Where are they? What’s happening? Talk about similarities and differences in a dinner scene in your home town. The Scene: A typical family dinner with a guest. Children eat with the adults, but are expected to be quite and well-behaved. Guests bring a small gift for the hosts, such as flowers or a bottle of wine. Although Americans commonly arrive 15-30 minute late for the type of parties, they make an effort to be on time for a dinner party to avoid causing problems with the cooking. When dinner is served, people wait to begin eating until everyone is served—unless the hosts says something, like, “Please go ahead. Don’t wait for me.” The host will offer more food to the guests, but will not insist if they say they have had enough. There is a lot of conversation during the meal, and after the dishes have been cleared way, people may sit at the table for a long time with coffee and or another drink.