Marry peacefully Foundations of choice [edit] Selection before marriage is an important factor in building a family, and there are several Attributes that are to be chosen, and the Prophet told about that by saying: They are married A woman for four: for her money, her account, her beauty and her two children, so triumph with the same debt You raised your hands (2), and the meaning of (the one with religion), meaning: abides by the teachings of the religion, By maintaining worship, and avoiding what God forbids, which is the best thing It should be present in both spouses, adhering to the laws of Islam in his life and not being wronged His wife, if he loves her, honor her, and if he does not love her, he will not oppress her or insult her. And it is desirable that he be from a good family, with a known lineage, if it is presented to a woman Two men have one degree in religion, then the owner of a good family should be given priority And the family known to uphold the Cause of God, Blessed and Exalted be He The other does not prefer him in religion because the goodness of the husband's relatives applies to him His children and it is desirable that there is also an acceptance in appearance to the words of the Prophet Muhammad: (The best for women is if you look at your navel, and if you command it He obeyed you, and if you swear to her righteousness over her, and if she is absent from her, she will protect you It is desirable to marry someone who has the ability to have money to pardon himself. And the people of his household, because the Prophet Muhammad said, O tenth of the youth, “He who could The father is from you, so let him marry ... "It was brought forth by the steamer Conditions of validity of marriage [edit] Are the conditions on which its validity depends, so that if any, it is considered Legal marriage and these conditions are: - 1. It is permissible for a man to marry the woman he wants to marry, no She is forbidden to him for any reason of temporary prohibition or Forever. 2. Offer and acceptance 3. And witness the marriage of two witnesses. 4. The consent of the guardian is for the minor only, as for the mother; It must be approved And her permission to her guardian for saying in the noble hadith: << “A mother is more deserving Narrated by »herself from her guardian Muslim and Abu Dawood, Al-Tirmidhi, Al-Nasa’i, and Malik in Al-Muwatta. A mother who does not have a husband She has a virgin or not, because the guardian may only initiate the contract if she agrees. And he made her more right than him. And in Egypt he takes the doctrine Hanafi in personal status law since the establishment of the state Ottoman to now. Besides Egypt, there are other Islamic countries Follow the Hanafi doctrine in matters of transactions, including the conditions Personal inheritance and include Marriage and divorce ... Forbidden women for men [edit] Detailed article: Forbidden (Islam) and forbidden women are defined by the Holy Quran in a detailed and tight manner In succession from the chapters to the branches in verses 22 and 23 of Surat Women: And do not marry what your fathers had of wives, except for what you had previously done. It was an indecent, temporary and abusive way that your mothers and your daughters were forbidden to do. And your sisters, aunts, aunts, nieces, nieces, nieces, and mothers The one who breastfed you and your sisters from the breastfeeding and the mothers of your wives and your fathers The one who is in your lap is one of your wives whom you have entered into, if you did not enter There is no mischief against you, and the families of your children who are among your own, and that you should gather together Between the two sisters, except that which has been preceded, if He is Forgiving, Most Merciful Effects of the marriage contract [edit] A marriage that fulfills its pillars and conditions that has legal implications are: 1. Enjoyment by each of the spouses of the other as authorized Sharia unless it is forbidden by something like menstruation or postpartum, for example. 2. The necessity of the dowry named in the contract, and the wife deserves it 3. Obligation of alimony with its elements, which are food, housing and clothing 4. Proving the sanctity of marriage, meaning that the wife is forbidden to marriage The husband’s assets and its descendants, and that the husband is deprived of the wife’s assets And its branches, but proves sanctity in some cases with the same contract as It is the case with the assets of the wife, for example, so the contract on the daughters is forbidden Mothers 5. Prove the lineage of children from this marriage 6. Establishing the right of inheritance between the spouses, unless something prevents that. 7. The obligation of fairness between wives in their rights when polygamy, ie The settlement between them in the rights, such as the division in the accommodation and maintenance with its elements And as for love and heart inclination, this is something that she does not have Aisha: “The Messenger of God used to swear and correct and say: This is my part I own, so do not blame me for what you own or do not possess, ”[in need of a source], Al-Tirmidhi said It means love and affection. 8. The wife's obedience to her husband if he invited her to bed, For God says in the Noble Qur’an: “And for them they are like them And men have a degree over them. ”Ibn al-Arabi said: What it means is the obligation of obedience It is a general right, so obedience to God precedes obedience to God in redundancy, not She fasts without his permission, and does not perform Hajj except with him ... according to the Prophet, who said: )) Take good care of women ((Narrated by the two sheikhs, and if that is from The rights of the wife over the husband, so he must also improve their intercourse with him Please. Benefits of marriage [edit] The one who wants to get married will find help from God. The Messenger of God said: (Three rights, may God help them: the mujahid)? [For God's sake, offices The one who wants performance, and the mature woman who wants chastity ( Marriage is a legitimate way to satisfy the libido, in a way that pleases it God and His Messenger said:) It is dear to me from your world: women and perfume, and they are made The apple of my eyes while praying ( A way to earn favors. He said:) And in a few (a metaphor for sexual intercourse) One of you is charity. They said: O Messenger of God, shall one of us come with his desire and be his Is it paid He said: (Did you see, if it was forbidden, would he be lamented?) They said: Yes. He said: (Likewise if he put it in the lawful, he will be rewarded) A means for the continuation of life, and the reconstruction of the earth, so the good children An extension of the spouses' work after their death, and he said:) If the son of Adam dies, it is cut off His deed is only from three: ongoing charity, knowledge that can be used, or a good son Calls for him ( A way to cooperate, for the wife is sufficient for her husband to manage the household affairs, and prepare for the The livelihoods, and the husband suffices for her the burdens of earning and managing affairs Life Strengthening connections and knowledge through intermarriage and widening the circle of Relatives, when the Prophet Muhammad invaded Bani Al-Mast