Alder Brook PRU Anti-Bullying Policy Statement of Intent We are committed to providing a caring, friendly and safe environment for all of our pupils so they can learn in a relaxed and secure atmosphere. Bullying of any kind is unacceptable at our school. If bullying does occur, all pupils should be able to tell and know that incidents will be dealt with promptly and effectively. We are a TELLING school. This means that anyone who knows that bullying is happening is expected to tell the staff. Objectives of this Policy • • • • • All management committee members, teaching and non-teaching staff, pupils and parents should have an understanding of what bullying is. All management committee members and teaching and non-teaching staff should know what the school policy is on bullying, and follow it when bullying is reported. All pupils and parents should know what the school policy is on bullying, and what they should do if bullying arises. As a school we take bullying very seriously. Pupils and parents should be assured that they will be supported when bullying is reported. Bullying will not be tolerated. “My son has attended Alder Brook and there have been occasions where we have had to address bullying. The staff at Alder Brook have always been very supportive and proactive in dealing with this issue, so I would encourage any parents or children with a concern, even if they felt it was trivial to discuss it with a member of staff. You will be treated fairly and considerately” (Comment from a parent) What Is Bullying? Bullying is the use of aggression with the intention of hurting another person. Bullying results in pain and distress to the victim. Bullying can be: • Emotional • Physical being unfriendly, excluding, tormenting (e.g. hiding books, threatening gestures) pushing, kicking, hitting, punching or any use of violence • Verbal name-calling, sarcasm, spreading rumours, teasing • Cyber All areas of internet ,such as email & internet chat room misuse Mobile threats by text messaging & calls Misuse of associated technology , i.e. camera &video facilities Bully can also be: • Racist racial taunts, graffiti, gestures • Sexual • Homophobic because of, or focussing on the issue of sexuality • Disablist unwanted physical contact or sexually abusive comments because of, or focussing on areas of disability Prevention We will use methods for helping children to prevent bullying. As and when appropriate, these may include: signing a behaviour contract prior to a pupil starting at Alder Brook a set of school rules written collaboratively by children and staff use of Positive Action/SEAL programmes to promote good social skills and resilience, in addition to providing a safe forum to talk about issues that may affect us anti-bullying assemblies, workshops and designated focus days/weeks (Anti-Bullying Week, Stop Cyber-Bullying Day, Safer Internet Week) use of worry boxes in classrooms weekly nurture group sessions and extra-curricular activities in order to build healthy relationships within classes and throughout the school use of external agencies such as Kidscape, Childline, CaMHS, NSPCC, Barnardos, Place2Be daily circle /reflection time at the beginning and the end of the school day to promote good social skills and celebrate positive actions, in addition to addressing any issues that may have occurred. School Council class representatives consulting regularly with other pupils to gain feedback on how to keep our school a safe and happy place the use of pupil surveys to obtain feedback regarding what children think of our school, bullying, in addition to surveys to gain insight into online activity at home/school and existing knowledge of online safety writing stories or poems or drawing pictures about bullying displayed as visual reminders around the school using short films about bullying and anti-bullying websites as valuable resources to promote awareness and discussion reading stories about bullying, or having them read to a class or assembly making up role-plays having regular discussions about bullying and why it matters during Positive Action, reflection sessions, nurture group sessions and School Council meetings inviting parents/carers into school to work with their children to promote healthy relationships group sessions with parents/carers to encourage and support dialogue surrounding sensitive issues such as bullying and online safety signposting parents/carers to appropriate websites and organisations that could provide help and advice Outcomes pupils will feel safe and confident in speaking to their parents/carers or staff if they are being bullied, or if they witness bullying pupils will be able to confidently discuss why bullying of any kind is unacceptable both inside and outside school pupils will develop healthy networks of peer support as a result of Positive Action, reflection sessions, nurture group sessions, School Council consultations/meetings and extra -curricular activities pupils will feel safe with, and supported by the rest of the school community in every aspect of school life parents/carers will feel confident in reporting any incidents of bullying to school staff and feel reassured that they will be supported, with their concerns being taken seriously and acted on parents/carers will feel confident in discussing sensitive issues such as bullying and e-safety with their children Why is it Important to Respond to Bullying? Bullying hurts. No one deserves to be a victim of bullying. Everybody has the right to be treated with respect. Pupils who are bullying