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Khutbah on Bullying

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‫اﻟﺴﻼم ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ‬
.‫ وﻧﻌﻮذ ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺷﺮور أﻧﻔﺴﻨﺎ وﺳﻴﺌﺎت أﻋﻤﺎﻟﻨﺎ‬,‫ وﻧﺴﺘﻐﻔﺮه‬،‫ وﻧﺴﺘﻌﻴﻨﻪ‬،‫ ﻧﺤﻤﺪه‬،‫اﻟﺤﻤﺪ ﻟﻠﻪ‬
‫ وأﺷﻬﺪ أن ﻻ إﻻ ﷲ وﺣﺪه ﻻ ﺷﺮﻳﻚ‬.‫ وﻣﻦ ﻳﻀﻠﻞ ﻓﻼ ﻫﺎدي ﻟﻪ‬،‫ﻣﻦ ﻳﻬﺪ ﷲ ﻓﻬﻮ اﻟﻤﻬﺘﺪي‬
‫ ﻳﺎ أﻳﻬﺎ اﻟﺬﻳﻦ آﻣﻨﻮا اﺗﻘﻮا ﷲ ﺣﻖ ﺗﻘﺎﺗﻪ وﻻ ﺗﻤﻮﺗﻦ إﻻ‬،‫ﻟﻚ وأﺷﻬﺪ أن ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﻋﺒﺪه ورﺳﻮﻟﻪ‬
‫ ﻳﺎ أﻳﻬﺎ اﻟﻨﺎس اﺗﻘﻮا رﺑﻜﻢ اﻟﺬي ﺧﻠﻘﻜﻢ ﻣﻦ ﻧﻔﺲ واﺣﺪة وﺧﻠﻖ ﻣﻨﻬﺎ زوﺟﻬﺎ‬،‫وأﻧﺘﻢ ﻣﺴﻠﻤﻮن‬
‫ إن ﷲ ﻛﺎن ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ‬.‫ واﺗﻘﻮا ﷲ اﻟﺬي ﺗﺴﺄل ﺑﻪ واﻷرﺣﺎم‬.‫وﺑﺚ ﻣﻨﻬﻤﺎ رﺟﺎﻻ ﻛﺜﻴﺮا وﻧﺴﺎء‬
‫رﻗﻴﺒﺎ‬
،‫ ﻳﺼﻠﺢ ﻟﻜﻢ أﻋﻤﺎﻟﻜﻢ وﻳﻐﻔﺮ ﻟﻜﻢ ذﻧﻮﺑﻜﻢ‬،‫ﻳﺎ أﻳﻬﺎ اﻟﺬﻳﻦ آﻣﻨﻮا اﺗﻘﻮا ﷲ وﻗﻮﻟﻮا ﻗﻮﻻ ﺳﺪﻳﺪا‬
‫ وﺧﻴﺮ‬،‫ ﻓﺈن ﺧﻴﺮ اﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ ﻛﺘﺎب ﷲ‬،‫ أﻣﺎ ﺑﻌﺪ‬،‫ﻋﻈﻴﻤﺎ‬
‫وﻣﻦ ﻳﻄﻊ ﷲ ورﺳﻮﻟﻪ ﻓﻘﺪ ﻓﺎزﻓﻮ ًزا‬
ً
‫ وﻛﻞ ﺿﻼﻟﺔ ﻓﻲ‬،‫ وﻛﻞ ﺑﺪﻋﺔ ﺿﻼﻟﺔ‬،‫ وﺷﺮ اﻷﻣﻮر ﻣﺤﺪﺛﺎﺗﻬﺎ‬،‫ ﻫﺪي ﻣﺤﻤﺪ رﺳﻮل ﷲ‬،‫اﻟﻬﺪي‬
‫ أﻋﻮذ ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ‬،‫اﻟﻨﺎر‬
Inshallah, today I want to talk to you about something very important: bullying.
Nowadays, people can be bullied in three ways:
● Cyberbullying: Because of how everybody has a device or are able to access the
internet, you can interact with different people, which is good, because you will
make new friends, but it’s also a source of toxic people, who will bully you at
everything and at every chance they get.
● Verbal bullying: People might verbally bully you, by insulting you and saying bad
stuff about you
● Physically bullying: They may physically bully you, by punching you, poking you,
slapping you, and this is the easiest type of bullying you can realize is bullying.
It was recorded in Sahih Bukhari that the Prophet SAW - “Help your brother,
whether he is an oppressor or he is oppressed.” The Prophet was asked: “It is
right to help him if he is oppressed, but how should we help him if he is an
oppressor?” He replied: “By preventing him from oppressing others.”
● Points we should take from this hadith:
- We should help the oppressed or the bullied kids
- But while we do that, we should help the oppressors or the bullies by
preventing him
Just a reminder that if you see someone bullied, please do not try to stop them by
physically attack them, instead, tell someone that has authority and power over
them and they’ll deal with them.
● Subhanallah it’s a miracle of this religion that almost everything said by the
Prophet SAW and in the Qur’an by Allah SWT has a scientifical explanation for it,
because many doctors have said that most bullies have their own problems
they’re dealing with physically or emotionally, so try to understand and help them
with whatever they’re doing, and convince them to stop hurting other people,
whether it be physically, verbally, or online.
When you see someone bullied, remember that it’s an obligation upon you if you
are able to prevent him from being bullied even more, as in a hadith Qudsi, Allah
SWT has said- “I shall take revenge on the oppressor in this life and the next. I
shall take revenge on someone who saw a person being oppressed and was
able to help him but did not help him”
● Points we should take from this hadith:
- Allah has confirmed that he will get revenge for the person bullied in this
life and the hereafter
- But Allah SWT also said he will take revenge on someone who saw a
person being oppressed and was able to help them but did not help him,
so in order not to incur the wrath of Allah and his punishment, we should try
to help the oppressed and also help the oppressor
But just remember that if you aren’t able to help anyone because you can’t help
them out of fear or something else, this won’t apply to you, because the Prophet
SAW said in an authentic hadith- “Whoever amongst you notices evil, he should
correct it with his own hands, and if he is unable to do so, he should prohibit
the same with his tongue, if he is unable even to do this, he should at least
consider it as bad in his heart. This is the lowest degree of faith.”
● Points we should take from this hadith:
- We should stop it either by our actions, tongue or should believe what
happened to be bad in our hearts
- The final one is the last thing you should do
Sit Down
‫اﻟﺤﻤﺪ ﻟﻠﻪ واﻟﺼﻼه واﻟﺴﻼم ﻋﲆ رﺳﻮل ﷲ‬
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