The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Presented by: Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 1 Private Victory 2 Public Victory 3 3 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 1 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Carlton’s Terrific Tips for Success Educators Teach Subject Matter Teach Children THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!! Concept created by: Dr. Jerome A. Barber 4 Carlton’s Terrific Tips for Success Even the President “puts children first.” 5 6 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 2 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 • • • • • • Emotional Cognitive Physical Academic Social Spiritual 7 Habit 1 Be Proactive • I am a responsible person. • I take initiative. • I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. • I do not blame others for my wrong actions. • I do the right thing without being asked even when no one is looking. 8 Habit 2 Begin with the end in mind. • I plan ahead and set goals. • I do things that have meaning and make a difference. • I am an important part of my community. • I contribute to my school’s mission and vision. • I look for ways to be a good citizen. 9 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 3 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Habit 3 Put first things first. • I spent my time on things that are important. • I say “NO” to things I know I should not do. • I set priorities, make a schedule and follow my plan. • I am disciplined and organized. 10 By Tom Rath 11 Habit 4 think -- win -win • I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. • I make deposits in others’ Emotional Bank Accounts. • When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives. 12 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 4 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Habit 5 Seek first to understand, then to be understood • I listen to other people’s ideas and feelings. • I try to see things from their viewpoints. • I listen to others without interrupting. • I am confident in voicing my ideas. • I look people in the eyes when talking. 13 Habit 6 Synergize • I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. • I get along well with others even people who are different than me. • I work well in groups. • I seek out others people’s ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than any one of us alone. • I am humble. 14 Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw • I take care of my body by eating right, exercising and getting sleep. • I spend time with family and friends. • I learn in lots of ways and lots of places not just at school. • I take time to find meaningful ways to help others. 15 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 5 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Developing Students to Become Leaders 16 Limits only exist in your Mind The Law of the Lid Limits only exist in your Mind The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 17 The Law of Process The PROCESS is actually more important than the PRODUCT! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 18 6 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 The Law of Navigation Focus your thoughts on the Road to Success! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 19 The Law of Respect Respect is a 3-Step Process! (1) Respect yourself (2) Give respect to others (3) Watch respect come back to you! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 20 The Law of Intuition Pay special attention to details! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 21 7 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 The Law of Connection Connecting is more powerful than communicating! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 22 The Law of Empowerment Promote you and your self-worth on a daily basis The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 23 The Law of the Big Picture Integrity, honesty and core values are key elements of success! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 24 8 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 The Law of Sacrifice Sometimes you have to give up to go up!! The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell 25 Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com The Law of Legacy Are you a positive role model? The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by Dr. John Maxwell 26 Created by Carlton S. Ashby Email: Edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com Ordinary People Doing Ordinary Things! 27 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 9 The Leader In Me 2/3/2014 Carlton’s Terrific Tips for Success Today’s Quote for You! “Anyone can count the seeds in one apple, but no one knows how many apples come from one seed.” -Rev. Dr. Jerome A. Barber 28 By Joel Osteen You can’t give birth to a dream you have not first conceived. You must conceive it on the inside through your eyes of faith before it will come to pass on the outside. Change what you’re seeing and you will change what you’re producing. 29 Carlton S. Ashby, M.Ed. edyoucarercarlton@gmail.com 10