Al l Vol. 3 Issue 2 A R O U ND Carnegie Mellon University in Qatar 27 Sept 2006 Spiritually Speaking... We may not always look to it, but our spirituality and religion play a significant role in our personal lives. This issue is dedicated to just that, bringing out the inner spirituality of our student body. All Around brings to you a coverage of the various religious sides of CMU-Q, and the different attitudes students have regarding their personal beliefs. Read on for an insight into opinions, news and controversies which dominate the world of religion today. Inside this issue... STUDENT OPINION Find out what motivates Carnegie Mellon Qatar’s student body to believe in a higher being. See page 3 FASTING: NOT JUST FOR MUSLIMS Students of all religions observe fasting at different times and in different ways. Read about the similarities and differences between several religious practices. See page 4 ACCEPT THY BROTHER Mona Maher writes about tolerance between religions and cultures, something practiced daily at Carnegie Mellon’s Qatar campus See page 6 LIVING THE CARNEGIE MELLON DREAM One freshman’s take on his first half semester at Carnegie Mellon. Md Shahriar Haque tells it like it is for the class of 2010. See page 7 ENTERTAINMENT Check out our new and improved entertainment section! See page 8 Armed and dangerous? From left - Illiano Cervesato, Erik Helin and Kevin Lamb played Business Associates of Italian mob boss, Tony Giovanni. ANNUAL MURDER MYSTERY DINNER: A MAFIOSO HIT By Mohammed Abo Zainab Activities Coordinator So…Murder Mystery Mafioso Wedding…Big Hit (Ha Ha)…Yeah, I think so. I’m glad to have witnessed both sided therefore being able to tell you how true that really is. Everyone had a great time, I’m sure. The SG members, one and all worked long and hard at what I think was a fun experience planning, organizing and preparing for this event. Come Six O’clock everyone was look- ing greater than ever. Some dressed to impress…others to kill (okay enough with the play-on words). The venue was in Cornell’s very own faculty lounge, and the setting was set for a glamorous wedding reception. Caterers were on standby, and our Mafia security was alert and on-guard, checking everyone at the door for any miscellaneous items. Everyone was anxious and excited. I was greeting everyone at the door… ...continued on page 5… 2 All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 All Around’s Directory Meet the All Around Team Executive Editor-in-Chief NOOR AL-ATHIRAH Managing Editor-in-Chief YASMINE ABDELRAHMAN Content Editor NOORA AL-ANSARI Copy Editors AYSHA SIDDIQUE WALID KHWAJA Layout Editor JINANNE TABRA Assistant Layout RANA EL SAKHAWY Theme Editor AMUN BASHIR Business Manager NOOR AL-JASSIM Staff Writers ROODA AL-NEAMA MARIUM CHANDNA DANA HADAN MD SHAHRIAR HAQUE MONA MAHER MAHA OBAIDAN Publishing Coordinator ABDULLAH AL-OTHMAN Photographer YASSER KHAN All Around is a bimonthly student led newsletter. It is Carnegie Mellon University in Qatar’s budding student body voice. The first issue was published on the 28th of September 2004. A team of four students were successful in publishing 8 issues in the first year. You may forward any contributions, enquiries, questions, or suggestions to our official email address <all-around@qatar.cmu.edu> A Word from the Editorial Board The All Around team wishes you “Ramadan Kareem”. During this holly month of self restraint, we really see what we are capable of given the circumstances. Food and sleep deprived, we search for the means to be patient and satisfied with what we have available. This issue provides you with a religious insight on how to connect with your inner soul and open your mind to different perspectives. This time around, it is our pleasure to welcome on board, David Stanfield, All Around’s Advisor. Dave, our new Director of Student Activities, will assist us in managing and advising issues when required. We are glad to have him. All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 3 STUDENT OPINION: RELIGION BOUND Assembled by Amun Bashir (Theme Editor) This week’s question: What gives you the motivation to believe in a higher being? Our staff at All Around are aware of the controversial nature of this question, but we are in fact keen to learn what gives our student body that spiritual motivation to strengthen their faith and go that extra mile. Marium Chandana: “Well, frankly speaking, it's nothing but the fact that every time I'm in an unbelievably sticky situation, I do somehow manage to get out of it, and then as my mind and body get stronger, so does my faith.” Amer Obeidah: “What makes me believe in God is just looking at the way everything was created. I mean just look at the skies, Earth, universe, and human beings.” Salma Kayali: “Common sense and logic drive my faith and my belief in the existence of Allah. In my mind I see the world as a great puzzle. Without a higher power it will be missing most of its parts. Without Him/Her/It, there is no justice at the end of the game (life) and that doesn't make sense because then we would be living randomly, and of our experience, the world is anything but random.” Wesam Said: “It's easy to doubt the things that we never see, but exist. What makes me so sure that there is a God, is that there is no way that the universe created itself. Even if it did, HOW?! How would it make itself before existence?” Mona Maher: "If there wasn't a higher being, there