts with. His mother was also distant and was dissatisfied with the poor economic situation of the household and did not give him much affection. Sullivan’s personal life experiences have also affected his professional ideas, opinions and views later on in his life. Sullivan is known for his Interpersonal Theory Father of interpersonal psychiatry or interpersonal psychoanalysis He explained the role of interpersonal relationships and social experiences in shaping personality Interpersonal Theory • Our relationships w/ others are shaped by 2 primary needs; o Need for Security and Intimacy o Need for security: involves our desire to feel safe and protected o Need for Intimacy: intimacy involves our desire for emotional closeness and connection with others. The Dynamics of Personality • Tension o Needs ▪ General well-being of a person ✓ Most basic interpersonal need: Tenderness: concerned w/ the over o ▪ all wellbeing of a person. ✓ Our needs call for specific actions to lessen or reduce. Anxiety ▪ Calls for no consistent actions for its relief. ▪ Complete absence of anxiety and other tensions is called Euphoria Anxiety • • Transferred from Parent to Infant in the process of EMPATHY Anxiety in the mother = anxiety in the child The Chief Disruptive Force that Blocks healthy Development (Neurotic) • • • PREVENT PEOPLE FROM LEARNING FROM MISTAKES. o Parents that are too much hand on, does not let the kid to learn (ayaw madapa, masaktan etc) KEEP PEOPLE PURSUING CHILDISH WISH FOR SECURITY HINDER PEOPLE FROM LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCES • The Structure of Personality • • • Dynamism Personifications Cognitive Process Cognitive Process/ Ways in perceiving things • Personification • • • Judgers: Subjective perceptions of what you experienced before. Personifications are subjective perceptions that people acquire of self and others throughout the stages of development. These perceptions may not always be accurate and can be distorted as well o Bad-Mother Good Mother grows out of infants' experiences with a nipple that does not satisfy their hunger needs. Later, infants acquire a good-mother personification as they become mature enough to recognize the tender and cooperative behaviour of their mothering one. o Me Personifications o (1) the bad-me, which grows from experiences of punishment and disapproval, o (2) the good-me, which results from experiences with reward and approval, and o (3) the not-me, which allows a person to dissociate or selectively inattend the experiences related to anxiety Eidetic Personifications o people often create imaginary traits/friend that they project onto others. e.g. imaginary playmates that preschool-aged children often have • Prototaxic: o Experiences that are impossible to put into words or to communicate to others (observable in infants) o People are being misjudged sometimes for not being able to fully express themselves. Parataxic o Experiences that are prelogical and nearly • impossible to accurately communicate to others (e.g. You think of a friend and the friend arrives at your door at the same time. Your thinking of your friend and his arrival happens simultaneously but are not logically connected) o Included in these are erroneous assumptions about cause and effect, which Sullivan termed parataxic distortions o Nagkataon lag; ex. Tumaya ng lotto then you won (you kind of predicted it) Syntaxic o Experiences that can be accurately communicated to others (e.g. words and numbers) o Children become capable of syntaxic language at about 12 to 18 months of age when words begin to have the same meaning for them that they do for others o Opposite of protitaxic, when you ask them they can clearly put into words when asked on the spot. Interpersonal Theory Summary • • personality is the product of a long series of stages in which the individual gradually develops “good feeling” toward others and a sense of a good me toward himself or herself The individual also learns how to ward off anxiety and correct distorted perceptions of other people, learns to verify his or her ideas through consensual validation, and above all seeks to achieve effective interpersonal relationships on a mature level.