Importance for men and women:
Sr#
Attribute Name
Definition
Childhood/Adolescence
and Teenage Life
(5-19 years)
80%
1
2
3
Attraction
The attraction can
be defined as an
energy that evokes
deep interest or
strong preference
for someone or
something. It is
present biologically
in one’s instinct.
Truthfulness
Truthfulness is a
state of being
honest, sincere,
faithful and express
inner feelings, and
views on a factual
basis. The truthful
men and women
explain their
experiences, as it
exists for them.
They share the real
perception of their
world. One must
honour the
partner's
truthfulness
because it is the
building block of a
relationship
between a man and
a woman.
Acceptance
Acceptance is the
act of receiving
everything that
comes in life
without questioning,
without any desire
to change whatever
we are facing.
Partners who live in
present and focus
on the strengths of
a relationship and
partner rather than
worrying or arguing
The physical attractiveness
is at its peak during this
stage of life. Human beings
tend to believe in
someone's appearance
before anything else like
intelligence and humour.
According to research,
human beings associate
positive qualities and
happiness with an attractive
personality. After all the
human beings main
sensory perception source
to gather information for the
mind is visual. We receive
the first taste and feel of
someone through our
vision. What our eyes feel
good probably touches our
heart and draws us closer
to someone.
Early and Middle
Adulthood
(19-40 years)
60%
At this stage, the
importance of
attraction
gradually
declines. This
happens due to
the revelation that
an attractive
partner is not a
guarantee for a
stable and
fulfilling
relationship as
the time passes
and experience is
attained through
sexual and
intimate
interactions. The
increase in
attraction towards
opposite gender
may continue at
this stage in
some cases
depending on the
exposure in
previous years of
life.
90%
50%
This is the stage
in whole life when
people demand
truthfulness in
their relationship.
The truthfulness
of a partner
becomes a
priority for a
loving
relationship.
Everyone wants
to seek someone
for commitment
and pure
pleasure that they
can relate with an
honest partner
who maintains
trust and show
loyalty. The
attraction shifts to
loyalty as the
most attractive
trait among men
and women as
intimate partners.
100%
Early stages of life have the
main source of enjoyment
through play, sensation
seeking and mostly having
a partner with whom they
can openly talk and express
anything they want showing
their real self. They almost
accept everyone and
anyone who gives them
happiness and a good time.
Acceptance is unconscious
This is the best
time where
acceptance is a
need for both of
the partners. Both
men and women
want to feel
accepted by their
partners without
requesting any
change.
Everyone loves
10%
Truthfulness is such an
abstract concept that a child
and even a teenager finds it
hard to realize. Even
though the truth is linked
with a moral and ethical trait
that one sees it under the
light of reward and
punishment still the
individuals struggle with
fitting this attribute in a
relationship until they begin
to demand it from a partner
at a later stage of life within
relationships.
Late Adulthood
(40-65 years)
Elderly (65+
years)
10%
30%
As we know that
early childhood
experiences have
a great impact on
our lives, the
attraction drops
down a bit when
a person finds
someone to
spend life and
share love for a
long time. Upon
seeing other
qualities and
personality traits
of an intimate
partner, attraction
goes at the back
of the
relationship.
The couples that
reach at the final
stage of life
together have
explored a lot
with each other.
Based on all the
realities they went
through, they
recognize and
chose some other
attributes as more
important than
experiencing
attraction towards
a partner. The
value of attraction
becomes lowest
at this stage and
it doesn’t matter
to either male or
female partner if
their partner feels
attracted or not.
50%
The truth is still
important as the
relationship
grows and moves
to maturity. The
strength of a
relationship at
this stage is
determined by the
truthfulness
people to receive
in the past. The
importance
remains the same
for those who
trust and who
don't trust
because they
stay with their
partner and feel
the same
regardless of their
ability to trust.
Physical
Proximity and
comfort is the
major need at this
final stage of life.
All other qualities
like truthfulness
that one cannot
visibly witness
becomes
unimportant as
compared to
tangible gains as
a result of the
partner's care
and affection.