would be no hope and no purpose for people to go on in their darkest hour, and that is one thing I DO believe in." Bayan Taha: “We can’t control life and death, and we can’t control day and night. That gives me the motivation to believe that there is someone greater doing these things for us.” Hend Gedawy: “Simply because it is beyond the human or any creature's ability to attain the soul in their bodies.” Ibrahim Hassan: “One of the things that pushes me, as well as many others, to keep that belief is hope or actually the need to have hope. When people face difficulties in their lives, and when it seems there is no way out, one would look for some source of hope. We hope for miracles, and God is the one responsible for these "miracles." Thus we go to Him for help. I personally believe that humans can never live without hope as it is a part of our daily life.” Mohammed Khan: “The fact that there is no other realistic explanation for why we're here, or why the universe exists.” Rooda Al Naema: “Although I physically cannot see Him, the miracle that I am still surviving in this crazy world assures me that there is someone up there looking out for me!” Ramsey Ramadan: “Because I don’t believe in coincidences. Everything happens for a reason.” Hicham Nedjari: “You can find an answer to any question you have and that is very comforting. There is so much in the world you can't really explain. Take gravity for instance. If you believe in God and His word however, you can understand why it exists.” Next issue, in Student Opinion: WHAT WAS THE HARDEST EXPERIENCE FOR YOU DURING THE MONTH OF RAMADAN? Whether your opinion is a deep, funny, nonchalant, thoughtful or aggressive one—Amun Bashir is a sucker for your opinion. Forward your thoughts to: akbashir@qatar.cmu.edu Your answer could feature in the next issue! 4 All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 Fasting: Not just for Muslims By Rooda Al Neama Staff Writer “All of man good deeds are for himself, except fasting it is for Allah” ‘Prophet Mohammed’ (PBUH) Once again Carnegie Mellon Qatar will experience Ramadan as a community. Whether you are fasting or not, you will notice a difference in the atmosphere around the university: all the couches are occupied by napping students who were up all night, the Quran is now the top priority on people’s reading list, and as a community we’re all more tolerant as it is the month of tolerance. Fasting exists in many religions, just around campus we can see students who practice fasting within their own religions. Nasser Rowhani, a Junior Computer Science major, practices Bahá'í faith, where fasting takes place from March 2nd to March 20th in the Bahá'í month of Ala’. As Muslims, those who are Bahá'í fast from sunrise and break their fast at sunset, where fasting is observed to remind believers of their spiritual being, and to assist them from abstaining from selfish desires. Nasser comments saying: “Fasting is a spiritual and cleansing experience. It has been scientifically proven how it benefits us physically. The spiritual benefits are greater when fasting as we abstain from many daily desires; allowing the believer to concentrate on appreciation of faith, worship and expanding inner growth. Fasting acts as a ladder that allows us to ascend closer to our creator.” Siddharth Arora a Freshman Business Administration major practices Hinduism. He states that “Hinduism is a religion founded on very strong fundamentals and beliefs and represents a majority of the population of India, a secular country.” Hindus like Muslims follow a lunar calendar and thus they fast on specific days according to the lunar cycle, for example when it is a full moon. Siddharth also explains an important fasting ritual observed by Hindu women called ‘Karwa Chauth’ saying, “Quite a few Hindu ladies fast the entire day until the moon comes up, and only break their fast after they pray and see their husband’s face. This is done for the longevity of their husband’s life”. In Christianity, the believer fasts 40 days from animal products, this varies according to which sect you belong to. When asking Adib Abu Saba a Christian Junior Computer Science major about how he practiced fasting he said “unfortunately, fasting has become outdated, most of the new generation in Lebanon don’t fast, while older generation such as my parents and especially grandparents take it very seriously. “I personally fast sometimes if I feel like it, but I feel that it isn’t necessary to fast for me to be a good Christian. I realize that fasting does allow me to experience what Jesus went through without food for 40 days, but I do not believe God will punish me if I eat chocolate for example throughout lent. “I would much rather tip a taxi driver 20 extra Riyals rather than not eat a certain product, but that’s just how I feel I would be a better Christian. Don’t tell my aunt or grandmother they would kill me if they heard this!” In Islam, Allah tells us in the Quran to “fast like those who did before us (Christians and Jews).” Fasting helps us remember that we are all equals, that we have to share and give charity, be on good behavior, and gain spiritual growth by doing what Allah has asked from us. Rasha Mkachar a Junior Business Administration major says “personally speaking, I think fasting is like an annual reminder that I can give up the things I normally think I cant live without such as music and other materialistic