FACS—Standard 2.0 Health & Relationships 1. • Outlook on life • Can be positive or negative Attitude 2. • Indulging in something to excess • (eating or drinking) Binge 3. • Expression of thoughts, feelings & emotions through body movements • (facial expressions, gestures & body motions) Body Language 4. • Group of people who exclude others from their circle Cliques 5. • Give & take method of resolving differences where both people give in a little to reach a solution that is satisfactory to both Compromise 6. • Chemical substance which causes changes in mind & body functions Drug 7. • Ability to understand what someone else is experiencing Empathy 8. • Person’s surroundings & everything in them • (human & non-human factors) Environment 9. • Manners established by society Etiquette 10. • Regular repetition of acquired behavior pattern Habit 11. • Combined state of physical, mental & social well being Health 12. • Sum of all the qualities we inherit from our parents at birth Heredity 13. • Practices that promote good health & prevention of disease • (cleanliness & maintenance of skin, hair & nails) Hygiene 14. • Intense emotional involvement that begins with a sudden strong attraction based on physical appearance Infatuation 15. • Act of resolving a conflict by a third party Mediation 16. • Mental picture you have of yourself as not being equal with others Negative Self-Concept 17. • Expressing ideas to others by use of facial expressions, gestures, eye contact & posture without using spoken words Non-Verbal Communication 18. • Persuasion to conform to people in your age group Peer Pressure 19. • People in a person’s age group Peers 20. • Characteristics that make a person unique Personality 21. • Mental picture you have of yourself as being equal with others Positive Self-Concept 22. • Pursue obsessively & to the point of harassment Stalking 23. • Physical or psychological tension & strain Stress 24. • Misuse of drugs that damages an individual’s health & ability to function Substance Abuse 25. • Ability to share another person’s trouble or suffering Sympathy 26. • Ability to overlook or accept things you do not agree with • (respecting other people’s customs & beliefs) Tolerance 27. • Expressing ideas to others by using spoken words Verbal Communication 2.1-Investigate personal qualities that promote healthy relationships 2.1.1—Investigate the factors that contribute to individuality• Evaluate traits that make a person unique— • • • • • • AttitudeEmpathy Environment Heredity Personality Sympathy Attitude • A person’s basic outlook on life • Can be positive or negative Empathy • The ability to understand what someone else is experiencing Environment • Everything around you, including people, places, things & events • (human & non-human factors) Heredity • The sum of all the qualities a person inherits from his or her parents at birth Personality • The characteristics that make a person unique • (feelings, traits, attitudes, habits) Sympathy • The ability to share another person’s trouble or suffering Assignment • Find a Personality Quiz • Evaluate the results Assignment • Prepare a collage depicting different personality traits • Label your traits • Be creative Environment & Heredity • How do they make a person unique? • (Each person’s situation is different) Empathy & Sympathy • What is the difference? • Empathy—Experienced it yourself 2.1.2—Evaluate how one’s selfconcept affects individual health • Self-Concept--The way you see yourself & the way you believe others see you • Self Esteem—is the value or importance you place on yourself 2.1.3—Differentiate between types of relationships• Family—built-in relationships • Friendship—can be as strong as family ties • Acquaintances—casual—not as close as one worked on • Voluntary—you choose them • Involuntary—are not chosen Cite reasons for establishing meaningful positive relationships• Meets emotional needs—you feel loved & accepted • Enriches life—experiences, feelings, ideas are shared • Helps you get things done—support from others Assignment • Create a Relationship Tree • Branches—depict relationships • Leaves—depict contributions to relationships 2.1.4—Assignment • Evaluate the role proper etiquette plays in establishing & maintaining personal & professional relationships • Prom • Graduation • Funerals • Weddings • Showers Assignment--Write • Personal thank-you notes for a variety of situations— • Gifts • Recommendation for a college • Providing encouragement 2.1.5-Evaluate the effects of positive & negative communication-• Evaluate the effects of positive & negative communication • Verbal Communication—using words • Non-Verbal communication—using gestures • Body language—using gestures & other body movements to communicate • (fist—angry) Communication • Is a two-way street • One person sends messages & another receives them • When all goes well, messages are sent & received correctly • Relationships seldom thrive without good communication • Understanding fosters good feelings promoting even better communication Ways to build & maintain positive relationships• See things through their eyes • Accept others as they are • Work together to reach an agreement that satisfies both of you • Communication skills enable you to share ideas, thoughts & feelings Positive Relationships • Be honest with others & gain their trust • Show respect by being polite & considerate • Laugh at yourself—humor can lighten tense situations 2.1.6—Apply the concepts of• Compromise—give & take method of resolving differences • Mediation—act of resolving a conflict by a third party • Tolerance-ability to overlook or accept things you do not agree with Conflict Resolution • • • • • 1-Define the problem 2-Set limits 3-Negotiate 4-Get outside help (mediation) 5-Follow up Positive ways to resolve conflicts• • • • • • Use words not fists (use your mind) Resolve to not use violence Choose a quiet place to talk Take turns talking—keep an open mind Show respect Control your voice—stay calm—shows strength & character Resolving Conflicts• • • • • • Speak the truth Control your tongue Use effective body language Value your own safety