30%
70%
At the later
stages,
acceptance may
not be seen as
valuable in a
relationship as it
was before. Early
stages make our
self-image and
the extent to
which we accept
self determines
No one wants to
live alone at this
stage. The
acceptance of
their habits,
personality and
nature they have
been carrying
throughout life
again sparks up
and the partners
want acceptance
20%
over past or future
insecurities. Those
who accept others
whole-heartedly,
they embrace the
other person as it is
after knowing and
understanding all
the realities of that
partner.
4
5
rests in a relationship.
Whenever two people
spend time to achieve a
goal, they cooperate and
show acceptance otherwise
they wouldn’t be able to
support each other.
own existence
and a relationship
looks ugly if we
are not accepted
in a relationship
in a similar
manner.
how others
accept us. In
these years,
partners are
almost satisfied
with their image
in the eyes of
their partners and
don’t struggle
much.
70%
80%
90%
in a relationship
for the success of
journey to a
peaceful end.
Success happens
when partners
discuss and
appreciate their
achievements,
capabilities and
bring out the
positive lessons
they learn in their
life.
40%
Acknowledgement
Fearlessness
is the state of
being in which we
are aware of fear
yet not controlled
by it. When we are
possessed by
fear, we're
unwilling to take
risks, which can
be a good thing,
since some risks
would be unwise.
When we live in a
state of ongoing
anxiety, our
primary
commitment is to
avoid pain or loss.
90%
For male:
Preschool-aged children
who demonstrate fearless
behavior also reveal less
empathy and more
aggression towards their
peers, new research
shows. Preschool-aged
children who demonstrate
fearless behavior also
reveal less empathy and
more aggression towards
their peers.
Fearless is an
act of
aggression
physically. Men
tend to show it
through how
strong they are.
For women:
Fearlessness is
an act of
aggression
verbally. Women
tend to show
how fearless
they are through
the use of voice
For male:
as the age
number grows,
fearlessness
has become as a
statebeing to
which
fearlessness is
shown through
the act of
mature decision
for adultlife. One
example is
taking risk in
investments, at
this stage as
their health
slowly declined,
they tend to
show fearless
through mental
cognition
80%
Fearlesness is
both the same to
male and
female. As the
age grow old the
state of being
fearlessness
grow less. Older
men and women
tend to fear
more due failing
health problems
and near death
experience
80%
6
7
Understanding
sympathetically
aware of other
people's feelings;
tolerant and
forgiving.
Companionship
Companionship is
the state of
spending time
with someone or
having someone
to spend time
with—the state of
having a
companion or
being someone's
companion. A
companion is a
person who
frequently spends
time with you,
30%
child is developing
appropriately, to
understand what they are
and are not capable of
doing, and to respond to
each child's needs and
rights more effectively
100%
It is both evident
that
understanding
at this ages is
an act of
applying what
they have learn
towards how
everything is
going to reality,
At this stage
understanding
is not that deep
as at this ages
human is still
learning and
when it comes
to relationship
to those who felt
that their level
of
understanding
tend to have
multiple
relationship.
60%
80%
mostly at this
age mostly men
and women are
in their mature
form of
understanding.
Mostly at this
stage they are
now capable to
form a more
stronger bond
towards their
partners
70%
100%
Understanding
has become
fully mature at
this stage to
most old people
across any
ages. Here they
can depart
wisdom from
their experience
90%
associates with
you, or
accompanies you
when you go
places
8
Participation
9
Sacred
10
Respect
11
Attention
12
Communication
13
Patience
14
Calmness
15
Righteousness
16
Secure
17
Equanimity
18
Joy
19
Compromise
20
Warmth and
Kindness
21
Compassion
22
Responsibility
23
Growth and
Development
24
Humbleness
25
Enterprising
26
Consistent
27
Independence
28
Correspondence
29
Intimacy
30
Wisdom
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Reference
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/11/101108140524.htm#:~:text=Summary%3A,more
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