Jumping Hurdles Learning How Not To Stumble Tool Kit CLASS COMMITMENTS PROMPT: I will arrive early and attend all classes. PREPARED: I will bring my Game Plan to every class and will have all my journaling completed. PARTICIPATE: I will share, report and be engaged in all activities. RESPECT: I will respect myself and others at all times during class. Tool Kit REVIEW FROM LAST CLASS Let’s see who will review & teach us the metaphor from last class … Tool Kit SHARE & REPORT GAME PLAN JOURNAL WEAK THINK / STRONG THINK MOTIVATION QUESTION ACTION STEP Let’s each take a turn standing up to share & report for 1 - 2 minutes on ONE of these areas from last class. Tool Kit WHERE WE’RE HEADED… I WILL jump over my hurdles and win the race with positive solutions! Tool Kit Seeing Over the Wall Reality Ride Get Plugged In Climbing Out of the Pot Defense Mechanisms DesireTime-Effort “Creating greater opportunity, freedom, and personal strength through resiliency education.” Jumping Over Hurdles Tearing Off Labels Lift the Weight Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles Learning How Not To Stumble Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles Learning How Not To Stumble 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? Tool Kit THE MAGICIAN The Magician balloon is when I believe and act like problems and challenges have suddenly disappeared and no longer are an issue in my life. Alakazam…poof! Gone! HARD WORK A strong person with Character & Heart knows that problems do not ever just magically go away and disappear by themselves! It takes HARD WORK and a lot of thinking and searching to understand why things happen and how to avoid the same problem in the future. Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 3 Why should I try to jump my hurdles? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 3 Why should I try to jump my hurdles? 4 What can I jump over? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 3 Why should I try to jump my hurdles? 4 What can I jump over? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain 4. TAKE Action “No Pain – No Gain” 3 Why should I try to jump my hurdles? 5. BELIEVE In Change 2. CREATE Options 4 What can I jump over? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain 4. TAKE Action “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 5. BELIEVE In Change 2. CREATE Options 4 What can I jump over? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain 4. TAKE Action “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 5. BELIEVE In Change 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit ASSUMING The Assuming balloon is when I - jump to a conclusion; or - take something for granted; or - blindly accept something to be true without taking time to check it out first. Assuming is very easy and one of the most often lifted balloons by people who are weak since it requires no effort or action on their part whatsoever. DO YOUR OWN HOMEWORK A strong person with Character & Heart will respond to a situation only after they know they have accurate and complete information and have checked it our first! They are able to maintain an open mind and be receptive to information that may be contrary to what they first may have believed. If you don’t know first hand – then do your own homework! Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain 4. TAKE Action “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 5. BELIEVE In Change 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up • What will I and others LOSE if I don’t learn how to jump over this hurdle? • What will I and others GAIN if I truly learn how to jump over this hurdle? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up • What will I and others LOSE if I don’t learn how to jump over this hurdle? • What will I and others GAIN if I truly learn how to jump over this hurdle? 1 My Problem: • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? 5 Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up • What will I and others LOSE if I don’t learn how to jump over this hurdle? • What will I and others GAIN if I truly learn how to jump over this hurdle? 1 My Problem: 5 • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? What will my self talk be as I continue to run the race? Tool Kit REVIEW Let’s see who will review for us the basic concepts of Jumping Hurdles Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles Learning How Not To Stumble 1. IDENTIFY 4. TAKE 2. CREATE 5. BELIEVE 3. GET 6. JUMP Tool Kit LOOKING AHEAD: WEAK / STRONG THINK The Magician / Assuming Hard Work / Do The Homework MOTIVATION QUESTION ACTION STEP What will motivate me to jump back up when I trip? I will apply these 6 steps on ______________ (problem/hurdle) within the next 6 days and be ready to report back. Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles Learning How Not To Stumble Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles Base Image • Cover w/ Music ACTIVITIES • Class Commitments • Flip The Coin 1 • My Problem • Review Last Class • Think Outside The Box 2 • Already Jumped over? • Share & Report • Pyramid of Cups 3 • WhyTry To Jump? • Where We’re Headed • 15 Pencils (PPT) 4 • What Can I Jump? • Staircase • 15 Snickers PPT 5 • Strengths • This Class Review • Problem With Nine 6 • 6 Steps: • Looking Ahead • Single Slide Animated WEAK/STRONG THINK • Magician / Hard Work • Assuming / Homework MUSIC • Get Back Up • Jump Back Up 1) Identify VIDEOS • Edwin Moses • How Not To Jump • Nick Vujcic • Derek Redmond • Never Give Up Zebra • Expert On Failure 2) Create 3) Get 4) Take 5) Believe 6) Jump • I Only Lose If… • Self-talk Tool Kit Transforming Challenges into Personal Strength 2 1 Choice Energy 3 Who Are My Lifelines? • Who values me because of who I am, not just my successes or failures? • Who is helping me become an expert on myself? “The Flood Zone” • Who helps me see positive attributes in myself and others? 4 Positive Self Talk • Less opportunity & freedom • Personal strength & energy is dying • What will my self talk be that will not hurt myself or others? • Path of least resistance • What do I have & don’t have personal control over? • Hurting self or others 5 Character & Heart 6 • Who respects and cares for me that I do not want to disappoint by giving up? • Where have I gotten lost? • Why did I continue? 7 • How will I really feel about myself if I never get any farther than this? Personal Passion & Purpose Turned Outward 8 Get Plugged In What might my life look like when I get here? • Once I am here, who else can I help get here? WhyTry? Opportunity, Freedom, Personal Strength Tool Kit Lift the Weight What Makes Me Strong? 2 1 Why do I need resistance to become stronger? Laws, Rules, Expectations: • Home? • Peers? • Work/School? • Legal? 6 Why is this my most important “muscle” and source of personal strength? Choice 3 Where have I lifted the balloon in my life? Challenge “Hard” Resistance Character “Easy” No Resistance 4 What are three things that I spend most of my time thinking about and doing? . . . Do any of these things create greater opportunity, freedom, and personal strength? If ”yes,” keep lifting. If ”no,” create a new workout. • • • • • Excuses Blame Avoidance Quitting Apathy What has this produced in my life? 5 What is at least one new daily workout I can start in order to create more character, heart, and personal strength? Tool Kit Tearing Off Labels Showing Others Who I Can Be 4 3 Four steps to tearing off my labels: Permission to brag: 1. STOP living up to my negative labels and prove them wrong! • What do I like about myself? • Why is it EASY to prove my negative labels true? • What have I done in the past to prove my negative labels true? • What do others like about me? • Why is it HARD to express and stay focused on “The Real Me.” • My accomplishments? • My strengths, goals and dreams? 2. REMEMBER the pay offs. • What have my negative labels paid me in the past? • What will “The Real Me” pay me in the future? 1 What is a label? 3. DECIDE that my negative labels are from the past! Today I choose to keep them on or start tearing them off! • What would be different if I woke up tomorrow and my negative labels were suddenly gone? 4. FLEX “The Real Me” and make it stand out so much that the negative label must be torn off. • What new observable behaviors will I do to show I am better than my negative labels? • How can I prove “The Real Me” is true? • If I were to give myself a label, what would it be? (Must be positive.) 2 Why is it easy to give up when I have these labels? Do I ever use these as an excuse? Every night ask: What did I do today to tear off my negative labels? How can I do more of this tomorrow? Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up • What will I and others LOSE if I don’t learn how to jump over this hurdle? • What will I and others GAIN if I truly learn how to jump over this hurdle? 1 My Problem: 5 • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? What will my self talk be as I continue to run the race? Tool Kit There Are No Shortcuts To true success Tool Kit Defense Mechanisms Creating A Strong Positive Defense With My Thoughts, Feelings, and Choices 2 Situation How do I respond (act) when I’m… • Disrespected • Threatened • Pushed/Hit • Confronted • Pressured • Frustrated • Yelled at • Wrong • Put Down • Lied to • Blamed • Cheated 6 1 • • • • 4 What is a defense mechanism? Caught in the act Told what to do Angry Confused Four Steps To Create A Strong Positive Defense Choice • Who controls the choice I make? • How do I protect my feelings? 3 1. NOTICE the warning signs of the attack. • Nervous • Adrenaline • Anger • Fear • Pulse racing • Frustration 2. IDENTIFY my thoughts & feelings. • Once identified: A) Check it… B) Reframe it… C) Calm it. - What are two areas in my life where I know I will be attacked? - How can I practice identifying my thoughts & feelings before the attack hits full on? 3. CONTROL my response: “I will not let anyone else control how I respond!” • How do I know when someone else is trying to control how I respond to a situation? 