Des Moines Register 12-08-06 Basu: Women in politics still face double standard in Iowa By REKHA BASU REGISTER COLUMNIST Hillary Clinton called Bonnie Campbell this week, looking for "a read on Iowa," and got Campbell's pledge of support if she decides to run for president. But a national political observer thinks Iowa is the kiss of death for a woman seeking higher office, and that in large part because of that, Clinton could "blow up" in the primaries. "I've said it before - there's no tougher state for Clinton to start this quest than Iowa," Chuck Todd wrote last week in NationalJournal.com, in offering six reasons Clinton would face an uphill battle getting the Democratic nomination. "This purple state (which just showed major signs of getting bluer) has never elected a woman as governor or senator, nor has it even elected a woman to Congress. The Hawkeye State is full of older voters and blue-collar labor union members who have appeared hesitant to elect women to executive positions all throughout the Midwest." History shows Todd is both right and wrong. Iowans will nominate women for those offices; we just won't elect them. That sorry fact puts us in the dubious company of Mississippi - the only other state where women have never held any of those positions. Clinton should be OK with Democratic caucus-goers, who have nominated Roxanne Conlin and Bonnie Campbell to take on Terry Branstad, and at least seven women for House or Senate seats. Iowa Republicans have nominated a woman for Congress, but it's been several decades. Hillary Clinton came in second after John Edwards in an Iowa Poll for the Democratic nomination, but behind four Republicans in a general match-up. So what is it about this state? Dianne Bystrom, who tracks this question for a living, says the states most reluctant to elect women tend to be rural, have older populations, and religious fundamentalists - and that Iowa fits that bill. On the plus side for Clinton, says Bystrom, who heads Iowa State University's Carrie Chapman Catt Center for Women and Politics, young voters in Iowa have gotten more politically engaged the last few years. And, says Bystrom, Iowans appreciate "star quality," which Clinton offers. It's dangerous to over-generalize on this because it can become a self-fulfilling prophesy. But I think there's something intangible at play here. It's about the types of women Iowans prefer. Strong-willed, outspoken women don't do very well in this state. They're regarded as arrogant know-it-alls. But women who are soft-spoken and deferential aren't seen as leadership material. We like women who are family-minded. If they're too career-driven, we think they put ambition before families, which we don't regard as attractive in a woman. That implies a woman's kids have to be grown before she ventures into a political bid. Fathers, however, are free to pursue political careers no matter how young their kids. And we tend to blame women for their husband's failings. Our attitudes have created a Catch 22 for women. We set an impossible standard for them that we don't hold men to. They're either too nice or too confident, too close to their spouses or not family minded enough. And if they have to run for office only after their kids are grown, they're left out of the political pipeline. I base these observations partly on how I hear both women and men talk. We're ready to fault women for not being perfect, while giving men a pass. I've seen the different ways readers respond to me and to other female columnists when we sound either assertive or self-deprecating. The voice of authority is still considered to be male. Just look at the succession of male commentators and hosts on local radio and TV, with few female counterparts. That's changing somewhat, and I see a growing hunger in Iowa for strong women role models. But it's embarrassing for Iowa to still be regarded as one of the last patriarchal holdouts. Will national pundits still be handicapping races based on Iowans' sexism four years from now? Or are we ready to stop holding female candidates up to impossibly different standards and judge them on their merits? REKHA BASU can be reached at rbasu@dmreg.com or (515) 284-8584.