IG SECRETS REVEALED!
THE 3-STEP SYSTEM TO
DATING HIGH-QUALITY
WOMEN USING IG
WITHOUT WASTING YOUR TIME
& SWIPING ON DATING APPS
LIMO OUESLATI
Every day when I wake up,
my DM's look like this.
I can put in 15 minutes of work and get
that every single day CONSISTENTLY.⁣⁣
PS: Follow me here @limo.oueslati
Quick Introduction Before We Start
Hey, it's Limo here.
I'm the founder & CEO of Higher Self Circle.
And let me tell you a quick story... ⁣
8 years, I had no systems in my dating life, I was lost. ⁣
I wasn’t the playboy I am today at all. ⁣
I really wish I knew back then what I'm about to show you.
I remember having a girlfriend in high school and waking
up every day with the anxiety of not being up to par. ⁣
I thought she was the “ONE”. ⁣
I was afraid of losing her, I didn’t know what to say or what
to do to keep her attracted... ⁣
I was in total scarcity and she could sense it so we quickly
broke up. M
⁣ aybe you can relate to this story or had a
similar experience in the past? ⁣
That breakup instilled in me a DEEP sense of urgency and
drive to build a life of abundance and options with women.
I decided that my current situation was a CHOICE, and since
then I took personal responsibility for my own outcomes in
my dating life.⁣⁣I knew it had to change. ⁣
So I chose to improve my social skills, build my value,
improve my peer group, invest in mentors and demand a
better life. ⁣
From then on, I became deeply passionate about
communication and psychology, about seduction more
precisely, and took massive action. ⁣
After years of taking action & figuring out what works, I
started having legendary results.
Now, I'm pretty famous for pulling models consistently and
having multiple girlfriends.
And I've spent the past 7 years helping ambitious men
(mainly entrepreneurs and professionals) in 34+ countries to
build their own dream dating life across the globe.
You can watch their amazing success stories here.
Let's get into it
Dating apps are for peasants. IG is for KING.
Do you really think you're going to get the highest quality
women on Tinder or on Bumble?
NO! The best women are on Instagram, the highest quality
ones.
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Badoo... All of these are for peasants.
Women immediately categorize you as low value when
you're using Dating Apps. However, Instagram is High-Value.
That's where celebrities and high-status people are. You're
not going to find a celebrity on Tinder.
The right Instagram presence will help you be perceived as
attractive, high-status, and in demand.⁣⁣
With my Instagram System, I get AT LEAST 10 hot girls lining
up every day to talk to me and I get 1-3 dates a week.
Here are 4 reasons why IG is CRITICAL.
4 Reasons Why IG Is Critical For Dating.
1) Instagram allows you to reach women that you
otherwise wouldn't have the opportunity to speak to.
With Instagram, you can talk to unlimited women, you don’t
need to match with them or swipe for hours. ⁣You can talk to
any woman, even celebrities and famous models, that's
where high-status people connect with each other.
Nowadays we live in a globalized dating marketplace,
women have more options than they ever had before. ⁣
If you don’t have a powerful digital footprint in the dating
scene, you are limiting yourself. ⁣
You can only “Cold-Approach” so many girls...⁣⁣
If you’re busy, you don’t have the time to go to the mall and
“day game” every day. It’s not optimal at all.
And even if you cold-approach a girl... If she likes you, she’s
going to want to see your online presence to see how you
truly live your life and if your lifestyle is interesting.
⁣Also if you've been using apps like Tinder & Bumble to get
dates, you can only showcase a few pictures but there's no
option to showcase your lifestyle and have women follow you.
This is why Instagram is much more powerful for conveying
and displaying higher value. You can show stories of your dayto-day life and then store them in your highlights.
Instagram is the new Business card. Instagram is the platform
where men decide if you’re worthy of respect. And where
women decide if you’re attractive & interesting.⁣⁣
Sometimes surprisingly as you work on your Instagram, some
girls that didn’t initially like you will come around and change
their minds about you and start liking you.
When women follow you on Instagram, and you’re both
following each other, it’s a way to stay in touch without trying
to keep in touch. I'd say it's even more powerful than having a
phone number because there are passive demonstrations of
higher value through your stories and posts.
Just like making money during your sleep, you’re building
passive attraction during your sleep through your profile
pictures, stories, highlights, reels, etc.
⁣I've had many instances where I initially cold approached a
woman and at that moment she didn't seem particularly
interested... but I still managed to grab her Instagram and we
started following each other.
