Measuring Family Relationships in the Fragile Families Study Marcy Carlson Columbia University July 16, 2004 Fragile Families Summer Data Workshop Baseline M-F Relationship Status • History: – How long knew each other before got pregnant – Why did romantic rel. end (if broken up) • Current relationship status – Married (yes/no) – Cohabiting (yes/no) – Type (steady romantic; on & off; just friends; hardly talk; never talk) • Chances of marriage to baby’s father (none, a little, 5050, pretty good, almost certain) • Chances of ever marrying someone (same as above) Baseline M-F Relationship Quality • Supportiveness (often, sometimes, never) – – – – Fair & willing to compromise Shows affection/love Insults/criticizes Encourages/helps • Conflict (often, sometimes, never) – Money, spending time, sex, the pregnancy, drinking/drugs, being faithful • Companionship (did in last month) – Visited w/ friends, went out, ate out, helped solve problem 1 Year M-F Relationship Status • History: – Relationship type when child born (married, rom., sep/div., just friends, not in any) – Cohabiting when child born (all/most, some, rarely, never) – Dates: marriage, cohab, sep/divorce, end of rel. – Why did relationship end • Current relationship status – Type (married, rom., sep/div., just friends, not in any) – Cohabiting (all/most, some, rarely, never) – Not all/most: # of nights, how often see/talk (18 cities) 1 Year M-F Relationship Quality • Supportiveness (often, sometimes, never) – – – – – – Fair & willing to compromise Expresses affection/love Insults/criticizes Encourages/helps Listens when need someone to talk to Really understands your hurts & joys • Argue (always, often, sometimes, rarely, never) • Overall quality (poor, fair, good, very good, excellent) • Controlling behavior – Tries to keep from seeing friends/family – Tries to prevent from going to work/school – Withholds money 1 Year M-F Relationship Quality • Questions asked about mother and biological father (regardless of residential status) • Questions asked about residential new partners Baseline Father Involvement • Mom report: – – – – – – Gave money Helped in another way Visited in hospital Name on birth certificate Baby will have surname Dad says wants to be involved • Dad report: – – – – – – – Gave money Helped in another way Present at birth Has held baby Name on birth certificate Baby will have surname Wants to be involved • • • • • • • • • • 1 Year Father-Child Activities (F about self; M about F) Play games Sing songs/nursery rhymes Read stories Tell stories Play inside with toys Take child to visit relatives Hug or show physical affection Put child to bed Change diaper – only M about F Feed or give bottle – only M about F Father-Child Contact about One Year after Baby’s Birth (n=4,337) Nonmarital birth Marital birth 6.3 0.5 12.2 94.4 5.8 50.3 7.6 11.5 5.9 Live together Every day, non-res 10-29 days past mo. 3-9 days past mo. 1-2 days past mo. Saw, not past mo. Never saw Died Father-Child Contact about One Year after Nonmarital Birth (n=3,260) Non-resident at birth Resident at birth 0.4 6.2 11.3 1.0 0.5 3.1 3.4 28.0 6.6 17.9 5.0 6.6 8.4 11.3 16.1 Live together Every day, non-res 10-29 days past mo. 3-9 days past mo. 1-2 days past mo. Saw, not past mo. Never saw Died 74.2 Father-Child Activities Past Month 4.0 3.5 Play games 3.0 Play inside 2.5 Hug Read stories Tell stories Feed/bottle Diaper 2.0 1.5 1.0 Married Cohabiting Non-resident 1=never 2= < few times/wk 3=few times/wk 4=every day/nearly Frequency of Spanking (Last Month) Fathers Mothers 0% Never 20% Once or twice 40% A few times/month 60% 80% A few times/week 100% Every day The end…!