<= T h e BAPTISM o f Yo u r C h i l d THOMAS E. FAST AND CARLA H. FAST New Birth Copyright © 2007 Concordia Publishing House 3558 S. Jefferson Ave., St. Louis, MO 63118-3968 1-800-325-3040 • www.cph.org All rights reserved. Used with permission. Other than downloading and reproduction for congregational use, no part of this material may be stored in a retrieval system or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without prior written permission of Concordia Publishing House. For ordering information, please contact Concordia at 800-325-3040 or visit Concordia at www.cph.org. Order The Baptism of Your Child (14-2133WEB). Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®. Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers, Wheaton, Illinois. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Hymn texts with the abbreviation LSB and the Orders of Daily Prayer on pp. 54–55 are from Lutheran Service Book, copyright © 2006 Concordia Publishing House. All rights reserved. Quotations from Luther’s Small Catechism are from Luther’s Small Catechism with Explanation, copyright © 1986, 1991 Concordia Publishing House. All rights reserved. The Rite of Baptism is from Lutheran Service Book: Altar Book, copyright © 2006 Concordia Publishing House. All rights reserved. The “Prayer of the Parents” on p. 10 is from p. 190 of Lutheran Book of Prayer, Revised Edition © 2005 Concordia Publishing House. All rights reserved. The quotation from the Lutheran Confessions in this publication is from Concordia: The Lutheran Confessions, second edition; general editor Paul T. McCain, copyright © 2006 Concordia Publishing House. All rights reserved. The quotation from Martin Luther on p. 31 is from the American Edition of Luther’s Works, vol. 53, p. 102, copyright © 1965 Augsburg Fortress, used by permission of the publisher. Cover photo © istockphoto.com/Terry Healy Illustration page 11 by Sara Tyson Manufactured in the United States of America 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 16 15 14 13 12 11 10 09 08 07 Contents 9 Letter to the Parents 9 Prayer of the Parents 10 What Is Baptism? 11 Holy Baptism 20 Given by God 29 The Responsibility of the Parents 31 The First Year 33 The Second Year 39 The Third Year 43 The Rest of Childhood 47 The Family Altar 51 Daily Prayer for Morning 54 Daily Prayer for Early Evening 55 Mealtime Prayers 56 Bedtime Prayers 57 The Apostles’ Creed 58 The Lord’s Prayer 59 Words of Faith for Families 60 Baptismal Hymns 62 Morning Hymns 63 Evening Hymns 63 NEW BIRTH Notes AS YOU WELCOME YOUR CHILD Whether or not this is your first child, parenthood brings feelings of joy and wonder with each birth. However, along with excitement comes the responsibility of providing for another life—seeing to your baby’s welfare physically, emotionally, and most important, spiritually. Scripture and our Lutheran Confessions call Baptism a second birth, the creation of a brand-new life begun in Christ, and reaching its fullness on the day of resurrection. By preparing to bring your child to be baptized you are taking the most important step in raising your child in the Christian faith. In this book you will find information and help as you prepare for your child’s Baptism, as well as for the formative years that follow. Whether you are a lifelong Lutheran or a new Christian, you will find useful information included in these brief pages, such as the Scripture’s teaching about Baptism, a look at the Baptism service itself, and everyday activities you can do with your child to nurture him or her in the baptismal life. Through your teaching, your child will learn to live from the eternal significances and benefits of this Sacrament. Now, let’s begin with prayer. 8 9 Photo © istockphoto.com/Joseph Jean Rolland Dubé T HE B APTISM OF Y OUR C HILD <= PRAYER OF THE PARENTS WHAT IS BAPTISM? AT THE BAPTISM OF A CHILD Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them Heavenly Father, You once judged the wicked world with a flood but saved and preserved Noah and his family in the ark. You once drowned Pharaoh and his army but delivered Your people Israel and led them through the Red Sea. When Your Son, Jesus Christ, was baptized, You set apart the Jordan River and all water to be a flood that washes away all sins. Please look with favor upon (name), that, through Your Holy Spirit, he (she) may be blessed with true faith. Use this saving flood of Baptism to wash away the sin that he (she) has inherited from Adam, and separate him (her) from the number of unbelievers. Preserve him (her) dry and secure in the holy ark of Your Christian Church, and make him (her) fervent in spirit and joyful in hope as he (she) walks through the wilderness of this life trusting in Your flood of forgiveness. Make (name) worthy to attain eternal life and keep him (her) watchful for Your Son’s return, when He will bring all believers to His eternal promised land. In Your holy name I pray. Amen. in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Matthew 28:19 <<<<<<<<< 10 11 G IVEN Notes BY G OD The Third Year HERE WE GO! On the move is a good way to describe your toddler. Everything is new, and there are many things to see and touch. With this in mind, provide opportunities for your child to “see and do” things in God’s world. Home Life 42 • Confession and absolution are important. Teach your toddler to confess sin at a young age; you, in turn, pronounce forgiveness for the sin. Develop this practice early so as to avoid the typical response to a sin—“Oh, that’s okay.” Sin is never okay; but we are okay because we are forgiven in Christ. The use of the forgiveness of sins is a good way to keep the Gospel at the center of family life. • The Word of God—for you! Relate simple Bible stories, in book form and as storytelling. Toddlers love to hear the same stories repeatedly. Explain them in a simple way, telling your child that all of God’s work is for him or her. After you read/tell the story, ask your child to tell it back to you. Photo © istockphoto.com/Dan Eckert 43