CHAPTER 9 DISCERNING ONE’S VOCATION THEO 500 – CHRISTIAN VOCATION & FULFILLMENT PROF. ANTONIO C. CAYETANO. MARE, J.D. Faculty, Theology/Philosophy Division Arts and Sciences Department San Pedro College, Davao City WHAT IS DISCERNMENT? • If we break down the word discernment into the two Latin words it comes from, we get ‘dis’ (apart) and ‘cenere’ (to separate). • To discern means ‘to separate apart’. • Any time we have to choose between two or more options, we discern. • If both options are attractive, the best choice might not be obvious. VOCATION DISCERNMENT • is a process by which we are helped to reach a decision: ‒ ‒ in the light of faith in the context of our personal reality and the realities of the world in which we live. • involves in: ‒ trying to identify what is of God what is for our full happiness and for others ‒ distinguishing or separating that from what is not of God or from what is simply driven by my ego, societal expectations, family or peer pressure. WHAT IS VOCATION DISCERNMENT? SIX WAYS TO DISCERN MY VOCATION 02 - SACRAMENTS • The soul is the window through which we can see God and hear His voice. • If the window is dirty because of sin, it must be cleaned through Confession so we can be in union with God. • When you receive Communion, ask Jesus to show you your vocation. 01 - PRAYER • Prayer is a conversation with God – not just saying prayers, but speaking to the Lord from your heart. • Ask him to reveal his plan for you: "Jesus, I want to want what you want. • Here I am Lord; I come to do your will." Trust that God has a plan for you. 06 – THE BLESSED MOTHER 04 – GO ON RETREAT • Miracles happen on retreats! • One of the surest ways to discover God's plan for you is to enter into silence and prayer over an extended period. 03 – GOOD INFORMATION • Mary is necessary. She is the ultimate example of openness to the will of God. • Are you open to God's will for you? Pray three Hail Mary’s every day, specifically to know your vocation and have the courage to follow it. 05 – GET ADVICE • It is impossible to discover your vocation without good information. • Don't try to discern your vocation alone, without the help of the Church. • What does it mean to have a holy Christian marriage? What do priests do? What is it like to be a religious sister or brother? • Talk to a sister, brother, priest, or deacon you trust. • Get a Spiritual Director • Search for good information online, then take what you have learned back to prayer.