What to do when someone treats me in a way I don’t like.... Step #1: Talk Friendly (NEUTRAL VOICE) -Use a friendly voice, face, and body language “Can you please stop ____________?” Step #2:Talk Firmly (STRONG VOICE) -Use a firm voice, face, and body language “Stop it! I don’t like that. I said stop!” Step #3: Get Help -Ask an adult to help solve the problem “I need your help. I tried asking ___ to stop in a friendly voice, I asked in a firm voice, and ___ is still bothering me. Can you help us solve this problem?”