2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer WELCOME Old Fashioned Leadership, a Primer William F. Hinners, Jr., CPPM, CF North Texas Chapter (MSgt, USMC Retired) Lyle V. Hestermann, CPPM, CF, Hoosiers Chapter (LtCol, USAF Retired) July 2011 1 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Agenda Introduction Leadership Defined Listening Philosophy Principles Traits Self Evaluation 2 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer “Leadership is intangible, and therefore no weapon ever designed can replace it.” ––GEN Omar Bradley 3 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer “Leadership is influencing people—by providing purpose, direction, and motivation—while operating to accomplish the mission and improving the organization.” US Army FM 22-100 4 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Definition: The sum of those qualities of intellect, human understanding, and moral character that allow a person to inspire and control a group of people successfully. Purpose: The purpose of the Marine Corps leadership is the creation and maintenance of an organization which will loyally and willingly accomplish any reasonable task assigned or indicated, and will initiate suitable action in the absence of others. http://www.6mcd.usmc.mil/ftl_site/Handbook/marine_corps_leadership.htm 5 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Questions? 6 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – What’s the Big Deal? The Neglected Skill Listening is the most used of all communication skills Listening is the least developed of all communication skills Listening training improves listening ability 7 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Why Is Listening Important? My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she said. — Anonymous Congress is so strange. A man gets up to speak and says nothing, nobody listens and then everybody disagrees. — Will Rogers 8 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Why Is Listening Important? Marge, it takes two to lie. One to lie and one to listen. — Homer Simpson 9 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Not Listening = Costly Mistakes Lyman Steil, a corporate consultant said in 1980, “With more than 100 million workers in this country, a simple $10 mistake by each, as the result of poor listening, would add up to a cost of $1 billion, and most people make numerous listening mistakes each week” Dispatcher of a large trucking firm sends 8 trucks to Portland, Oregon instead of Portland, Maine “$100,000 loss” 10 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Hearing vs. Listening Hearing = physical act of receiving sound = passive process = no effort Listening = selective process = an active process = work (and lots of it ) 11 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening - Defined A selective process of receiving, attending to, understanding, evaluating and responding to aural sounds 12 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening Rankin (1926) - adults spend 70% of day communicating Writing = 9% Reading = 16% Speaking = 30% Listening = 45% 13 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening - Comparison Listening 14 Speaking Reading Writing Learned 1st 2nd 3rd 4th Used 45% 30% 16% 9% Taught Least 3rd 2nd Most 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – 4 Levels Non-listener Marginal listener Evaluative listener Active Listener 15 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – Why So Tough? Uninteresting topics Speaker’s delivery Over stimulation by the message Listening for facts Outlining everything 16 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – Why So Tough? Faking attention Distractions Avoiding the difficult Emotional words Wasting the speed differential 17 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – 5 Step Process Receiving - starts with a sound Attending to - paying attention to the sound Understanding - assigning meaning to what you hear Evaluating - agreeing or disagreeing Responding - action (verbal or non-verbal) 18 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Listening – Helpful Hints Maintain eye contact with the speaker. Focus on content, not delivery. Avoid emotional involvement. Avoid distractions. Treat listening as a challenging mental task. Stay active by asking mental questions. Use the gap between the rate of speech and your rate of thought. 19 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Better Listening Be conscious of your listening behavior Motivate yourself to listen Prepare yourself to listen Control your reactions Work at listening Listen for ideas Concentrate on the message 20 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Questions? 21 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Personal Leadership Philosophy Which Comes First, Mission or People? Situational Leadership 11 Principles of Leadership Traits of a Leader Catch People Doing Things Right! Follow me! 22 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer “Which comes first, mission or people?” USMC LEADERSHIP: PRIMARY AND SECONDARY OBJECTIVE Mission Accomplishment: The primary objective of the Marine Corps leadership is to accomplish the mission -- (get the job done). Troop Welfare: The secondary goal of leadership is to provide for the welfare of Marines. 23 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer “Which is first, mission or people?” Most simply put: The mission is FIRST. The people are ALWAYS. 