How To Survive As A CSD Graduate Student Seán Slattery Current Survival Rates Graduate Students 40 35 30 Got Ph.D. Gone Absentia On Leave Still Here 25 20 15 10 5 0 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994 1995 1996 1997 1998 1999 2000 Entering Year Your Immediate Concerns • Finding an advisor • Doing some research • Classes & other requirements – Writing/speaking/hacking – TA’ing • Staying sane Finding An Advisor: Step 1 • Find faculty you might be interested in – – – – IC Talks Web pages Faculty Research Guide Suggestions from students & other faculty Finding An Advisor: Step 2 Find out more about them – – – – – Ask them for a meeting Talk to their students Talk to their ex-students Read some of their papers Maybe attend a project meeting Finding An Advisor: Step 3 Come to an agreement – Tell them you’d like to put them down as your 1st (2nd, 3rd) choice – Verify that they’ll ask for you too – Fill out your marriage form accordingly Finding An Advisor: Questions Questions to ask: Availability – does s/he have room for you? Commitment – will s/he stand by you? Personalities – will you get along? Research style – can you do it that way? Research topics – are you interested? Resources – do you want travel and toys? Finding An Advisor: Pitfalls • Not getting the one you wanted • Not getting along with the one you got • Losing the one you got (they leave CMU) Reassurance: you can change advisors, but – Don’t do it too many times (more than twice) – Don’t burn your bridges Finding An Advisor: Variations Multiple advisors – – – – More benefits, more pitfalls Often one has the money, one has the time Maybe you want a non-CSD advisor Sometimes a tactful way to transition On Having an Advisor • Like having a temporary parent – Invested in you, responsible for you – Sometimes that makes them act weird • Communicate lots – Tell them what you’re doing – Tell them how you’re doing – Tell them what you think you need More on Having an Advisor Advisors are human and flawed – – – – Often under lots of pressure Don’t always have great social skills Often forget to give any positive feedback Can unintentionally seem rude or disapproving Coping advice – When you can, don’t take it personally – When you can’t, ask for reassurance Research: The Early Years What you’ll (hopefully) get out of it – Learn your own research style, and whether it meshes well enough with your advisor’s – A publication or two – Your hacking/writing/speaking requirements Doesn’t need to lead straight to thesis work. Research: How’s Your Ego? Undergraduate work – Get given a task, complete it well, get praise Graduate work – Find a problem you want to solve – Get grudging support for working on it – Have to justify why your work is worthwhile Do it because you want to Classes, Skills • Classes – May seem very hard or very easy – It’s not unusual to fail one, nor is it a big deal – Always take more time than they should • Speaking/writing/hacking requirements – Still being debugged More Stuff • TA’ing – Always takes way more time that it should • In general – Take your advisor’s advice on scheduling Black Friday - How it works • The faculty meet and discuss each student • Key question: Are you progressing and do the faculty believe you will finish eventually? • Your advisor writes a letter giving you feedback and setting goals for next semester • Jeanette signs the letter Black Friday – What to do • Make sure your advisor will be there, or has arranged for someone else to be • Talk to your advisor about what they’ll say • Give your advisor information to work with • Then, stop worrying – Go back to your work – Go to the Black Friday TG Staying Sane • Don’t get isolated – spend time with people – talk to people about your work • Remember – there’s life after CMU – there’s life outside CMU – you do this because you want to • Work on something you love Staying Sane: Maladies Imposter syndrome – You think you’ve been successfully faking being good enough to be here, but one day you’ll fail and everyone will scorn you – Is very, very common Best cure – Talk to other students, admit feeling that way Staying Sane: Maladies • Spiraling perfectionism – Your work is too trivial for anyone to care about and you freeze up • Best cure – Read papers, go to talks, go to conferences, recalibrate Staying Sane: Maladies • Trouble and panic – Failed exam or course – Research stalls or doesn’t pan out – Fight with advisor • Best Cure – Remember it happens to everyone sometime – Remember help is available Resources • • • • • • Sharon (busy, but wise) The Ombudsperson (Shawn Butler) Your advisor Other students The CMU counseling center The Zephyr anonymoose (see the FZQ)