Adams 1 Kristine Adams Ms.Frydenborg English CP E May 21, 2010 Gender Balance in Things Fall Apart Chinua Achebe created a successful novel Things Fall Apart showing the way colonization can truly destroy a complex community. Other then reading about the Ibo tribe crumbling to pieces by the British coming, you also read how women were really treated in the Ibo tribe during Mid-1800’s. According to Achebe, the Ibo tribe appeared to be male dominated but throughout his novel he shows examples of how women are also a huge part of this tribe, which creates gender balance. Men and woman in the Ibo tribe live off one another. “The entire Igbo society is based upon the combining of the male and female principles.”(Rhoads,65) The men and women of the tribe work as team work. Woman harvest the yams, men are warriors. But it does deeper than that. The Ibo society could not only survive with just men dominated because women have such an important role in the community. Okonkwo, the main character in Things Fall Apart, shows up a good example of a successful Ibo man. “The male is strong and warlike.”(Rhoads, 65) Okonkwo fit those standards and more. He refused to be anything like his lazy father Unoka. Okonkwo is not only well known throughout the tribe but he is also one of the 9 male leaders in the Umuofia. Even though the government in the tribe is made up of men, one of the main Adams 2 goddess that the Ibo people worship is a woman. “There is a Week of Peace sacred to the earth goddess”(Rhoads,65) In that quote, Diana Rhoads is talking about that week were all the Ibo members do not do any work and honor the earth goddess who brings the Ibo people good yams harvest. Violence during the Week of Peace is shunned upon in the Ibo tribe, but Okonkwo doesn’t not seem to care since he repeatedly beat his wife during that special week without even caring about what the earth goddess might do. Okonkwo was sent to court because of this violent behavior. Having an important icon in the Ibo culture be a woman and having Okonkwo punished for beating his wife shows that the Uniofia tribe had more respect for woman then other places around the world. The earth goddess helps balance out the males strength in the Ibo society.(Rhoads,66) When Okonkwo was troubled, he went to visit his Uncle Uchendu for some help. During his visit his uncle not only told Okonkwo that he was not that only one who had a hard life but he tells the story of “Mother Supreme” “The female is tender and supportive in times of adversity.”(Rhoad, 65) This quote is perfect way to describe the main point of the “Mother Supreme”. Uchendu tells Okonkwo that a child turns to his or her mother for sympathy and that women are respected for giving the child comfort. Because of the woman’s natural tenderness it makes the relationship between her and her children stronger then the relationship between father and child. An example is the close relationship between Okonkwos wife Ekwefi and their daughter Ezinma. Enzima is everything to Ekwefi, she is her world. Although most men in the Ibo tribe don’t treat their wives as equals, Okonkwo included, one man in the tribe in different. “Men like Ndulue who treat their wives as equals: Ndulue and his wife were always said to be of “one mind”. ”(Rhoads, 66) Adams 3 Achebe included this example in his novel to really show that respect for woman in the Ibo tribe was existents. Also in Things Fall Apart, Achebe writes about bride price in the Ibo community. Bride price is when a man pays his fiancés family money so that he could marry her. In Europe at this, women had to pay the man so that she can marry them. Woman can also get divorced from their husbands. Ekwefi fell in love with Okonkwo but at that time she was married. Ekwefi divorced her husband but in order to do so she has to pay her husband the bride price that he had to pay in order to marry her. It is truly a shock how much more advance the Ibo tribe was in terms of respect for woman compared to the way woman were treated by the people who took over their lands. When the Ibo tribe was being colonized, they were thought as barbarians. Achebe wrote Things Fall Apart to show that the Umofina people were truly miss understood. The English told them that there society was no true society and they were foolish to believe so. The Umofia tribe was a complex society with more gender balance then any of the European countries in the Mid-1800s.