Then she started viewing my stories and my lifestyle and she
instantly got more attracted by that so reached back to me by
herself. That's the power of having an Instagram Funnel.
That’s why it’s so important to have a good Instagram
especially when you’re cold approaching women because
when you’re cold approaching them, they’re going to forget
you especially if you approach them in a crowded venue or
event, hot girls get hit up so much there.
The only thing that stays is if they followed you because then
they will see what you post and will remember you and you
have the mere exposure effect working in your favour.
What is the mere exposure effect? Well glad you asked.
The mere exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon by
which people tend to develop more liking for people that are
more familiar to them than others. Repeated exposure
increases familiarity. It's also known as the familiarity effect.
The more she sees your posts, stories, highlights and reels on
Instagram, the more she starts liking you.
This is something that you CAN'T DO with Dating apps.
With dating apps, the game is rigged towards you wasting
your time and making you struggle with the algorithm.
Companies like Tinder invest money in their algorithm to
make you struggle and therefore pay for their subscriptions.
IG is completely free and you don't need to match with a girl
to initiate a conversation.
I will show you how to create an attractive profile that makes
women instantly reply to your DMs and crave your attention.
2) Instagram Is Also The Gateway To Networking &
Building Your Social Circle
⁣Not only is Instagram critical for connecting with young and
beautiful women but it’s also a crucial networking tool. ⁣
I’ve made amazing connections with other guys and
entrepreneurs through Instagram. ⁣
It allows you to build your social circle and network with
men from your city or all over the world.⁣⁣
Parties and events are for the most part organized via
Instagram as well.⁣⁣I sent most of my invites through IG.⁣
And If I want to set up a table with some girls at a cool
nightclub, I’ll reach out to the host or promoter via
Instagram.⁣⁣
I’ve also interviewed famous Youtubers and Influencers on
my podcast The Limo Show through Instagram as well. ⁣
It helps massively for business. ⁣
3) If you're an older guy, you need to adapt to today's
world. (Skip this if you're already using IG)
⁣If you’re still using apps like “OkCupid”, "Meetic" or "Plenty of
fish", you’re simply outdated. ⁣
For guys who are 35+, having Instagram lets you resonate
with younger women. ⁣
If you want to date women who are between 18 and 28,
they’re pretty much all on Instagram. ⁣
It shows that you “GET IT.” When a girl sees you with a great
profile on Instagram, she will think of you as a man who
simply “gets it”. ⁣
Also, dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and all the others are a
massive waste of time for the most part. ⁣
You need to swipe for hours or worse you need to PAY to
match and rank in the algorithm. ⁣
You can still use dating apps if you want but just as a
supplement.⁣⁣You’ll get more results and higher-quality
women on Instagram.⁣⁣
4) Instagram is a massive funnel
There are way more women using Instagram than they are
women using dating apps.
Once you have the proper funnelling systems that I teach,
you will be able to source thousands of beautiful women
living in your city in a matter of seconds.
You can never have a shortage of women with Instagram.
Through your profile, you can funnel women and have them
follow you and your adventures. ⁣
I’ve met countless women in real life that weren’t interested
at first but then, when they started following me and seeing
my stories, they became attracted over time. ⁣
This is due to the mere exposure effect as I explained. The
more a person sees you and pays attention to you, the more
they start liking you and identifying with you. ⁣
That’s one of the main ways I keep women in the loop.⁣⁣
If you have the right Instagram, you can turn “cold” girls into
“warm” leads, just by conveying high status on the platform.⁣⁣
I've been traveling the world for the past
4 years (even during Covid) and had
extraordinary results with Instagram.
Instagram Systems are the key
Instagram Systems are pretty easy to set up.
Your profile needs to have the proper setup and pictures.
You don't need tons of followers, I have a system that I give
my clients to get hundreds of followers in a few minutes.
Then, once you have a couple of cool pictures, you can find
the best women in your city with the system and text them.
What's good with Instagram is you don't even match with
these girls to text them, you can text them right away.
And if you have the right profile setup and system that I
teach, paired with the right texting skills, you'll be able to
convert a lot of them into dates and romantic partners.
What's good with Instagram is that you can also use it for
networking purposes, even in business (contrary to Tinder,
Bumble, Hinge, etc.). It's your own personal brand.
By showcasing your lifestyle and conveying yourself in a
high-status way, you'll be able to make valuable
connections with other men in your city & across the globe.
Step One: Setting Up Your Profile
Pictures are the backbones of Instagram.
Although now it’s evolving more towards video, you still
have to post great pictures, and you can supplement that
with cool lifestyle reels videos.