4. CHOOSE a positive defense mechanism. • What will I probably gain when I choose a Strong ”Hard” defense mechanism? “Easy” 5 Defense “Hard” How does this produce more personal strength? How do I know when I have chosen a Strong positive defense mechanism? “When I am helping, not hurting, myself and others” Tool Kit Climbing Out of the Pot Identifying Strong Family Members and Friends 2 3 4 8 What “Pot” am I in? What have I told myself and others about the “Pot” that has kept us in it? 9 What are my reasons for putting forth the time and effort needed for me to be able to climb out? What “tools” are available to me to help me climb out? Who wants to see me STAY IN the “Pot” • What are their reasons for wanting me to stay in? 5 Who wants to see me GET OUT of the “Pot” • What are their reasons for wanting me to get out? 6 7 10 1 What have been my reasons for staying in the “Pot”? • How have these choices made me feel? What will my future be like if I don’t get out? Why is it difficult for the crabs to climb out of the pot? When I get out, what will I need to stay focused on and do in order to STAY out? Who do I know who stayed in the “Pot” too long and never made it out? If they were here right now, what would they probably say to me about their “Pot”? WARNING: If I try to get out, I will be attacked! Why does this happen? Tool Kit Get Plugged In Positive Connections That Make Me Stronger 1 Parent / Family / Significant Other / Spouse How much time am I communicating with my parent(s), family, significant other or spouse? (I need to spend at least 30 minutes a day communicating with them – talk face-to-face, phone, letter, etc.) What is one conflict, argument, or power struggle that I can give up today that won’t hurt me and will help lower my parent(s), family, significant other or spouse’s anxiety about me? 2 Positive Friend I know I have a real friend when I am with them and they do things that help, not hurt, themselves and me. What do I need to work on to become more of a positive friend to others? 3 Counselor / Teacher / Officer / Other Professional Who knows and believes in ”The Real Me” because I have been honest with them and have shared what I really want to become and accomplish? These 5 connections will help turn on the What am I willing to do in order to get to know them better and allow them to get to know me better? 4 “light” to see my future more clearly Positive Mentor / Sponsor Who do I know, or could get to know, who has overcome some of the same challenges that I have and accomplished goals and dreams similar to mine? Who am I willing to take a risk with and ask them if they are willing to help me? What are three qualities about them that I would like to develop more in myself? 5 My Passion and Purpose Turned Outward Who do I really want to share my passion and purpose with? What do I need to do to learn more and become even stronger in my passion and purpose? Tool Kit 1 2 Goal: My Choices Today Determine My Tomorrow 5 4 11 Decisions that get me into trouble . . . My challenges . . . • Home: • At work/school: - Home - Work/School - Peers - Legal • Work/School: • Legal: What choices will give me . . . • With my peers: 3 • Peers: “Reality” What will my future be like when I ride here? • At home: • Legally: 9 Who will be my passengers on this track? 10 7 What problems do I keep having over and over? H W How will I prepare for this crossroad? My support system (“Get Plugged In”) 8 - 6 Frustrated Confused Angry Scared I keep getting the same results “Reality”= Consequences of my decisions - that harm myself and others . . . - “Hit the wall” Will I ever obtain LASTING opportunity, freedom, and personal strength on this track with these consequences? Tool Kit Seeing Over The Wall Living With A New View and More Strength Opportunity Freedom Personal Strength Big View Why does this view make me stronger? I WILL transform my challenges into personal strength! If I can’t see over the wall, I WILL ask myself, 3 “What step am I tripping on?” How has climbing the WhyTry steps created more options for me? I WILL then study and reapply this step in my life. Only from here will I achieve my goals and dreams. Reality Ride REMEMBER: I know I am on top of the wall when I am helping, not hurting, myself and others! Plugging In Limited View Fighting What is my current view giving me? Climbing Out Defense Mech Maze Hurdles Labels 2 1 Why Try? If I am standing here, why is opportunity, freedom, and personal strength hard to see? Lift Weight I believe my motivation to change will go up with each step that I climb! Why is this so? Tool Kit Jumping Hurdles 2 What have I already jumped over? Learning How Not To Stumble 6 1. IDENTIFY The Pain “No Pain – No Gain” 3 • Why am I tired of falling and tripping over my hurdles? Why should I try to jump my hurdles? • What pain has my falling and tripping caused myself and others? 2. CREATE Options 4 • What have I not tried in the past that might work now? What can I jump over? • What have I tried before that I can put more effort into now? 3. GET Help • Who can I plug into when I need help? 4. TAKE Action • What specific observable behaviors do I need to STOP and START to jump my hurdle? 