goodtherapy.org MOVING BEYOND AMBIVALENCE From this perspective, the alternative to living with a chronic pattern of ambivalence would be to resolve internal con;icts that prevent one from taking action, making decisions, expressing how you feel, and being fully present. Issues around connection, intimacy, and separation are often at the root of an ambivalent stance. To be fully here is to accept the fragility and imperfections of life, to “go for it” despite the possibility it could be gone