You don’t need to have a professional photographer all the
time to take pictures for you if you’re good at taking pictures
with an iPhone camera, but for most of you, you would be
better off hiring a photographer.
Actually, If you’re starting your profile from scratch, I highly
recommend hiring a photographer.
It will make the process much easier and it will save you a
lot of time and headaches. It will also ensure you actually
make it happen. Most guys procrastinate, so hiring a
photographer will force you to do it.
Look in your area and find a photographer that’s good. If you
live in a big city, you’re going to find dozens of them. (Either
through word of mouth or you search on IG, google,
craigslist etc.)
What Pictures To Take?
First, you want to be well dressed in pictures, with cool
backgrounds, and cool locations. You must have at least 6
good pictures of yourself. View it as a shopping window.
Here’s the litmus test:
Just ask yourself:
“Can a woman envision herself standing next to you
wherever you’re taking this photo at?”
"Is this picture showcasing the lifestyle/world you can bring
her into?"
So NO weird selfies of you in front of your mirror.
Post pictures of you in cool places in your city, well dressed,
showing that you travel and go out in nice places.
Pictures of you wearing suits are great as well. Suits are
internationally aesthetic, it conveys professionalism.
Pictures of you doing cool activities (playing chess,
gambling, shooting guns, swimming in a cool pool etc.)
Women garner attention with their bodies/looks on
Instagram and men garner attention with their
lifestyle/status.
This does not mean that you need to be rich and have
pictures with Lambos and Jets on your profile...
But this means that you have to portray a cool lifestyle that
shows you’re an interesting & social guy (Show social proof,
preselection, fun activities, travel etc.).
Make sure you take pictures in good locations and tag
yourself there when you post them.
Remember: Perception is reality.
Whatever you convey, people will think is true.
IG is not a platform to be humble, it's a platform where you
can show off a bit and display the best parts of your lifestyle.
We're not there to build comfort, we're there to build
attraction, so you need to look sharp and on your A-game.
More on this inside the Dating Accelerator.
Other Elements You Need To Have
You need to have a minimum of followers but don't worry
you don't need a ton. Inside my programs, I show you how
to get hundreds in minutes without wasting time.
Also in terms of your IG username, stick to your name, and
don't put weird numbers and punctuations.
So if your name is Limo Oueslati, don't put 'Limo198304', or
"limo___197", just keep it simple: @limooueslati.
Then besides the pictures, you need to have a good bio that
summarizes the cool things you're up to.
Your bio needs to be detailed and specific.
Don't just say 'Entrepreneur' if you have a business, show
what your business is, drop a link to it or briefly explain what
you do. Same if you travel a lot, be more specific, mention
how many countries you've travelled to so far.
Finally, your profile needs good highlights and stories.
(More on this inside The Dating Accelerator). In your stories,
you can post cool things that are happening in your life, you
can also post funny memes and quotes.
Step Two: Funneling Women
Once you have a good profile, the next step is to find and
then DM women in your city.
There are many ways to funnel women into your profile.
The first way is through Instagram itself.
Instagram is a powerful search engine and you can actually
find thousands/millions of women in your city and all over
the world through their search feature.
All you have to do is search locations in your city and find
women who tagged themselves there and then DM the
ones you find interesting.
And once you find one, it's easy to find thousands of others.
Instagram will also suggest dozens of other women who are
in your city and who are related to the women you find.
I detail the full systems for that inside my programs and
trust me, it goes way deeper than you think. There are
hidden functions of Instagram that very few men know.
Then besides Instagram, you can find plenty of women in
your city on dating apps as well (Tinder, Bumble, etc.).
Women will drop their IG in their profile's bio so instead of
waiting to match with them, just DM them directly on IG.
The only reason I still use dating apps from time to time is
when I'm travelling to a new city. it allows me to source
Instagram profiles very quickly & find single women.
So sourcing IG profiles from dating apps works and you can
definitely do that if you ever have a shortage of women.
Now the other way to funnel girls is through cold-approach.
Whenever you approach a woman you find interesting, get
her IG and follow up from there instead of a phone number.
It requires less compliance than a phone number because
it's already public so most girls will give it to you anyways.
(even if they don't initially like you).
Then use IG as a follow-up tool and continue the interaction
there. Your IG profile will do most of the talking for you and
will demonstrate high value for you. Pickup artists TALK,
Playboys SHOW. Evidence > Words.
Step Three: Messaging Women
Once you have a good profile, and you find women or you
have leads coming in, you need to convert these leads into
dates. That's how you get dates, it won't come passively.
