We analyzed the calls of 23,363 B2B sales deals with AI and uncovered the following patterns and trends in how to use first person language. 1. Use “We” on Cold Calls “We” language helps you “sell” your company and start to build some credibility in the mind of the prospect. Instances per Minute of “we” Language 0 .5 1.0 1.5 2.0 Successful Cold Calls 1.84 Unsuccessful Cold Calls 2. Start Meetings Using “We” Successful sellers continue this heightened use of “we” language during the first 4-6 minutes of scheduled sales meetings to build credibility. Instances per Minute of “we” Language 0 .5 1.0 1.5 Successful Sales Meetings 2.0 1.53 Unsuccessful Sales meetings 3. Switch to “I” for Rapport Building After the first 5 minutes of a meeting, successful sellers transition to building rapport by introducing more unifying “I” language for the remainder of the call. Instances per Minute of “I” Language 0 1 2 Successful Sales Meetings 3 2.38 Unsuccessful Sales meetings 4. Use "I" Language During Pricing 3 2 1 Instances per Minute 0 1 2 3 Successful Pricing Discussions “We” 1.3 Language 2.4 Unsuccessful Pricing Discussions 2.05 “I” Language 1.84 Use “I” language to humanize yourself during a negotiation to be treated fairly by your buyer. 5. When It’s Competitive, Use “We” Instances per Minute of “we” Language 0 .5 1.0 1.5 Successful Cold Calls Unsuccessful Cold Calls Check out more research and insights at: gong.io/blog 2.0 2.1 Successful sellers respond to competitor mentions by lavishly using “we” language to differentiate their company from their competitors.