pleasures that waste my time rather than benefit me. Fasting reminds me of a religious purpose in my life that I tend to forget whilst caught up in every day practices.” May Allah accept all of our deeds and give us the strength to fast. Iftar hosted in loving memory of Fahad Al-Jefairi By Noor Al-Athirah Executive Editor-In-Chief Fahad was a significant figure in Carnegie Mellon Qatar’s community. No words can describe the void he left through CMU-Q world. Although he parted from us, many of us refuse to let his memory fade away with time. Few of us, though, were determined enough to organize an event to honor and freshen all his memories. The first event in process is an Iftar that will be held at the end of the first week of Ramadan. The Student Affairs team and a number of students are collaboratively working on it with intense preparations taking place. This event is different from any other. There is an emphasis on perfection as to ensure that the event turns out to be one of the best events ever organized. The committee working on it was very concerned about what to do for Fahad’s best interest. We spent a fair amount of time thinking of his favorite activities, and ways by which we could implement few of these activities in a memorial specially dedicated to him. Therefore, we decided to have an Iftar for all those that love and remember him. Charity donations will be collected throughout the evening and all returns will be distributed on the poor and hungry, an activity he admirably mastered. We are hoping his family, close friends, and the CMU-Q community will attend this Iftar to praise his spirit. This Iftar is more than just an event to many of us; it’s an attempt to remember and honor Fahad. It’s a chance for us to pray for him together, and wish that his spirit rests in peace. All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 5 Yvonne Ridley: An extraordinary perspective By Noor Al-Athirah Executive Editor –In-Chief Members of the Carnegie Mellon Qatar community were privileged to have Ms. Yvonne Ridley on Wednesday 23rd and Thursday 24th, where she presented two lectures titled ‘Islamaphobia in the West’ and ‘Beneath the Veil’. Ms. Ridley is a political editor in the Islamic Channel who was kidnapped by the Afghani Taliban for ten days and was released after giving them an oath to read the Quran. After learning about Islam through reading the Quran, she converted few months after her release. Her experience in Afghanistan and growing knowledge of Islam influenced her as to spread the word about the “pure faith”. She is on a mission to erode the stereotypes about Islam & Muslims that are widely spread in the West. Ms. Ridley has a glaring personality and is a very convincing speaker. In her lecture titled ‘Beneath the Veil’, she talked about the rights of women and how Muslim women should take a stand as to proof to non-Muslims that the subjugation and abuse of women in Islam is nothing but a misconception. The beauty of Ms. Ridley’s speech is the logic in which she presents her analysis of religious fact & Western perceptions. Against the perception of women being under-estimated, she stated that the first guardian of the first written Quran was a woman and that the first Muslim convert was a woman too. Many students, staff, and faculty attended her lectures. The audience was very attentive and raised various good questions towards the end. An interesting question was asked by one of Carnegie Mellon’s students saying: ‘What should we do to get out there?’ In response, Ms. Ridley powerfully replied “we should be more combative and proactive when it comes to Islam.” To learn more about Ms. Yvonne Ridley, log on to: http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=21 Student Government hosts a night of murder and mystery ...continued from front page… little did they expect to see Tony’s ‘Cousin from Arabia’ there to welcome them. With me MC-ing, the events took place as follows: Tony’s welcome speech, a dance with the father and the bride, followed directly by a dance with the groom and the bride, a bouquet toss, and Stanley, the groom, keeping with traditions and tossing his glasses… hmmm. After everyone had a wonderful dinner, in the midst of the Maid of Honor and Best Man speeches did the lights go out, and shots were fired. The lights were turned back on to have us all find our lovely bride shot and murdered. Distraught, fear and mystery filled the room as our Hotel Security guided everyone to follow the clues as to discover who had committed this almost irreprehensible crime. The culprit was revealed; it was the groom's brother. He did it for the life insurance policy. In this night of fun, mystery and action, we could not help but notice Pictured: Extravagant greetings between mother of the bride, played by Gloria Khoury and father of the bride, played by Lynn Carter. the astonishing acting talents of our CMU-Q community. Everyone did a great job of fooling, deceiving and gathering information out of each other while in character. It was all very convincing. So to the audience, a well deserved clap and congrats on your great performance. But to also our staff, of devoted SG Members that made it all the worthwhile…whether it was Reem’s intense search tactics routine, during show, or Walid’s decorating and styling talents behind-the-scenes along with many others. It was all immense fun for everyone, and a great experience for a heartfelt effort and an outcome delivered with gratefulness and joy. Pictured: What wedding would be complete without a bouquet toss? Becky Giovanni, our blushing bride, played by Mona Maher, tosses the bouquet to female friends at the reception. 