The only way to get dates is by texting them properly &
having a cool conversation that leads to a meetup.
This is an art & a science. it takes a good amount of finesse.
And the good news is that you can 100% learn this as I did
and all my clients did. I used to suck at texting before.
I actually created a full messaging system that allows you to
convert any perspicacious woman into a closed deal in a
matter of minutes.
It's not some bunch of sleazy lines that those lame texting
experts use on Youtube or Tik Tok. It's built upon the right
communication & psychological principles I teach inside my
mentoring programs.
After working with me, you're going to become a real expert
when it comes to messaging women online.
Inside the Dating Accelerator, I will teach you my full
systems for messaging women the proper way.
Literally the full systems from Open to Close.
You also get case-study examples with more than 50+
conversations I had with women I've dated and had sex with
purely coming from IG.
Now in this FREE PDF that I'm offering you, I will go into
some of the most important principles that you need to
know when messaging women online.
I hope you appreciate this PDF so far and if you do, let me
know and I will send you even more PDFs in the future.
5 TEXTING PRINCIPLES TO START WITH
1) Your attention needs to have value
Women care less about sex than us, they want attention and
validation. That's why you'll rarely find a male prostitute.
As soon as we give our attention and validation away freely,
it loses its value. You must get to the point, do not text these
women all day. You have value your time.
Any time we give attention to a woman, we need to aim for
progression. Progression towards the end goal: Sex.
She will always be validated by all the guys who like her
pictures, direct message her with compliments and pay for
all her stuff so you need to be different.
Don't give her unnecessary attention: Don't like her picture,
follow her, watch and reply to her stories and all of that.
Do NOT do anything that implies that you're a fan. If you
treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan.
Just message her directly and get to the point. Be concise.
2) Never Reveal Your Interest Level Right Away
You can never let a woman fully know where she stands
with you. Never tell her how you feel about her before you
even met via message.
If you reveal all your interest in her, she won already because
she already has the validation. Understand that women
want what they work hard for.
Don’t say something like “You’re beautiful” because most of
the time, they’re going to shit test you and say «I know».
Your best friend with women is UNPREDICTABILITY. Never
give her full disclosure and reveal your interest too soon.
3) Never Double Text Her (To be truly avoided!)
Double texting invites double ghosting. Do not double text
her. If she ignores you, give her a day, if she ignores you past
that, most of the time, it’s game over.
Sometimes there are external factors and you can’t win, it’s
not necessarily your fault. If you double text her, your value
completely drops. You will look option-less and needy.
4) Avoid Emojis & use them wisely
EMOJIS are EMOTIONAL. WOMEN are EMOTIONAL.
We don’t need to act girly and bubbly, let her use all the
emojis she wants. Remember: The more masculine you are,
the more feminine she becomes.
Keep your use of EMOJIS to a MINIMUM, max 2-3 per convo
(Sometimes I use ZERO emojis.)
Here’s a YES and NO list of some Emojis you can use.
Use emojis wisely in your convos to:
Be sarcastic
Challenge her
Trigger Emotions (Positive or negative)
Polarize the conversation
5) Stop Using Abbreviations
"Sup, u aight? ❌ “R u Here?” ❌
Don't shorten the words because you'll sound like you're a 6
grader. It's not charming and it doesn't look high-value.
I reveal way more principles inside my programs. You
also get conversation examples inside IG Secrets as well.
Now let's talk about WHAT to Text them.
I'm going to give you a few things to get started. First, don't
overthink the first text. it should be low investment.
Dale Carnegie once said: "The most beautiful and relevant
thing a person can hear is their name. Catch their attention
and trigger more liking by mentioning their name many
times in the interaction."
I love this quote because this is exactly how I text women,
whenever I text them, I mention their names.
You should mention women's names a lot.
Do you want to know my "OPENER"? It's HER NAME.
If her name is Polina, I just send "Polina". If her name is
Sarah, I just send "Sarah". If her name is Lea, I send "Lea".
Stop overthinking the opener. I get an 80% open rate
because my opener is intriguing and my profile is good.
Then after she replies, I ask her if she's in my city. As I'm
writing this, I'm currently in Tallinn (Estonia), I would just ask
"Tallinn?". If I was in Paris, I would ask "Paris?".
If you live in New York, then just ask "New York?".
The reason why I do this is that I don't want to waste my
time texting women who are far away from me. It's a low
investment question that makes her invest a little.
Stop texting women who live far away from you. It's a waste
of time and energy. Make sure she's living in your city.
