Potential Exercises for self-concept improving Theoretical background: Self-concept or self-identity is the mental and conceptual understanding and persistent regard that sentient beings hold for their own existence. In other words, it is the sum total of a being's knowledge and understanding of his or her self. The self-concept is different from self-consciousness, which is an awareness or preoccupation with one's self. Components of the self-concept include physical, psychological, and social attributes, which can be influenced by the individual's attitudes, habits, beliefs and ideas. These components and attributes can not be condensed to the general concepts of self-image and the self-esteem. Target group: Pupils 15 to 17 years old General Target Group: Counsellors Teachers Activities’ description: All these activities can be the part of a more meaningful lesson which takes place in a different classroom. The desks’ arrangement is very important. It is preferable for the children not to be sat down as in the others lessons in order to feel more comfortable to interact. All these activities are just the tip of the iceberg. There are many other activities through which a teacher can help students build a positive self-concept. These types of activities hopefully give students the strength to withstand the pressures of the pack; they hopefully enable students to resist that pull to metamorphoses into who they're not. Pedagogical aims A student enters school as a unique individual, consisted of genes, environment, and a certain spark within himself. An increased awareness of how special that unique spark really makes him helps that student retain that quality. Our goal as teachers is not to produce cookie-cutter children but to nourish each student's individual soul. As an ancient Chinese proverb says: I hear …and I forget I see… and I remember I do…and I understand. These potential activities should pose specific aims for children in order to: • • • • • • • To motivate them via quick and spontaneous answers To detect, to realize and to reveal the traits of their personality. To motivate them to discriminate the external self traits from the internal ones and to detect the difficulties in order to realize the most hidden ones. To shape a final completed picture of self. To motivate them to realize that all traits are essential and to accept that fact. It is also necessary for the children to understand that they should accept their traits and then to try to change them those which are considered as negative ones. To help students to realize and to name their feelings To help students to develop team spirit, to interact with each other, to pose the same goals, to reveal their thoughts and to share experience. Time: 45 minutes including the conversation Resources needed: photocopier, magazines, glues Cross cultural Issues : System Interaction Communication Student – Team Change Activity 1st Designing Self-Collages Part 1: We suggest students to use pictures, words, or symbols clipped from magazines that represent their traits that they have glued on the iceberg’s sides or things they enjoy doing, places they've been, people they admire, or careers they desire. With all these things students create a collage. They place their names on the back, and we post the collages around the room. Part 2: The other students guess which collage belongs to whom and state why they made that guess. Afterwards, all children are unmasked and justify their choices and their work procedure. Time required: 20 minutes Activity 2nd Create a "Me" Commercial Part 1: Each student write a two- to three-minute television commercial. The topic is why someone should hire him or choose him. The commercial will depict the student's special qualities, traits, interests in a persuasive way. All children should have in their mind where they would address for hiring them (in what kind of company) in order to achieve their goal. After they work on these, the students present their commercials in front of the class circularly. Part 2: Afterwards, they write to their portfolio the reason they choose this or that characteristic, this or that interest. Another variation is for a group of five to create a commercial for each one and then present this in front of the class. Time required: 20 minutes Activity 3rd Drawing Self Portraits – Life Trees Part 1: We ask students to draw themselves. Students can use black or coloured pencils, but any medium could be used. The picture does not have to be exact, but it should be representative of that student. Students can draw a tree. This tree will be named life tree and represent self. The size, the branches, the fruits, the boles have sense in order to understand students’ selves. An asthenic tree with small branches, without fruits will give us a meaning that the student feels insecure with a low self-esteem. These drawings or portraits also go into the journals. An optional variation is to divide the shape for the face down the centre lengthwise. Half the face can be a depiction of how the studend see themselves, and the other how they think others see him. This is accompanied by a paragraph that describes how the students see themselves versus how they think others see them. Time required: 30 minutes Activity 4th Matching traits with professions Part 1: Students write down to their portfolio – notebook their traits that they had chosen in the 1st exercise in a vertical list. They complete this list if they want (a proposed list can include 10 traits). Next to this list, they create another one with professions, in the way that every trait will be matched with a potential profession eg. Accurate8Accountant, Affectionate8kindergarten teacher. We can also give us a brief indicative board with professions. Part 2: Afterwards, we say the students’ names randomly and each one says her/his name, a trait and the matched profession, eg. Elen, communicative, journalist Time required: 30 minutes These activities are just the tip of the iceberg. There are many other activities through which a teacher can help her students build a positive self-concept. These types of activities hopefully give students the strength to withstand the pressures of the pack; they hopefully enable students to resist that pull to metamorphoses into who they're not.