6 All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 Accept Thy Brother Unconditionally By Mona Maher Staff Writer It was my grandmother who taught me how to pray and it was also she that told me, "In al afa'al b'il niyat" (Actions are judged through the doer's intentions). This is a religious idiom said by Prophet Mohammed, may peace be upon him that many Muslims live by. Unfortunately, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions" is a common idiom recited and believed by many as well. I believe that both idioms hold true for many cases and especially when people try to advise others upon matters of religion. Almost everyone has experienced the religious sermons of concerned family and friends; 'If you do this, you will become a better Muslim…If you do this, you will be a true Christian…You must do this if you wish to get into heaven.' At times we are the advisor and at times we are the student, but rarely are we the acceptor of another's beliefs; beliefs that are in opposition to what Ramadan, The Egyptian Picture we steadfastly 'know' is right. Instead of accepting each other's explanations, we mistakenly view them as an evil ploy to disintegrate the pinnacles upon which resides our faith. An example of this would be a child's belief in the tooth fairy and a father's belief that it is time for that child to stop believing in fairy tales. While the father's intention is good; to prepare his child for the real ways of the world, the child does not see the good intention and purely views it as a cruel action. Perhaps if that child could say, "I don't ask that you believe what I believe, but only that you still accept me in spite of the differences in our faith. That way, we don't lose each other's love over things we may never agree upon." If we start to understand that we cannot all have the same set of beliefs, because it is unnatural that we are all identical, then perhaps we can stop making enemies of each other, when we should instead be trying to accept each other unconditionally. This brings me to something a friend of mine once told me of a young man that he met. He said, "He is an Arab that is a Buddhist; the child of Jewish parents, that believes in the lessons of the Holy Quran, and is tolerant of everyone else's religious beliefs, no matter what they are." While many would view this as ridiculous and unsanctified, I would point those many people to remember one thing. The tooth fairy is only as true as those who believe in it, and if you believe in something else, then all the power to you. By Yasmine Abdelrahman Managing Editor-in-Cheif Coming from an Egyptian background, I can say that we are mostly known for our ‘large groups’. Family in Egypt is an important part of every individual’s life and is in fact the largest group that we will ever have. Ramadan represents the peak of family-gatherings throughout the year. I have now missed four Egyptian Ramadans ever since I moved to Qatar. However I shall never forget our long lasting tradition of gathering in my eldest uncle’s apartment for Iftar on the first day of Ramadan. My mother has 5 siblings whom we share the last two floors of a family building with. As a matter of fact, my uncle’s apartment is not more than a meter away from ours. My uncle’s wife would paste the famous “Ramadan to-cook list” on her fridge about two weeks before every Ramadan. Everyone had the right to ask for one dish to be cooked on the first day. A week before Ramadan, the rest of the women in the family would start their own list of dishes, either as delegated by my uncle’s wife or as volunteer work. The chaos would begin as the first day of Ramadan drew close. Everyone in my mother’s family would come back from nursery, school, university, or work around 1-2 o’clock. By 2:30 we were all expected to report to duty where my uncle’s wife would distribute amongst us the different chores. However, the duties were always divided in the same pattern; the sons would carry the dining tables, chairs and Chinas from everyone’s apartment and set them up along my uncle’s apartment; the daughters would set up the tables using the China in everyone’s house. All the fathers would sit in front of the big television, and watch while about 25 old and young, male and female people ran around the place preparing for Iftar. They would remind us that they’ve been working hard all these years, and that “now is the time we pay them back”. Around 4:00 pm or an hour before Iftar, the wives would get frustrated by the husbands’ attitudes, come out of the kitchen, turn off the Television, and have the husbands help everyone else. Well, I have to admit; this is one of the funniest moments of the day… just picture 6 Egyptian women storming out of the kitchen to force their 6 respective Egyptian husbands to work, and you’ll know why. I will always miss those Iftars and though my small family in Qatar can’t contribute to that tradition any more, we have started our own tradition in Doha. My mother is the one starting the list and all our family and “Egyptian” friends gather around in our house, just like we did in my uncle’s apartment in Egypt. All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 7 Living