Stay in control—keep cool Change the subject if possible Small Group Assignment• Solve a problem using this process • Share with the class 2.1.7—Investigate effective coping skills when dealing with• Peer Pressure—persuasion to conform by people in your age group • Cliques—group who exclude others from their circle Coping skills for peer pressure• Plan ahead—what to do in case situation arises • Take your time—stall & collect your thoughts • Be direct—firmly state how you feel—keep statements short • Make eye contact—shows you are serious Peer Pressure• Don’t apologize—you don’t need to justify your decisions to others—stick to your values • Suggest an alternative (safe) activity • Have a high self esteem • Rely on your faith Assignment • Create a public service announcement highlighting “coping skills” for teens 2.1.8—Assess the purpose & benefits of dating• • • • • Evaluate personalities Discover qualities you like in a partner Practice relationship skills Experiment with communication skills Have fun being sociable with others Desirable traits in a date• • • • Understanding Acceptance Willing to compromise A sense of humor • • • • Willing to communicate Trustworthy Patience Respectful • Can you think of more? Group Dates • Has many advantages: • Builds confidence for later dates one-on-one • Can give you an active social life that doesn’t depend on one person • Helps you feel more comfortable around the opposite gender • It appeals to most parents Engagement • Announces to family & friends intention to marry • A testing period for couples to evaluate relationships & make future plans • Gives couple time to plan a wedding & honeymoon Weddings • Signifies the start of a couple’s new life together • Announces marriage to the public • Satisfies legal requirements of the state Expenses of a Formal Wedding • Using on-line searches, create a document showing samples of your wedding choices • Label each expense & show a picture of it • Rubric: 1 point for each labeled item • Total points possible=52 • E-mail your assignment to me Examine unhealthy dating behaviors• Abuse: • Beatings, threats, criticism, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, neglect • Seek help when needed Abuse • • • • • • Victims suffer low self esteem Difficulty trusting others Many abusers were abused as children Behavior was learned & repeated Terms relating to this: Infatuation, stalking, date rape Mypaperboyfriend.com • Complete the dating activity Stop the Violence • FCCLA website Assignment • Create a poster to display about: • Purpose & benefits of dating • Unhealthy dating behavior 2.2 Assess how family structure impacts the dynamics of the family 2.2.1—Compare & contrast the different family structures • Adopted—are made family members by law • Blended—at least one spouse has a child from a previous relationship • Couple—husband & wife without children • Extended—parents, children & other relatives • Foster—assumes care of a child while problems are being resolved • Nuclear—husband & wife & their children Small Group Assignment • Create small posters identifying the different family structures –define & illustrate 2.2.2-Potential changes to the family that might impact the structure or • Function of the family unit: • • • • • Job change New baby Death Divorce New home Substance abuse Domestic violence Illness job loss Causes for lifestyle changes• • • • • Increasing birthrates More women in the workplace We are living longer (better health care) Most families move every 6 years Divorce is as common as marriage Assignment--Write • Identify one of these changes that a family might encounter • Describe how the family would be affected by that change 2.3 Assess individual characteristics & needs associated with each stage of the individual life cycle 2.3.1—Classify the characteristics of each stage of the life cycle with ages• • • • • • • • Infancy—0-1 Toddlerhood—1-3 Preschooler—3-5 School Age—5-12 Adolescence—12-18 Young Adult—18-40 Middle Adult—40-65 Late Adulthood—65+ Assignment • Draw, label & Illustrate each stage of the individual life cycle Developmental Areas • • • • • Mental—your mind (intellectual) Social—being with others Emotional—your feelings Moral—right from wrong (conscience) Physical—your body 2.3.2—Small Group Assignment • Choose a life cycle stage • List characteristics & needs associated with that stage of the life cycle • Research physical, emotional & social needs • Include visuals • Share your life cycle stage with the class 2.4 Investigate health & wellness challenges that impact individuals 2.4.1—Assess how a person’s health may be impacted by personal habits • • • • • • • Nutrition Sleep Drugs Seat belts Exercise Hygiene Rules Personal Health • • • • Choose friends who are drug free Eat fruits, vegetables, whole grains Get 1 hour of physical activity every day Drink water—sugar in foods & beverages are not good for you • Relax & rest—handle stress FCCLAinc.org • Student Body (national program) 2.4.2—Effects of drug & substance abuse on individuals & society • • • • • • • Tobacco Alcohol Steroids Inhalants Crack Meth ecstasy Coping with Abuse • • • • • • • • Teacher & Counselors Trusted Adults Hotlines Support Groups Health Care Professionals Shelters Agencies & Organizations Religious Organizations (church) Nurture Your Family—it is very valuable! • Pulling together as a family to survive & thrive 2.4.3—Possible causes & effects of eating disorders • Anorexia Nervosa—self-starvation, intense fear of weight gain • Binge—repeated episodes, uncontrolled eating • Bulimia—consumes many calories in a short time—then purges 2.4.4—Symptoms of Stress • • • • • • Increased fatigue (tired) Irritability Illness Breathing increases Heart rate quickens depression Reasons for Stress • Changes in your life • Crisis • problems Coping with Stress • Maintain a positive outlook • Focus on strengths & abilities (not disappointments) • Treat mistakes as learning experiences • Accept qualities about yourself you cannot change • Improve the qualities you can change Stress • • • • Develop positive ways to handle emotions Avoid self medication Learn to relax cry