5. BELIEVE In Change • On a scale from one to ten, how much do I believe I will change? “I don’t know” “ I believe I won’t change” 1 2 3 4 5 “I believe I will change” 6 7 8 9 10 • What would it take for this number to go up? 6. JUMP Back Up • What will I and others LOSE if I don’t learn how to jump over this hurdle? • What will I and others GAIN if I truly learn how to jump over this hurdle? 1 My Problem: 5 • What signs or clues are there that this is a real problem of mine? What will my self talk be as I continue to run the race? Tool Kit (Edwin Moses 1984 Olympic Games – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit (Derek Redmond 1992 Barcelona Olympics – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit Derek Redmond The Rest of The Story … Since 1992, Derek has arguably become the most famous Olympian to ever finish last in an Olympic race. He has used his experiences as an Olympic athlete to build an established career as a motivational speaker, passing on messages of perseverance, teamwork and self-belief to business professionals as well as school children. His Olympic story has been used by coaches, referenced in books and Jim said it has even been the focal point of religious sermons Tool Kit (Chinese Hurdler Running Through Hurdles – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit (Michael Jordon Nike Commercial On Failure – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit (Never Give Up Zebra Under Attack – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit (Nick Vujicic – YouTube) With a paid WhyTry online curriculum license you have full access to a list of recommended YouTube videos for all of the WhyTry metaphors and classes. 1. Access recommended video resources list by logging into your account at: http://corrections.whytry.org/index.php/log-in then go to “Toolkit” and “Video Resources” 2. Download onto your computer the recommended video for this slide from YouTube, or a video of your own liking. 3. Delete this text box and insert the video from your computer onto this slide. Tool Kit Insert “GetBackUp” video. This video has been provided in your downloaded folder. Tool Kit Get Back Up What do you think the author is trying to communicate in these lyrics: “Most bars I find are in a state of mind, not just the kind behind upstate time.” Tool Kit Get Back Up The main message of this song’s chorus is saying … what? “You’re not disqualified so don’t back down. You can run the race so get up right now. It doesn’t even matter who is laughin’ in the crowd. Get back up and you can still get your crown.” Tool Kit Insert “JH_Original” video. This video has been provided in your downloaded folder. Tool Kit Jump Back Up Do you agree or disagree with the author’s point of view when he says, “So many problems in life I’ve got to overcome. Can’t do it all by myself you know I’m not that dumb.” Tool Kit Jump Back Up Do you agree or disagree with the author’s point of view when he says, “Nothing’s wrong with being flat on my face, because I know I can change and I can finish the race.” Tool Kit Think Outside The Box Step By Step Instructions Click Here Tool Kit Think Outside The Box • What was difficult about this activity? Did it seem impossible? • Did the simple solution surprise you? • Why is thinking outside the box important when trying to solve problems (jump hurdles)? • How can simply changing perspective from negative to positive make it easier to solve a problem? Tool Kit 15 Pencils Step By Step Instructions Click Here Tool Kit 15 Pencils • Were you able to figure out the winning formula? If so, how? • How did you feel when class members continued to lose to the facilitator? • Did you reach a point where you felt like quitting because you were unable to win? • How does the pattern in this game apply to the formula for Jumping Hurdles? Tool Kit 15 Pencils Tool Kit Snickers Grab 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 Tool Kit Pyramid of Cups Step By Step Instructions Click Here Tool Kit Pyramid of Cups • What strategies did your team use to pick up the cups? What did you try that didn’t work? • Did you feel at anytime like quitting and giving up? How did you deal with it? • How did teamwork and working together come into play? • If all the rules were the same, do you think you could have done this activity alone? Tool Kit Flip The Coin Step By Step Instructions Click Here Tool Kit Flip The Coin • What role did luck play in this activity? • Would you want to depend on a coin toss (pure luck) to make really important decisions in your life? Why or why not? • What role, if any, do you think luck has in helping us succeed in overcoming obstacles in our life? • How do you think we can we improve the odds of successfully solving and overcoming problems that get in our way? Tool Kit Problem With Nine Step By Step Instructions Click Here Tool Kit Problem With Nine • What was difficult about this problem? Did it seem impossible? • Did the answer surprise you? • Why is being creative and thinking outside the box important when trying to solve problems (jump hurdles)? • How can changing my perspective from a negative one to a positive one make it easier to solve a problem? Tool Kit