Wedding of
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Reverend Betty Davis, Officiant; Riversong Weddings
(Please click to select items you wish to include and enter
any text. Save the doc in your name and send to me at
riversongcc@gmail.com)
☐ Entry of Guests
If there are witnesses or guests, they gather round near
the Officiant
☐Entry of Bride and Groom
Bride and groom enter together and come before the
Officiant. Or other:
☐Gathering Words
We have come together in this special place to celebrate
the love bride and groom have for each other. They
have discovered something so precious, they want to
claim it for a lifetime and declare it to the world by
entering into marriage. They are fully aware that this
commitment is not being entered into lightly but is one
of the most important decisions of their lives. (Personal
information – how you met or something special about
your relationship or other gathering words: Click here
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☐Opening Prayer
Beloved God, we welcome your presence in our midst
today as we witness and bless the union of bride and
groom . We ask your blessing on their love and
commitment as they begin their journey together as
husband and wife. Bless them with unconditional loving,
faithfulness, and respectful giving one to another. Bless
their families who are also united as one. May they
honor and care for each other as they support this
couple. May this couple commit their lives to allowing
your Spirit to guide and strengthen them to love
unselfishly and unconditionally now and always. Amen.
☐Remembrance
At this time we would like to remember some special
people who are present in Spirit though absent from this
gathering. We remember Click here to enter text. They
surely add their blessing to this union today.
☐Declaration of Support
When a man and a woman join in marriage, their
families as well as their friends are joined into a larger
circle of caring. All those you love are not present today
but are an important part of the fabric of your lives and
therefore of your marriage Tend to those you love well
and allow them to help you keep your marriage strong.
☐Readings
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Reading: Click here to enter text. Read by: Click here to
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☐Scripture like: I Cor 13: The love passage Read by:
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Select which marriage address or write your own:
☐Marriage Address 1(New Orleans theme)
You’ve chosen New Orleans for your wedding for
reasons special to both of you. So much about this city
represents what is also best in a relationship; it’s the Big
Easy and your love should be an easy love - natural and
free – custom made in heaven. The Quarter is inspiring
with all the beautiful French architecture – so the
structure of your marriage is beautiful. It is based on the
strengths and best qualities of each of you. Like New
Orleans with its music and feasting and endless
celebrations, marriage should be a playground of wild
abandon. In the security of being loved and wanted, you
are free to be yourself and enjoy the endless pleasures
of just being together. Like the locals do, live large in
your marriage, be creative in your loving, and allow the
simple things of life to fill you up to overflowing. When
the storms come, and they do come, your love and
commitment will endure because you remember all that
you have and you stay determined to keep it.
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☐ Marriage Address 2
A true marriage is the ultimate relationship because
it offers the opportunity of limitless intimacy between
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two people. It is a great and challenging adventure into
the best that human caring, affection, trust, and
understanding have to offer.
Life with a marriage partner is sometimes playful
and effortless, sometimes frustrating and difficult. Your
relationship will continue to strengthen if you face
challenges and setbacks with the confidence and
courage that together you can find a way through. Love
deepens through unselfish nurturing, open and honest
communication of feelings and fears hopes and dreams.
Love lightens burdens because you divide them. Love
intensifies joys because you share them. Love inspires
faithfulness and requires trust. Bring out the best in
each other and work hard not to change each other but
to become your best selves for each other.
The love you share is the greatest treasure life offers.
Two individuals joining in marriage become like two
separate streams merging into a life giving river,
deepening and enriching each other and those around
you. May your union can lead the way for others to
witness the heights and depths and happiness of
committed love.
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☒ Other Marriage Address
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Wedding Vows
(Turning toward each other and holding hands)
The words you are about to speak are some of the most preciou
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and important words you will ever speak. Looking deeply into
the eyes of your chosen love, declare your vows with true conv
☐Write our own vows:
Groom’s Vows: Click here to enter text.
Bride’s Vows: Click here to enter text.