You don’t need attention from females in other
countries/cities or random girls on the internet.
You want females close to you, from the same city. Females
that you can meet anytime soon.
Value your time and attention.
Now after that, I move the conversation using my online
messaging system. This is the same system that I taught to
over 500+ men globally and is guaranteed to work.
After a few back and forths using the online messaging
system, I just invite her to get a drink with me as a way of
getting to know each other.
Also dropping voice memos while texting from time to time
can greatly improve your conversion rates as it is more
personal.
You can convey much more elements through your voice
and tonality. I highly recommend using voice memos.
You also get the opportunity to create some suspense
because receiving a voice note is more exciting than a text,
and it makes them open up more and relate to you better.
There are strategic times in the conversations when you can
help yourself with voice memos. But it needs to be done
with the right tonality, voice projection and pace.
I can't reveal everything in this PDF as it would take me too
much time but I cover everything inside my programs.
However, I hope you got some value out of it so far.
Here's how to actually get there
Now obviously, if you got this PDF, it’s because I’m giving it
to you for free which is good because you’re getting value
out of it, but it won’t make a big difference unless you get
the other pieces of the puzzle which I teach inside my
mentoring program.
This is a skillset, and like all skillsets, it takes the right
guidance, practice, feedback, and most importantly the
right accountability and support group.
If you’re serious, I’d love to show you how you can set that
up in your city along with all the other systems you need to
date an abundance of women consistently.
My programs have the best success rates in the industry
because we focus on both the inner part and the outer part
at a very high level and we give our clients very pragmatic
systems and practices that work like clockwork if applied.
The right systems and practices paired with the right
accountability will create powerful consistent results.
There’s no other way to learn this skill than learning from
others that have accomplished extraordinary results.
What’s Next?
You now have the exact system I used to date at least 2-3
beautiful women every single week without wasting my
time and compromising my other goals.
I've been using the same successful dating systems while
growing my businesses to multiple 6 figures in a few
months.
I’ve been teaching this to my clients for over the past 8 years
and I know it works if you stay consistent. In fact, here’s
what a couple of them said about their experience:
What some of my clients say
You now have two choices...
Option #1: You can decide to follow this system on your own.
You can try what you learned here and find a way to figure it
out on your own.
The truth is that most people who choose that route
probably end up dying before they actually figure it out.
They end up wasting months (if not years) watching videos,
reading books, discussing on social media, etc. without
actually getting any real consistent results.
If they do take action, they give up weeks into the journey
because they’re not seeing the results as fast as they would
like to.
Also, what happens is that they're isolated from people on
the same path so they lack the accountability and support
group needed to get consistent and lifelong results.
If you could have done it by yourself, you would probably
have done it already and wouldn't be reading this right now.
Which bring us to...
Option #2: You truly decide to master this once and for all
From my years of experience working with clients, the biggest
phrase I hear from them after a program is over is: “I wish I did
this sooner.”
I get it, if you’re a career-driven person like me, you want to
excel at what you do first before making time for women.
You want to “get your shit together” before you finally make
that life-changing decision to master your dating life,
because you think ​that you don’t have time, right now.
I want to ask you one thing: how many more years will you
spend until everything is sorted out and you can finally
master this vital aspect of your life?
How many more hours will you waste on dating apps
swiping away only to go to bed alone?
How many more years will you waste away hiding from your
fears and settling for subpar women you barely like?
Getting the right guidance will honestly save you YEARS of
your life.
You’ll uncover all the systems to consistently meet, attract,
and sustainably date the most beautiful women in your city,
efficiently and without wasting your time.
I am looking for serious & ambitious men who are willing to
invest time, money, and effort to master their dating life.
If you want more information on how we can help you or
whether this would be a good fit, then you can get a
strategy session by c
​ licking HERE ​and we'll give you a
proper game plan and show you how to get there in the
next few weeks.
Click here to book your tailored game plan call.
- Limo
PS: You can check out our website here for more details.
I also released a book called Instagram Secrets with plenty of
Convo Examples and where I go way more in-depth.
Inside Instagram Secrets, I will teach you:
How to find and connect with attractive girls in your city
How to have thousands of followers on your account
How to display high value and gain respect from women
and other men
The Exact System to consistently get 2-3 dates a week
using Instagram (With Plenty of Examples).
I'll teach you what pictures to take, how to take them and
how to make women answer your DM's.
➡️ You can get your copy of Instagram Secrets Here.
(We go way deeper inside my mentoring programs).
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