Life Space Crisis Intervention Establishing effective positive helping relationships with children Diagnosing and breaking self defeating patterns of behavior To resolve an emotionally charged event you must first deal with the feelings Thoughts---Feelings---Behavior The Power of Language Self Defeating Behavior Versus Bad Behavior Children Who Are Heard Listen • Children want to tell their story To resolve an emotionally charged event you must first deal with the feelings Thoughts---Feelings---Behavior a Perceiving Thinking Feeling Behaving: Understanding the Differences in Psychological Worlds Understanding the Dynamics of the Conflict Cycle Developing the Art of Listening: Attending Responding Decoding LSCI Institute THE CONFLICT The Conflict Cycle CYCLE STUDENT'S SELF CONCEPT IRRATIONAL BELIEFS 1 STRESSFUL EVENT 2 STUDENT'S FEELINGS 4 ADULT/PEER REACTIONS 3 STUDENT'S OBSERVABLE BEHAVIOR LSCI Institute 14 Kids in stress create in adults their feelings, and if not trained, the adults will mirror their behavior. Haim Ginott LSCI Institute LSCI Institute Activity #1 Discuss the students reactions and behavior Discuss the teachers reactions and behavior What was the driving force and interest for each of them LSCI Institute 13 What kids believe about themselves is more important in determining behavior than any facts about them. LSCI Institute "People are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of them." EPICTETUS, 1st Century A.D. LSCI Institute 21 Four Types of Stress 1. 2. 3. 4. LSCI Institute LSCI Institute Developmental Psychological Reality Physical COGNITIVE THEORY Stream of Consciousness: Continuous flow of observation and thought in the present. Perceptual personal history. Set: Fundamental beliefs based on Active Self-Talk: Conscious internal dialogue filtered by the Perceptual Set. LSCI Institute Most troubled students are not motivated to seek self-improvement programs, but to seek ways of justifying their faulty thinking. LSCI Institute Seven Defense Mechanisms Regression Denial Denial Conversion Rationalization Projection LSCI Institute Projection Sublimation Displacement 25 To resolve an emotionally charged event you must first deal with the feelings Thoughts---Feelings---Behavior Cognitive Map of the Six Stages of the LSCI Process Stage 1 Drain Off Stage 2 Timeline Staff relationship skills to obtain and validate the student's perception of the crisis. Stage 3 Central Issue Staff diagnostic skills to determine if the crisis represents one of six LSCI patterns of self-defeating behavior. Stage 4 Insight New Skills Staff empowering skills to teach the student new social skills to overcome his pattern of self-defeating behavior. Stage 6 Transfer of Training Staff consultation and contracting skills to help the student re-enter the classroom and to reinforce and generalize new social skills. LSCI Institute Reclaiming Stages Staff clinical skills to pursue the student's specific pattern of self-defeating behavior for personal insight and accountability. Stage 5 Diagnostic Stages Staff de-escalating skills to drain off the studentХs intense feelings while controlling one's counter-aggressive reactions. DRAIN OFF 1 DRAIN OFF TIMELINE 1 2 DRAIN OFF 1 TIMELINE CENTRAL ISSUE 2 3 The “Script” •Acknowledge the feelings: •Affirm. Make 2-3 affirming statements •Get the child’s perspective and restate •Set limits giving choices as needed: The Six Reclaiming Interventions Reality Rub: Errors in Perception Red Flag: Imported Problems New Tools: Poor Social Skills Symptom Estrangement: Justifying Harmful Behavior Massaging Numb Values: Behavior Driven by Guilt LSCI Institute Manipulation of Body Boundaries: Exploitation of Peers