Gender Equality continued • • • • 3 Major theories review Gender in the media-assignment #7 (do not turn in until the end of class) Abusive Relationships Inequality “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.” Aristotle Gender Roles and 3 Theories Functionalist How is something helpful or hurtful in society? Jobs people/institutions perform and how society functions. Conflict Theorist Inequality and looks for groups that might be taking advantage of other groups. Haves vs Have Nots Symbolic Interactionist Influence of social groups, labels, and meanings of symbols Structural-Functional Theory: Traditional division of labor is functional Conflict Theory: Women’s disadvantaged roles benefits men Conflict Theory: Disadvantages of men are often overlooked • Stifled emotions • Domestic violence Symbolic Interactionism: Gender roles learned through socialization expressive roles nurturing and supportive instrumental roles task orientated What are the expectations? Quick Write What emotions/actions are more acceptable for men to exhibit than women? What emotions/actions are more acceptable for women to exhibit than men? Why? View News Report -Boys Socialization and Emotions Gender in our society 1. Work in a group of 3-5 2. Put yourself in order of birthday (not year, just month and day) 3. Starting with the earliest birthday, each person will share their image and their analysis (2 minutes per image max) Turn in the image at the end of class with your name on it to get credit (put in red folder) Extra Credit Power Point (or Prezi.com) Option: Sociologists to Know Extra Credit 5 minutes Select a sociologist (sign up in class) 4 points possible Samples and details on website Due April 8th Tues/Thurs class, Due April 14th Mon/Wed class Unhealthy relationships Break The Cycle Warning Signs Early indicators a relationship is headed in the wrong direction. • • • • • • • • • • Extreme jealousy Constant put-downs Financial Control Possessiveness or controlling behavior Making false accusations Isolation from family and friends History of abusive behavior Big mood swings Explosive temper Belief that abuse is acceptable in relationships Cycle of Abuse TENSION BUILDING EXPLOSION HONEYMOON Cycle of Abuse Tension Building · Victim feels things could blow up at any moment. Abuser starts fights for no reason· Explosion Outburst intense emotional, verbal, sexual, physical abuse. · Hit slam against wall· Scream yell · Humiliate Honeymoon Abuser apologizes, tries to shift the blame · Says “I love you.” · Promises that it will never happen again. · Buys flowers/gifts. Cycle of Abuse Timing: Tension Building • Length of each phase differs • Explosions can become more violent and dangerous Honeymoon Explosion What prevents some people from getting help? Young people face unique obstacles • Difficulty recognizing abuse • Hoping the abuser will change No one likes to be abused… abuse is unwanted behavior or contact. Safety Planning-What to have before leaving? A PLAN 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Safe time to go Safe place to go Taking a leave from work/school Protective order, save evidence (texts, photos of bruises, e-mails) Self-defense classes Avoid contact, change phone number, change e-mail, change or delete Facebook profile More info www.BreakTheCycle.org www.LoveIsRespect.org (866) 331-9474 Sexism Prejudice or discrimination based on gender Google “Women need to…” https://www.google.com/ Google “Women need to…” Gender in the workplace today Sexual Harassment: • unwelcome sexual advances • requests for sexual favors • hostile or offensive work environment Obstacles to justice Why might a women experiencing sexual harassment hesitate to ask for help? Why might a man experiencing sexual harassment hesitate to ask for help? Violence Against Women Act 1994 • Funding for services, medical exams • Increase penalties for repeat sex offenders • “Rape shield law,” prevent victims’ past sexual conduct from being in court • National Domestic Violence Hotline Sexuality Workplace Marriage Safety Sexuality and Laws Many states do not prohibit employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. ENDA The Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) Proposed bill to make it illegal nationally Marriage recognition Provides same sex couples: -employment based health benefits -right to sue for wrongful death -ability to make medical decisions 14 states in the U.S. that recognize same-sex marriage (Oct 2013) Legal same-sex marriage: 1 Netherlands 2 Belgium 3 Canada 4 Spain 5 Norway 6 Sweden 7 South Africa Harassment in Schools Survey of LGBT students ages 13–20 -64% feeling unsafe, verbally harassed -38% physical harassment 2010 Hate Crimes Murder of : Matthew Shepard college student, Wyoming 1998 Hate crimes = Harsher punishments for crimes motivated by bias (race, religion) 2009: federal protection for gay individuals under hate-crime laws About Research Paper Due April 16th (MW) April 10th (TTH) 15 points 2 ½ - 3 pages typed Use scoring RUBRIC, this is how I grade the paper Use the OUTLINES on the website http://soc2014.weebly.com/ Before next class: • Turn in gender image before leaving • Read article on website Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior • Look at Research Paper topics on website From the paper rubric Inclusion of Personal Analysis & Sociological Concepts The author has taken the ideas and made them "his/her own" by connecting them to personal experiences and/or knowledge of world events. All examples are specific and detailed. Examples come from personal experience, news, or history. Examples are not general/hypothetical or the same as those presented in class or in the text. Weak body paragraph Strong body paragraph. Example with specific details. Robert Park refers to the minority feeling bonded to the culture they came from. My parents both apply to this because they still follow their cultural ways. Robert Park describes the assimilation experience for three generations of immigrants. Park states that first generation immigrants often hold on to many aspects of their culture (class notes). This is true for my parents in many ways. For example, it is a tradition in Japan for people to take off their shoes before entering the home. Even though we have lived in the United States since I was four years old, my parents have always taught my sisters and I to take our shoes off as soon as we come home. We have a little bench right in our entry way just for this purpose. Anyone who visits our home must also take off their shoes. We do the same when visiting other Japanese families as well. Papers that earned 15/15: 1. Followed the scoring rubric provided on the website and discussed in class 2. Answered the question with specific detailed examples (from personal experience, research studies, history, news, world events) 3. Did not have errors in spelling, grammar, or punctuation 4. Demonstrated a strong understanding of the concept 5. Introduction had a strong, clear thesis previewing the 3 examples Solutions Educating young people about warning signs and their rights Break The Cycle is a non-profit organization focused on dating violence Speakers visit high schools and colleges to provide education What prevents some people from getting help? Young people face unique obstacles 1. Difficulty recognizing abuse 2. Lack of resources. Money, transportation, or safe places to go. 3. Fear of abuser/family/ friends 4. Fear of sending abuser to jail 5. State laws- applying for restraining without parent or guardian. 6. Children with abuser No one likes to be abused… 7. Embarrassment abuse is unwanted behavior 8. Low self esteem or contact. 9. Hoping the abuser will change 10. Cultural religious reasons Safety Planning-What to have before leaving? A PLAN 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. Contact person, code word Safe place to go Safe time to go Financial planning Important paperwork Taking a leave from work/school Protective order, save evidence (texts, photos of bruises, e-mails) Self-defense classes Avoid contact, change phone number, change e-mail, change or delete Facebook profile 10. Share tips for support on LoveIsRespect.org with family/friends Violence Against Women Act 1994 • Judy Greene • Created a job placement firm for victims of domestic violence • Second Chance Employment Services