need to learn different ways of behaving. Signs and Symptoms A child may indicate by signs or behaviour that he or she is being bullied. Adults should be aware of these possible signs and should investigate if a child: • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • is frightened of walking to or from school doesn't want to go on the school / public bus begs to be driven to school changes their usual routine is unwilling to go to school (school phobic) begins to truant becomes withdrawn anxious, or lacking in confidence starts stammering attempts or threatens suicide or runs away cries themselves to sleep at night or has nightmares feels ill in the morning begins to do poorly in school work comes home with clothes torn or books damaged has possessions which are damaged or " go missing" asks for money or starts stealing money (to pay bully) has dinner or other monies continually "lost" has unexplained cuts or bruises comes home starving (money/lunch has been stolen) becomes aggressive, disruptive or unreasonable is bullying other children or siblings stops eating is frightened to say what's wrong gives improbable excuses for any of the above is afraid to use the internet or mobile phone is nervous & jumpy when a cyber message is received These signs and behaviours could indicate other problems, but bullying should be considered a possibility and should be investigated “I’m being bullied. Mum reported it too and had a meeting at school” (comment from a pupil in Phoenix class) Schools have a responsibility to respond promptly and effectively to issues of bullying. In order to respond to bullying effectively, Alder Brook observes the following legislations: Section 89. Education and Inspections Act 2006 Equality Act 2010 Human Rights Act 1998 Children Act 1989 Education Act 2011 Although bullying in itself is not a specific criminal offence, we are aware that some types of harassment, threatening communication and behaviour may be a criminal offence. In such cases we also comply with the following legislations: Protection from Harassment Act 1997 Malicious Communications Act 1988 Communications Act 2003 Public Order Act 1986 If members of staff feel that an offence has been committed, they are advised to seek further assistance from the police. What Alder Brook pupils think about bullying “I do say inappropriate words, but I understand it’s wrong” (pupil - Phoenix class) “I don’t understand, but I know people can hang themselves. I know it’s important to talk” (pupil - Phoenix class) “Stand up to bullies by telling a teacher” (Beehive class) “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover” (pupil - Beehive class) “Use the 5 Finger Strategy” (pupil - Beehive) “A strong man stands up. A stronger person stands up for others” (pupil Beehive class) “A stronger person walks away” (Beehive class) “Don’t judge people because of the way they are. It doesn’t matter” (pupil Beehive class) “You don’t have to take your anger out on others. Speak to an adult” (pupil Beehive class) “Stand together and look after each other as a school family” (Beehive class) Procedures Report bullying incidents to staff Ms Corinne Stevens (anti-bullying coordinator and governor) will investigate all complaints of bullying in order to stop it from happening All complaints and investigations into them will be recorded Initially, the victim and the perpetrator will counselled by Ms Stevens, using restorative justice skills. The bully will receive a consequence linked to the behaviour steps, depending on severity of the incident. An attempt will be made to help the bully (bullies) change their behaviour Parents/carers will be informed at the schools discretion. This may depend on criteria such as: the severity of the bullying, the age of the child, whether the child is on the SEN register and the number of times the bullying has taken place. In serious cases parents/ carers will be informed and asked to attend a meeting with their children to discuss the problem Advice may be sort from other relevant agencies, and Ms Stevens may decide that a CAF needs to be completed and liaise with Ms Gail Carey If the bullying becomes persistent, exclusion will be considered. All instances of bullying will be reported to the Local Authority on a monthly basis, in line with the LA’s procedures Outcomes The bully (bullies) will be supported to reflect on their bullying behavior and genuinely apologise to the victim in order to repair and restore the relationship. Other consequences may take place in line with our behaviour steps. In serious cases, exclusion will be considered If possible, the pupils will be reconciled After the incident/incidents have been investigated and dealt with, each case will be monitored to ensure repeated bullying does not take place. Follow up will take place with the victim to ensure that their emotional wellbeing is addressed with their resilience being nurtured and supported Evaluation and Review School governors will monitor instances of bullying regularly via meetings with the anti-bullying coordinator and the Head Teacher. This policy will be reviewed via consultation with pupils, parents and staff every two years to ensure it is relevant and suitable. Links to other Policies and Strategies Please see: • Behaviour Policy • Equality Policy • Safeguarding Policy • Online Safety Policy • Acceptable Use of ICT Agreement • PHSCE scheme of work • Inclusion Policy This policy was agreed by staff on This policy was ratified by Governors on The policy will be reviewed in Anti-Bullying Policy