DearAll‐ HappyFebruary‐ Thankyoutoallwhoattendedtheworkshop“EmotionallyPreparingforStep1.”Wehad greatattendanceandwonderfulreviews.ThankyouDr.Nilsson. Forthismonth,Iwanttohighlighthowimportantitisforstudentsnottolosesightoftheir self‐care. Ihavebeenspendingalotoftimeaskingyoutoattendtoyouremotionalhealthwhichof courseisapriority,butIdon’twantyoutostopattendingtootheraspectsofyourhealth. Pleasedon’tletthedemandsofmedicalschoolleadyoutoforgetyourphysicalhealth whichincludeshealthyeating,physicalpursuitsandahugeone–SLEEP.Itcanbeso temptingtocutyourselfshortonrestwhenyouarefeelingthepressuretostudy.Please, remember,youwillretainmoreinformationwhenyouarerested.Takecareifyouare bikingordrivinghomeafteralongdaystudyingorhadalongshiftataclinicalrotation. Also,pleasereachouttomeifyouarestrugglingtofigureouthowtoaccessaPCPor dentist. CheckoutthelinktothisimportantcommentaryfromtheStudentDoctorNetworkwritten byamedicalstudent. http://www.studentdoctor.net/2014/11/self‐care‐in‐medical‐school‐a‐lesson‐from‐the‐ heart/ The author highlights: “ Desire to help others is of course why most of us chose medicine; the desire to learn is the other major reason. Self-sacrifice is another major value; healthcare professionals often sacrifice free time, a smaller workload, etc. in order to care for people. However, no doctor can do this effectively without caring for him or herself. The doctors that provide the best care to the patients are also taking care of themselves. As a medical student, it is critical to begin the discipline of self-care now. Medical student burnout is a real thing, so make time to take care of yourself.” Speakingoftakingcareofyourselfphysically,Iwantedtosharemytwonewwellness activities‐Iamtryinghardtogetmoving!! IfoundthisPDFwhichgivesroutesforwalksrighthereoncampus: http://www.ucdmc.ucdavis.edu/hr/wellness/_docs/walk%20map.pdf Also,inmyeffortstofindthebestAppsforyouall‐ItriedoutSWORKIT‐Iloveit! Youcandesignyourownworkoutandnoneedtogettoagym. WellnessOpportunitiesforFebruary: MedicalStudentEvents: 1.February8th–CareerSatisfactionbyWayOfResiliency DeanFreischlagwillleadthecommunityinanimportantdiscussionaboutmaintaining resiliencyinthefaceofthemanyworkdemandsandgoals.Dr.Freischlag’spresentation willbefollowedbyapanelofotherUCDMCcommunitymemberswhowillcontinuethe dialogueaboutresiliencyandtakecommentsandquestionsfromtheaudience. l 2.February18th:BreakfastandMindfulness Thisisaneventopentoallmedicalstudents.Pleasecomeandenjoycoffeeandbreakfastwithyour fellowstudentsandfriendsANDtryoutsomehelpfulmindfulnessexercisesthatcanfostergood physicalandemotionalhealth.Socialsupportandmindfulness–twogreatwellnesspursuits. 3.ForOurMedicalStudentParents: IntroducingSolidsandWeanin Thursday,February18,2016 Facilitator:ShirleyGerman,IBCLC,RLC/UCDavisBreastfeedingProgram Time:11:30am‐1:00pm Location:TiconIII,HumanResources,3BConferenceRoom UCDMC/CampusOpportunities: 1.Meditation Monday,February8,2016 Time:12:00‐1:00pm Location:GlassrockBuilding,Room7106 2.WellnessFair2016 Wednesday,February24,2016 11:30am–1:30pm MarriottBallroom‐Sacramento WorkLifeandWellnessofUCDavisOneHRinvitesyoutoitsannualWellnessFairwhere youwillhavetheopportunitytocelebratewellness!UCDavisHealthSystemDepartments andavarietyofbusinessesandorganizationscenteredaroundwellnesswillbeavailableto provideinformationabouttheirprogramsandfree/discountedservices! 3.RelaxationDayattheArboretum Saturday,February20,1:00‐3:00LawnareawestoftheArboretumGazebo. TheArboretumispartneringwiththecampus“MindSpa’tohelpyoude‐ stress!Participateinayogaclass,coloringworkshopandmuchmore!Allages welcome. Finally‐mywellnesstechniqueforthemonth‐Alittleself‐compassioncanhelp balanceyouemotionallyandphysically. ResourcesforRecoveringResilience:CultivatingSelf‐Compassion (LindaGraham) 1. Bringtomindamomentwhenitwasrelativelyeasyforyouto“feelwith”someone else’sheartacheorsorrow.Yourneighborstrugglestocarryheavybagsofgroceries upthedrivewaywitharecentlybrokenankle.Yourcousinlosthisluggagetwo airportsbackbeforehearrivedatyourhouseforaweekendvisit.Your8‐yearold waslateforanafterschoolmeet‐upandtheschoolbustookofffortheclasspicnic withouthim;hecamehomeandcollapsedintears.Yourcatsprainedhishipjumping downfromtoohighakitchencounter,andhaslimpedaroundthehouseforthree days. 2. Imaginethisperson,childorpetsittinginfrontofyou.Youcouldevenimaginea childorpetactuallysittinginyourlap.Noticeanywarmth,concern,goodwillarising inyourownheartasyousitwiththem.Feelthe“feelingwith,”theempathy, compassionandloveflowingfromyourbody,yourhearttothem,sittingwithyou. 3. Whenthefeelingsofempathy,compassionandlovearesteadyenough,shiftgearsa bitandrememberamomentwhenyouwerefacingyourowndifficulty,an“Ouch;this istough;thishurts.”Howeverbigorsmall,letyourselffeelthepainofyourownpain foramoment. 4. Thenreturntothefeelingsofwarmth,concern,goodwillyoufeltforthepersonor childorpetyouwerefirst“feelingwith.”Withoutchanginganything,simplyre‐direct thisflowofempathy,compassionandloveforthemtoyourself.Letyourselfreceive yourowncareandconcern,youownempathyandcompassionforyourownpain,for whateverhashappened,whateveryou’vedoneorfailedtodo,atanyageorlevelof yourpsychethatneedstoreceiveit.Youmayexpressthisfeelingtowardyourselfin words,“Maythissufferingpass…Maythingsresolveforme….MayIfeellessupset overtime.” 5. Letyourselftakeinfeelingunderstoodandnurtured.Letyourownheartrelaxintoa morepeacefulsenseofunderstanding,compassion,andforgiveness,lettingtheself‐ compassionsoakinandsettleinyourbody.Letitre‐wireyoursenseofyourselfin thisverymoment. 6. Reflectonyourexperienceofthisexercise.Noticeanysenseofopennessorapproach toyourownexperiencesnow.Noticeifthisapproachstanceopensuppossibilities forchangeandresolutionofthedifficultiesthathaveconcernedorhurtyoubefore. Asyoucultivatean“approach”stancetowardexperience,youarecreatingmoreresponse flexibilityinyourbrain,thuscreatingtheconditionsformoreresilience. Thankyouandasalwaysdonothesitatetocontactme‐ MaggieRea mrea@ucdavis.edu (916)703‐WELL