the Carnegie Mellon dream By Md Shahriar Haque Staff Writer For some freshmen, Carnegie Mellon is the beginning of a new adventure. For some others, it is the outcome of an uncertain decision. For some poor folks, university life is an ongoing emotional roller coaster ride while it's "something exciting" for others. For me though, Carnegie Mellon is a dream come true. Just like any other freshman, I came to CMUQ not knowing what to expect. It was a whole new world for me. I had no idea what the word 'orientation' meant. In fact I had just learnt the definition of a 'freshman' through TAMUQ's website. A year back, I couldn’t have imagined that I would end up here. I thought I’d have to go to Bangladesh after graduation from high school, just like my predecessors. Then something happened… TOEFL, SAT, personal interview, placement exam and voila, I am in Carnegie Mellon! As I stepped into the CMU-Q building on the first day of the ‘orientation’, I found myself amongst a group of people from different parts of the world. As the week progressed, I felt a kind of bond develop between us. I finally understood the ‘real’ meaning and purpose of Orientation. 'Orientation' doesn’t mean going to City Center to watch a movie or dining out at Benningan's; Orientation was a process of creating love; Love for your university, love for your peers, love for your seniors, and above all love for your new identity. I felt this love for the first time when I entered the LAS building as a part of the E.C. tour. It was a weird sensation; the kind you feel on entering an unknown land. When we came back to CMUQ, I gave a sigh of relief. Subconsciously, I had been missing "my university". It was a great turning point for me. Over the weekend I felt the urge to get back to university. I kept seeing things in my dream. Yasmine running after Omar yelling at the top of her voice, Samiha leading the girls of the "Funky Express", Imran and AZ's ever welcoming faces, Basit's friendly hi-hellos… I was missing them all. Today, after about a month of classes, I think of the Dean's speech during the orientation, "It's not the buildings but students that really make up a university." His words ultimately proved themselves right. Sincerely speaking, you guys have made Carnegie Mellon a special place for me. It is because of you guys that I can proudly say, I LOVE YOU CARNEGIE MELLON. Pictured Left: Shahriar takes part in an organized Scavenger Hunt with fellow freshmen Md. Rezwan Islam and Iyed Jouini. Pictured Above: Already absorbed in work… Java, perhaps? Have you missed our past issues? Would you like an electronic copy of this issue? ALL AROUND IS AVAILABLE ONLINE Please visit our website at: http://www.qatar.cmu.edu/student/index.php?pg=allaround 8 All Around, Vol. 3 Issue 2 THE BUCKETS: DID YOU KNOW? In every episode of Seinfeld there is a Superman somewhere. Grapes explode when you put them in the microwave. Go on, try it then! Poem of the issue RELIGION And an old priest said, "Speak to us of Religion." And he said: Have I spoken this day of aught else? Is not religion all deeds and all reflection, And that which is neither deed nor reflection, but a wonder and a surprise ever springing in the soul, even while the hands hew the stone or tend the loom? Who can separate his faith from his actions, or his belief from his occupations? Who can spread his hours before him, saying, "This for God and this for myself; This for my soul, and this other for my body?" All your hours are wings that beat through space from self to self. He who wears his morality but as his best garment were better naked. The wind and the sun will tear no holes in his skin. And he who defines his conduct by ethics imprisons his song-bird in a cage. The freest song comes not through bars and wires. And he to whom worshipping is a window, to open but also to shut, has not yet visited the house of his soul whose windows are from dawn to dawn. Your daily life is your temple and your religion. Whenever you enter into it take with you your all. Take the plough and the forge and the mallet and the lute, The things you have fashioned in necessity or for delight. For in reverie you cannot rise above your achievements nor fall lower than your failures. And take with you all men: For in adoration you cannot fly higher than their hopes nor humble yourself lower than their despair. And if you would know God be not therefore a solver of riddles. Rather look about you and you shall see Him playing with your children. And look into space; you shall see Him walking in the cloud, outstretching His arms in the lightning and descending in rain. You shall see Him smiling in flowers, then rising and waving His hands in trees. KHALIL GIBRAN Poet Seers. 5 September 2006. The "sixth sick sheik's sixth sheep's sick" is said to be the toughest tongue twister in the English language. The greatest recorded number of children that have been born by one mother is 69! She gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets and a measly 4 sets of quadruplets. Even in the days before IVF! http://www.geocities.com/area51newmexico/ page8.html RIDDLE OF THE ISSUE Who is your father's only son's brother's uncle's wife's daughter's brother's father's son? Can you place six X's on a Tic Tac Toe board without making three-in-a-row in any direction? Ans: No-one, an only son cannot have a brother, although they may have a sister. http://www.comics.com/comics/buckets/