The Critical Cs of Peacebuilding Dr. Maya Soetoro-Ng and Dr. Kerrie Urosevich University of Hawai‘i Manoa S With support from and in partnership with: Omidyar ‘Ohana Fund Association for Conflict Resolution Hawai‘i Chapter Family Hui University of Hawai‘i College of Education Hawai‘i Department of Education S Planting, Nurturing and Harvesting the CEEDS of PEACE We want to think about the harvest… By nurturing the ceeds to help children grow into compassionate, collaborative and courageous leaders in our families, schools, work places and communities. Goals 1. To bring together families, community organizations and school staff to learn the ceeds and strategies for raising peacebuilders. 2. To support teachers in integrating the ceeds of peace into existing curriculum and provide them with professional development opportunities. 3. To support families and community organizations in planting, nurturing and modeling the ceeds in their every day lives with their children. 4. To build bridges between home and school, ensuring children are hearing and seeing similar messages about peacebuilding in both places. 5. To raise generations of peacebuilders who can effectively problem solve the complex issues facing our communities. Barriers to Peace: a snapshot In Hawai‘i Ceeds for Hawai‘i: Ceeds for the World Why Plant? Why Now? S Unresolved indigenous rights issues S 7th highest poverty rate in the U.S. S 2nd in nation for meth related treatment admissions S Persistent school violence S Since 1997, Hawai‘i has topped the national average in domestic-violence homicides per capita S 6,000 reported cases of child abuse per year Around the World S 37 current armed conflicts, millions killed, 75% of victims are non-combatants S 195 million children have stunted development due to malnutrition S 2.5 million people trafficked every year, 80% of them women and girls, 79% of them for sexual exploitation Restorative Practices Outcomes Every child and adult: S Loves learning because Curiosity and Creativity are encouraged S Learns Compassion and how to be an empathetic listener S Has the ability to look at an issue with Critical Thinking skills S Works well with others through Collaboration S Learns to Complex Problem Solve by using a variety of Conflict Resolution strategies S Learns how to take Care of their bodies, physically and emotionally S Learns how to use their moral Courage to stand up for others who need it S Learns and practices Conservation and how to share our planet’s natural resources fairly and responsibly S Sees her or himself as an important part of a larger Community and contributes positively to that community Children Learn and Live Peace Through Teaching and Modeling Modeling Part 1 Modeling Part 2 Why 360°? 360° Thinking 360° Influence Home School Community •Critical •Compassionate •Creative •Collaborative •Courageous •Conflict Resolving To achieve peaceful and thriving communities…. Average Hours We Spend With Children 0-3 Families Teachers Caregivers Families Instructors Instructors School Age Teaching Peace Communication, Compassion, Courage, Community, Creativity, Critical Thinking Teaching Peace Critical Thinking, Collaboration, Compassion, Creativity Teaching Peace Compassion, Critical Thinking When do we begin planting ceeds? From birth…………………. S 85% of our brain development happens between the ages 0-5. S Research has noted changes in the prefrontal cortex (critical thinking and judgment), the cerebellum (attention, emotions and stress hormones) and the limbic system (memory formation and controlling emotions) in 3 year olds who are living with toxic stress. S The way we talk to our children, discipline (teach), nourish and structure family life, classrooms and programs is critical to the social/emotional and physical development of a young child. S The earlier we can promote peacebuilding, the better. From Infancy The power of….. Modeling Teaching Action Plans S Describe here Action Plan Framework Prepare the Soil inquiry and discovery Ceeds Tools Careful Listening •Double Listening •Open Ended Questions Compassion •What Would They Say? •Active Listening Critical Thinking •Identify Needs and Interests •Listen for Core Team Community •Deconstruct •Cast the Net Envision the Harvest create the future Ceeds Tools Critical Thinking •Think, Pair, Share •Change the Ending Creativity •Paint and Post the Future •Create Shared Values Community •Canoe Travel •Talking Sticks Remove the Weeds barriers to peace Ceeds Tools Critical Thinking •Shared Story Media •Systems Analysis Compassion •From the Source Storytelling •Try It On Careful Listening •Double Listening •Individual work/ Group pairings Plant the Ceeds for prevention Ceeds Tools Careful Listening •Ekphrastic Poetry (hear the message) •Weekly Family Meetings Compassion •Try It On •Literature Critical Thinking •Facing History in Ourselves •Doubting and Believing Complex Problem-Solving •Consensus Building •Rewind Game Creativity •Media comparisons Collaboration •Shared Decision-making Pacts •Shared Values and Commitments Courage •Role Play •My Kuleana Plant the Ceeds for intervention Ceeds Tools Careful Listening •Talking Stick •Weather Ball Compassion •Switch Seats Critical Thinking •Reflect and Reenter •Paths to Resolution Complex Problem-solving •Shuttle Diplomacy •Peace Rose •Mediation/Facilitation processes Creativity •Engage Nature •Movement Healing Collaboration •Ho‘oponopono Courage •Power of the Bystander Community •Restorative Justice Plant the Ceeds for sustained resolution S Contracts/Pacts S Sincere and Sustaining Apologies S Next Time Commitments S Peer Messaging S Taking Temperature S Monitoring and Evaluation Plant the Ceeds for elementary social studies benchmarks Benchmarks Ceeds Tools Plant the Ceeds for secondary social studies benchmarks Benchmarks Ceeds Tools Plant the Ceeds for elementary health benchmarks Benchmarks Ceeds Tools Plant the Ceeds for secondary health benchmarks Benchmarks Ceeds Tools Nurture to Sustain What do you need to make your plan successful? S Time? S Resources? S Support? To Learn More…… •Check out the Ceeds of Peace resource list •Sign-up for Family Hui if you have children birth to age 5 •Become a member of the Association for Conflict Resolution Hawai‘i for more workshop opportunities S