24 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Situational Leadership Leadership Types Autocrat Democrat Laissez Faire 25 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Leadership Types FM 22-100 Directing Participating Delegating Transformational Transactional 26 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Leadership Types FMFM 1-2 Telling Selling Participating Delegating 27 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Situational Leadership “The General must know how to get his men their rations and every other kind of stores needed for war. He must have imagination to originate plans, practical sense and energy to carry them through. He must be observant, untiring, shrewd, kindly and cruel, simple and crafty, a watchman and a robber, lavish and miserly, generous and stingy, rash and conservative. All these and many other qualities, natural and acquired, he must have. He should also, as a matter of course, know his tactics, for a disorderly mob is no more an Army than a heap of building materials is a house.” ––Socrates (469–399) 28 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer One Minute Manager Catch People Doing 29 Things RIGHT! Honey vs. Vinegar Praise vs. Haze Smart vs. Stupid Influence vs. Intimidate 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Follow Me! Robert’s Rangers? Roy Boehm Most Succinct Leadership Philosophy 30 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Questions? Questions 31 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer On Leadership Leadership Principles 32 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Principles of Leadership Be technically and tactically proficient. Know yourself and seek self-improvement. Know your Marines and look out for their welfare. Keep your Marines informed. Set the example. Ensure assigned tasks are understood, supervised, and accomplished. Train your Marines as a team. Make sound and timely decisions. Develop a sense of responsibility among your subordinates. Employ your command in accordance with its capabilities. Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions. FMFM 1-2 33 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Know Yourself and Seek Self Improvement 34 “You can assign a man to a leadership position, but no one will ever really be a leader until his appointment is ratified in the hearts and minds of his soldiers. The first thing to do in operating as a leader is be honest with them. The problem is there is much rhetoric in this business. There is not enough honesty with ourselves about just who we are and whether we are really perceived as a leader by our subordinates. An honest–to–God, soul searching, self–evaluation is in order—and very difficult to do. I think this is the first vital step as one goes about the business of becoming a better leader. Your soldiers will gauge how well you are doing. You can fool bosses, and at times even peers, but you can’t fool your subordinates. Look into their eyes—you’ll really learn something.” (Emphasis added.) ––GEN William Livsey 1985 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Seek Responsibility and Take Responsibility for Your Actions During training exercises, the lieutenant who was driving down a muddy back road encountered another jeep stuck in the mud with a red-faced Colonel at the wheel. "Your jeep stuck sir?" asked the lieutenant as he pulled alongside. "Nope," replied the Colonel, coming over and handing him the keys, "Yours is." 35 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Be Technically and Tactically Proficient “The General must know how to get his men their rations and every other kind of stores needed for war. He must have imagination to originate plans, practical sense and energy to carry them through. … He should also, as a matter of course, know his tactics, for a disorderly mob is no more an Army than a heap of building materials is a house.” ––Socrates (469–399) 36 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Make Sound and Timely Decisions Colin Powell: Experts often possess more data than judgment. P = 40% to 70% 37 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Set the Example Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you. – Robert Fulghum 38 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Know Your Soldiers and Look Out for Their Well-being “A reflective reading of history will show that no man ever rose to military greatness who could not convince his troops that he put them first, above all else.” ––GEN Maxwell Taylor 39 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Keep Your Subordinates Informed “Tell me how you’re going to measure me and I’ll tell you how I’m going to perform.” –– Eli Goldratt 40 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Develop a Sense of Responsibility in Your Subordinates “"There are lessons to be learned from mistakes. Good leaders create an environment where subordinates are allowed to make mistakes, yet are not put into situations for which they are unprepared or for which the scope of the mistake could be dangerous." - General Charles Krulak 41 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Ensure the Task is Understood, Supervised and Accomplished “Communications, or the ability to inform people what you expect of them in understandable terms and the ability to transmit to them your interest in them, is the key to successful leadership.” ––GEN Harold K. Johnson 42 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Build the Team “Don’t begrudge the time you spend developing, coaching and helping your people to grow so they can carry on when you’re gone. It’s one of the best signs of good leadership.” ––Bernard Baruch 43 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Employ Your Unit in Accordance With its Capabilities “What you cannot enforce, do not command.” ––Sophocles 44 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Questions? Questions 45 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer On Leadership Leadership Traits 46 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Traits of a Leader Integrity Justice Knowledge Enthusiasm Courage Bearing Decisiveness Endurance Dependability Unselfishness Initiative Loyalty Tact Judgment Marine Corps Values and Leadership User’s Guide for Discussion Leaders 47 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Integrity "The message to junior and mid-level officers was that you could be honest about shortcomings, or you could get ahead, but you couldn't do both. The result was an organization with plummeting morale that fell into the habit of lying to itself." - James Kitfield 48 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Integrity "The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it." - General H. Norman Schwarzkopf, US Army, Persian Gulf War 49 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Integrity “Everything you have in this world can be taken from you - your health, your wealth, your family, everything you value EXCEPT your integrity.” No one can take that away you can only give it away” Col David F. Treuting 50 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Integrity 13 - 2nd Lieutenants kicked out of The Basic School Including 2 former Naval Academy football players (May 