To Groom: “Having professed your love and declared
your vows, do you take bride to be your wife?”
Groom: “I do.”
To Bride: “Having professed your love and declared
your vows, do you take groom to be your husband?
Groom: “I do.”
☐Use the traditional vows:
I, groom , receive you bride
To be my wedded wife / To have and to hold/
From this day forward.
For better, for worse/ For richer, for poorer/
In sickness and health/ To love and to cherish
Til death do us part.
I, bride , receive you groom
To be my wedded husband / To have and to hold/
From this day forward.
For better, for worse/ For richer, for poorer/
In sickness and health/ To love and to cherish
Til death do us part.
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To Groom: “Having professed your love and
declared your vows, do you take bride to be your wife?”
Groom: “I do.”
To Bride: “Having professed your love and
declared your vows, do you take groom to be your husband?
Groom: “I do.”
This bond is a true miracle and a blessing from God.
Treasure it and carefully tend it each day. May it grow
deeper and sweeter with each passing year. May it be
abundant enough to share with others who also care
about you. May your marriage show the heights and
depths and joy of committed love.
Ring Exchange:
Would the ring bearer present the rings? (Bride gives
bouquet to someone)
It is traditional to seal the vows with the exchange of
rings. Before we exchange rings, let’s think about
what it means to “give your hand” in marriage and
the significance of these hands we place rings on to
symbolize your love.
☐ Option 1 (before the exchange of rings)
Look at these hands as the gift they are to you. These are
the hands of your best friend, young and strong and
vibrant with love. These are the hands that offer to
uphold your life, to work alongside yours to build a
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future and realize your dreams together. These are the
hands that will passionately love you and cherish you
through the years. These hands will hold you up during
life’s challenges. They will wipe away your tears and
clap with pride at your achievements. These are the
hands that will guide you as you search to be your best
self. Always be thankful that you have the hand of your
partner to hold through life’s fascinating journey.
☐ Option 2: (use before the ring exchange)
Ribbon or Handfasting ceremony (see a sample
on my website).
Please present the rings
☐ Symbolism of the rings
These rings symbolize in the purity of the metal, the
strength and purity of your love.
As circles they represent your hope for an
everlasting commitment.
To Groom: “Groom, place To Bride: “Bride, place
the ring on bride’s finger
the ring on groom’s
and repeat after me:”
finger and repeat after
me:”
Bride, I give you this ring/ Groom, I give you this
ring/
As a symbol of my love for
As a symbol of my love
you/
for you/
And as a pledge of my
And as a pledge of my
commitment to you/
commitment to you/
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With this ring, I thee wed
With this ring, I thee
wed
(Push ring onto his
finger)
(Push ring onto her
finger)
☐ Alternative words for the rings:
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☐Unity Ceremony (see my website for samples)
☐ Unity Candle
☐ Sand Ceremony
☐ Traditional Cultural Ceremony Click here to
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☐ Other
☐Final Blessing
"Let us pray: Holy God, creator of love, through your
Spirit deepen in the minds and hearts of this couple the
sacred and binding power of their vows. Bless their
commitment and strengthen them in the fulfillment of
their vows for one another. Through Your Spirit may
they be a blessing to each other, to their children, their
families and their friends. May their love deepen and
grow stronger through life’s challenges. May their life
together and their home honor you and be a witness to
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the joy and fulfillment found in unconditional committed
love to another. Through Jesus Christ our Lord we pray.
Amen."
May God bless the joining of your lives and may you live
in love always.
☐Pronouncement
Now, because you have chosen one another
And pledged to love each other
For all the days of your lives
Before God and this gathering of family and friends
By the power vested in me as a minister of the gospel
And the state of Louisiana
I now pronounce you husband and wife!
Marriage KISS:
☐”You may kiss the bride.”
☐Share your first kiss as husband and wife.
PRESENTATION:
It is my great honor and privilege to present as husband
and wife
Enter here how you wish to be presented
Signing of Documents (remember to bring them along
with the original envelope)
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