2010) Why? Cheating on the final land navigation exercise 51 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Integrity Gen James Conway, Commandant of the Marine Corps “We can tolerate many things BUT not integrity violations” “Personal integrity is the heart of Marine Corps leadership” 52 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Knowledge Money Talks and Bullshit Walks - Anonymous 53 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Courage "What all successful leaders have in common is a strength of will that enables them to face the most challenging tasks and extract the most from their subordinates." - Fleet Marine Force Manual, USMC 54 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Decisiveness "We must encounter risks if we fight, and we cannot carry on war without fighting. . . . [General George] McClellan's vice . . . was always to have everything just as he wanted before he would attack, and before he could get things arranged as he wanted them, the enemy pounded on him and thwarted all his plans." — General George Meade, Union Army, Civil War 55 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Dependability “Rank is given you to enable you to better serve those above and below you. It is not given for you to practice your idiosyncrasies.” ––GEN Bruce Clarke 56 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Initiative "I would offer . . . that a military force that will not tolerate a certain amount of audacity in its day-to-day routines is likely to find audacity lacking when it counts. As we continually tell ourselves, we fight the way we train. Most certainly, we fight the way we think. The alternative is to accept the form of institutional behavior said to have been inculcated in members of the British Foreign Service in the years leading up to World War I: 'Actions have consequences; consequences are unpredictable; therefore, take no action.'" — Captain Michael Dunaway, USN 57 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Tact “Leadership in a democratic army means firmness, not harshness; understanding, not weakness; generosity, not selfishness; pride, not egotism.” ––GEN Omar Bradley 1953 58 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Justice "He [a naval officer] should not be blind to a single fault of any subordinate, though, at the same time, he should not be quick and unfailing to distinguish error from malice, thoughtlessness from incompetency, and wellmeant shortcoming from heedless or stupid blunder." John Paul Jones, USN 59 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Enthusiasm “Optimism is axiomatic with leadership. And in those grave days and hours (late 1942), four words from MacArthur meant as much to me as a new squadron of airplanes. Those words were: ‘George, we’ll do it.’ That attitude breeds victory and success.” ––GEN George Kenney (MacArthur’s Air Chief) 60 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Bearing Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you. – Robert Fulghum 61 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Enduring And what does this bring to mind? 62 Photo by Jim Bowen Used by permission of Commons.wikimedia.org 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Unselfishness “Leadership in a democratic army means firmness, not harshness; understanding, not weakness; generosity, not selfishness; pride, not egotism.” ––GEN Omar Bradley 1953 63 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Loyalty A priority of loyalties: – – – – – 64 Military Mission Command Comrade Self 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Judgment Make the best decision possible based on available information. 65 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Management vs. Leadership “Leaders are people who do the right thing. Managers are people who do things right.” -- Warren G. Bennis 66 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Management vs. Leadership 67 Managers Leaders Problem Solvers Analyzers of purposes and causes Statistics Driven Values Driven Seek conflict avoidance Not only accept but invite conflict Thrive on predictability Ambiguous Assure that the organization’s objectives are achieved, even if they disagree with them Assure that their objectives and those of the organization become one in the same REFERENCE: AF OTS LEADERSHIP PRINICPLES AND TRAITS 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Questions? 68 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Self Evaluation Adapted from “Leadership Secrets of the Rogue Warrior” by Richard Marcinko 69 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Know Yourself What Drives Me? Was I Always This Way? What Will Satisfy Me? Do I Recognize Defeat? How Can I Turn Today’s Negatives Into Positives? What Is My Ultimate Goal? 70 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer What drives me? Be willing to find your limits and extend them. Was I always this way? You will change for the better if you use every experience and choose to learn from it. 71 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer What will satisfy me? Nothing should until you are merging your full potential with your actions! 72 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Do I recognize defeat? - Plan not to - Defeat is a temporary condition. Set your course, and blow the obstacles out of the water. "Anyone who was prepared for defeat would be half defeated before he set out." David Farragut (approximate wording) 73 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer How can I turn today's negatives into positives? You can salvage many lessons from negative circumstances. Figure out a way to make them motivate you even more! 74 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer What is my ultimate goal? Know what you want and how you will get it. If your goal is to survive and succeed in your career and personal life - you've got to be tougher, more motivated and more focused than anybody who stands between you and your goal. 75 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Self Evaluation Attack your self imposed internal limitations, attack your laziness, weakness, and complacency and that of your subordinates. Attack the jobs that you hate with even more zest than the ones that you love. 76 2011 NATIONAL EDUCATION SEMINAR Leadership, a Primer Thank You! You got questions? We got answers (maybe) 77